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whats wrong with me?


Question Posted Wednesday September 1 2004, 7:34 am

okay well my two best friends go out... why does that bother me i mean i dont have feelings for my friend [hes a boy] but why does it bother me?? please answer people keep sayin i like him but i dont i need help soon

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babiigurl90 answered Thursday September 2 2004, 8:16 pm:
it might jus be bothering u bcuz ur afraid tht he might not wanna hang out with u or be ur friend.. its perfectly normal to feel a lil bit jealous.. but u shouldnt let tht fear of losing ur friendship effect wut u have together!.. well good luck! hope i helped!! xo0ox

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umpalumpa8793 answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 5:09 pm:
nothings wrong with u u just feel like the 3rd wheel

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Thickbabyie4u answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 4:36 pm:
I hate to break it to ya, but you do have feelings for tha boi. As much as I didn't wanna admit it about my best friend, I gave in. I understand you denyin that you like him, but I think you tryin to deny it cause you don't wanna like him when you do. The only thing In can say is to stay away from them when they together. It's the only thing that will prevent the feelings from comming if they haven't. Well I hope you understood this & I hoped I helped. Good Luck & God Bless! Beebyes!

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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 3:43 pm:
It probably bothers u cuz u feel like they are gonna be spendin a lot more time with eachother without you...

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BLoNDeWiTHBRaiNS73 answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 11:44 am:
There's two logic explinations but it's up to you to figure out which one is true by just going with your feelings. You might just be jealous or upset because your BEST FRIENDS probably hang out together more than they do with you OORR you do have feelings for him but you don't want to or don't want anybody to know. I'm going through the same situation right now so don't worry about it.

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xoMarisox answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 11:31 am:
u may be a lil upset that ur friends r goin out and u arent. dont wry though, u no when the time is rite. maybe ur friends arent even ready yet! beleive me, its better to wait then rush 2 do sompin. hope i helped! good luck!

xoxo, maris

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alisonmarie answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 11:02 am:
Well, I think it's normal to feel bothered - even if you have no feelings for either person and think they are great together.

They're forging a new bond together, and that excludes you. It's human to feel that way - just let them know that you still want to spend time with each of them individually, or together!

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UnluckyWishes answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 10:36 am:
Maybe you feel like your getting abandoned or that your loosing your friend.If you spent alot of time with him and now he's spending alot of time with someone else, so you feel like your loosing him, that could be why.Or maybe your just afraid something bad will happen and he'll get hurt.Hope i helped and you figure out why its bothering you.

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x0inVisiBlekiSs0x answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 10:14 am:
nothings wrong with you lol.. i am going through the EXACT same thing right now with one of my best friends who is a guy. yep the people always ask you if u like them.. i dont like my friend either in that way.. i just dont like sharing lol.. we both may be just a tad possevive..or you could just be looking out for ur friend, and really curious if your two friends will be doing anything together ;] i know exactly how u feel..its weird isnt it? u could ask ur friend if theres anything going on between u too.. ask both of them if u rele want.. asking about who their hanging out with means nothing since hes one of ur best friends.. i hope i helped =) leave me another one if u still have questions .. rate please =)

x00o gina

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Roxybabii922 answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 10:07 am:
You're probably feeling that they are gonna start leaving you out and you are gonna be the odd one and stuff and you dont want that to happen

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BrunetteBeauti answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 10:03 am:
heyy hun
it bothers u bc theyre a couple nd u feel leftout sumtymes.but dont wrry theyre still ur friendz nd dey care about u

xoxo
brunettebeauti

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