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i think i might like this boy whis younger then me. im in 8th grade hes in 7th. but the thign is i dont really kno him and im afriad of what my friends will think. what if he asks me out? what do i do? please help me

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I'm in your situation right now. I like this guy a year younger than me. My best friend thinks its weird but my other friend thinks its okay. I'm preparing to make a move but it doesn't matter what your friends think. You should get to know him and if you like him ask him out and your friends will hopefully come around if they didnt like the idea in the first place. Have them get to know each other also . . .if possible. lolz ***

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Ok me and my friend were at the school watching my boyfriend practice for football and after-ward they get changed so me and my friend were outside waiting for him and at my school its like a long path way and half way is the high school and then all the way down is the middle school and then theres like little tower things on the side and me and my friend were sitting against them and my friend is a lot bigger then me so I wouldn't be that notice-able..so my boyfriend walks by and I didn't notice it was him and my friend was like hey its your boyfriend ( no names used ) and he was walking with his friend and he doesn't like my friend so she was like hey its .... and he doesn't even look over at us he just like throws his hand behind him like waving and walks away...so I was like about to cry cause I thought he was gonna break-up with me and so after we was up there me and my friend go and walk up and I see him in his car and he waves to me like all friendly and stuff...so then we met our other friends and I tell them what happened and there all like talking about breaking-up with him or like telling him off and so I call him and I was like are you mad at me and hes like like all in a happy voice and I was like then why did you walk past me and ignor me and hes like what? when? and I was like when my friend said hey to you and hes like you were with her? and then he had to go so I told my friends and their like hes lying and I dunno who to belive!? please help! sorry its so long!! I'll rate you high just for reading it all!

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Well, I can give you some advice, but in the end, its really up to you what to do (obviously). Do you trust your boyfriend enough to believe him or your friends? Maybe he didn't notice you, maybe he didn't want to talk to you then for some reason, or maybe your friends are right. Talk to him and try hard to straighten things out and then talk to your friends and have them help.

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how do i get my gf from cutting herself?

OMG! does she know you know about it? Even if she tells you not to tell anybody, get help! Either help her to stop yourself or tell an adult. I know this sounds like something some teacher would say but with how many kids are dying these days, protect her.

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okay well my two best friends go out... why does that bother me i mean i dont have feelings for my friend [hes a boy] but why does it bother me?? please answer people keep sayin i like him but i dont i need help soon

There's two logic explinations but it's up to you to figure out which one is true by just going with your feelings. You might just be jealous or upset because your BEST FRIENDS probably hang out together more than they do with you OORR you do have feelings for him but you don't want to or don't want anybody to know. I'm going through the same situation right now so don't worry about it.

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theres this boy who i used to really really like for like 3 years. i never told him and during the summer i just kinda gave up. when i saw him at orientation i had no feelings wutsoever and i was so happy that i finally got over him. then when he was leaving i had this really wierd feeling. i kno i dont like him anymore but i wanna be good friends and i want him to touch me but not like nasty just hold me and stuff. i dont want friends with benefits or anything i just want him to hold me sumtimes and i want to be able to goof off witrh him like i always do. what should i do about it?

You should try talking to him. In the hallway just casually bump into him and ask if he has an email or a screen name. Start talking to him and become friends but remember, if it doesn't work out the first time, what a little bit then try again. It will work! Trust me, its happened to me before. lol

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