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Gender: Female
Location: Maine
Member Since: September 1, 2004
Answers: 9
Last Update: September 19, 2004
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ok well a while back my "best friend" went behind my back and we weren't friends nemore well now we r again but we arent best buds again but we're still rlly good friends and we even made a pact to never fight over guys!! and now i like a guy that she likes and she said if i triy to git w/ne guy that she doesnt even know but thinks is hot or likes that she wont be my friend nemore and i told her 2 remember the pact n shes like w/e and so now i liek this guy that she likes and i dont know what to do? she is makin me soo mad and all over dudes 2! what do u think? (link)
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i don't think she sounds like a true friend. A true friend would say go for it. it sounds like she cares more about guys than friendhsip, but you care evenly about both. she doesn't have the right to control you, you control your self. so ask yourself, is she really being a true friend?
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im a big christian. very religious--but the guy that i like, and likes me, is jewish. i know that sounds dumb, but seriously, i dont know how my parents would feel. what should i do if he asks me out? (link)
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I think you should talk to your parents about it. ask them how they'd feel. i don't think they wouldn't let you go out with them. if they really don't like the idea, just try to explain to them that you guys are both people, it's not like your two different species. or, this might be really hard, but if you have the courage if he asks you out, talk to him about how he feels. i hope that at least sort of helps!
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there is this girl I like and she has told me that she likes me and that she is really jealous person that likes me. The problem is that the person I like has a boyfriend. She likes him too. How are someways to convince her that I am better to go out with then the other guy. (link)
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don't try to break up this girl and her boyfriend, even if your jealous. Try to be a friend to her, help her whenever she needs it, but it's her decision who she wants to go out with, so just let her choose. Don't really try to prove yourself better, because i don't think she would like that, just be nice to her, even maybe tell her how you feel without pushing her.
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I am soooooo entirly confused! See I've liked this kid named... well lets say CJ.... I've like CJ for 2 years now... and from what I know he hasn't liked me. We've been friends for 2 years and I want something more of our relationship. He's been dropping clues that he has liked me but he also did this before, like 1/2 a year ago. The other day I was talking to him online and he asked me if I had a boyfriend and I said no and asked y hoping he might ask me out... but he said "uhh...nvm gtg" and then he signed off. So I am totally confused and I need advice of if he likes me and also what I should do next....
~*Confused*~ (link)
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to me, it sounds like he likes you! He could've just not told anyone he liked you, because he was shy. That's what it sounds like when you two were talking online. It sounds like he got nervous or scared, so he signed off. I think you should ask him out! I think you should try asking him out. plus, if he says no, then that's the worst that can happen. so, give it a try!
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my neighbor was pregnant with twins, not even 5 months in the the pregnancy her water broke and the babies were born, sadly, ian passed away because he wasn't strong enough to breath on his own. it's a closed ceromnoy so only my family and two others are invited. do you think i should go, the atmosphere of wakes just scare me peroid. honestly, i want to go, i'm just iffy about it. do you think she'd understand.. x3 (link)
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If it scares you to go there, then i think she'd understand. If you don't go it'd be really nice to write a card or something though, just do something nice for her. I'm sure then, if she didn't understand before, she would, because she'd know you care.
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Hi!!! I need your help, Im baby sitting this boy for almost a year now before her mom paying a fare salary but now I kinda don't like the way she pays me, I let her do that twice but now I don't think it's fare for me her mom paying me $5.00 for at least 4 hours, and I think that is so unfair. The boy is fine but he kinda eat a a lot so I need to fed him, because I dont want him to starve you know.
Im afraid at talkiing to people, because maybe she will get mad.
What should I say to her.
Help me!!
thanks! (link)
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You need to stand up for yourself. If you're babysitting for 4 hours and she gives you $5, say to her "actually, i charge $5 an hour" or however much you charge. Chances are she's not gonna get mad at you right there.
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Hey friend is so sensitive and it pisses me off how shoudl i tell her to toughen up (link)
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Just try to tell her straight out, she might get a little angry, but chances are it won't take her a while to get over it.
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nun of mi friendz r cheeleaders and i wanna b 1. idk if i should try out wut if they make fun of me or say its not like hott n stuff. wut do i do?? nd plz dont say dont care wut they think. my friendz r very open nd honest. (link)
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If you guys are true friends they won't make fun of you, but if your really nervous, then try making casual conversation about it. Like ask them what they think of chearleaders and stuff like that. But really, you should do what you wanna do. In my opinion chearleaders have way too many labels on them.
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this may be a little long sorry.
im a 13 year old girl.
okay ive been friends with this girl since i was really little her name is rachael she and my other friend brittany were my 2 best friends rachael has always been popular and me and brittany never were. this never was really a problem till recently when she started lying to us and saying she had chores when really she was with other friends and would never call us back or talk to us we tried telling her on the internet but she would get angry and block us so one time when she did this to me and brittany we knew her password so we were gonna get on her name and unblock ourselves well we got on her name and she was on talking to all her other friends even tho she had said she couldnt talk to anyone because she had to research something for her dad this really upset us so we started talking to her popular friends and they thought we were her so we asked all these guys out and one who was her ex and she hated said yes we also said things to make her look stupid like im scared of the dark she got really upset and told us she was going to call the cops, she never did. we called trying to apologize but the no one answered then she left for vacation she jsut got back and i have been trying to apologize but she just either hangs up or blocks me. i feel really bad and i know 2 wrongs dont make a right but i dont know how to get her to listen to me and now she is telling all her friends really mean things about me and making me look bad this upsets me and then i try explaining why i did it and she just wont listen. and tells me to *screw* off. im really sorry, how can i make her listen to me and restore my firendship?
~very bad friend (link)
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Before you try and restore your friendship first think if you really want to. Was she that great of friend to you? I know you guys have been friends for a while, but sometimes people change. But, if you really do want to restore this friendship, you should probably wait a little while before you talk to her again. She has a good right to be mad, so i would at least wait a week. The best way to talk to her would be in person, like at school or something. A place where she can't run away. Just sit her down and talk to her.
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