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there is this girl I like and she has told me that she likes me and that she is really jealous person that likes me. The problem is that the person I like has a boyfriend. She likes him too. How are someways to convince her that I am better to go out with then the other guy.
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don't try to break up this girl and her boyfriend, even if your jealous. Try to be a friend to her, help her whenever she needs it, but it's her decision who she wants to go out with, so just let her choose. Don't really try to prove yourself better, because i don't think she would like that, just be nice to her, even maybe tell her how you feel without pushing her.
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Well, don't break up there relationship, because I mean you wouldn't want someone to break you and a girl up, would you? But, just be her friend and always be there for her. Show her how sweet you are and that you wouldn't hurt her and stuff. I mean don't make her fall in love with a different person, show her the real you. And you can only hope for her to like you back and then break up with her boyfriend. But, I mean flirt with her and stuff and show her you're interested. Thats all you really can do until they break up. But, for now, just show her you're better than that guy, you'll treat her better and stuff. I hope this helps and tell me how it goes, good luck hun. If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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Don't EVER try to break up a solid relationship. The guilt will be icky, and if the boyfriend of the girl have a crush on figures out it was you that broke them up, can you imagine how mad he'd be? She might be mad, too. For all you know, that other guy might really be better for her.
I can imagine that this isn't quite what you want to hear, but I really think you should not try to break up a relationship.
There are always hard feelings from someone, even if it isn't intentional, and that can get nasty.
You've gotta let the girl make her own choice. Don't try to make her see that "you're the better guy" or whatever. If you are, she might see it for herself.
Hope this helps on some level!
-Siren =)
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