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this may be a little long sorry.
im a 13 year old girl.
okay ive been friends with this girl since i was really little her name is rachael she and my other friend brittany were my 2 best friends rachael has always been popular and me and brittany never were. this never was really a problem till recently when she started lying to us and saying she had chores when really she was with other friends and would never call us back or talk to us we tried telling her on the internet but she would get angry and block us so one time when she did this to me and brittany we knew her password so we were gonna get on her name and unblock ourselves well we got on her name and she was on talking to all her other friends even tho she had said she couldnt talk to anyone because she had to research something for her dad this really upset us so we started talking to her popular friends and they thought we were her so we asked all these guys out and one who was her ex and she hated said yes we also said things to make her look stupid like im scared of the dark she got really upset and told us she was going to call the cops, she never did. we called trying to apologize but the no one answered then she left for vacation she jsut got back and i have been trying to apologize but she just either hangs up or blocks me. i feel really bad and i know 2 wrongs dont make a right but i dont know how to get her to listen to me and now she is telling all her friends really mean things about me and making me look bad this upsets me and then i try explaining why i did it and she just wont listen. and tells me to *screw* off. im really sorry, how can i make her listen to me and restore my firendship?
~very bad friend
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*Thinks to himself why girls have so much trouble with thier friends* Ok. Think to yourself, "Does it really matter if she wants to talk to other people?" Try to meet her in person, alone with no one else there, and apologize. Trust me being popular in school doesn't matter at all. I used to not be popular, get made fun of, that type of stuff. So I just started being nice to everyone. Then *poof* I'm popular. So just be nice to her. And trust me, everything goes away in highschool. All your enemys, and "popular tables". It more goes into groups. lol sorry for rambling. Try making new friends also. Just say hi to someone and ask if they wanna come over sometime. well good luck.
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Before you try and restore your friendship first think if you really want to. Was she that great of friend to you? I know you guys have been friends for a while, but sometimes people change. But, if you really do want to restore this friendship, you should probably wait a little while before you talk to her again. She has a good right to be mad, so i would at least wait a week. The best way to talk to her would be in person, like at school or something. A place where she can't run away. Just sit her down and talk to her.
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it doesnt sound like yall had much of a frienship to being wit... its not really like u ruined anything... i think she was just lookin for an excuse to not have to chill wit yall... its ok tho... try to talk to her and tell her how u feel... keep in mind tho... u CANT make her listen... u CANT change the way she feels... so dont waste too much energy on her... if shes moved on from yallz frienship than u cant really do much other than move on... tru friends are there fo life... they dont let stupid fights get between them
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This is tough, if I was your friend I'd be mad at you too. It'll be hard gaining her trust back, but just leave her alone for a while and maybe she'll forget about it in a month or something!
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