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how to stop my girlfriend to stop cutting herself?
how do i get my gf from cutting herself?
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OMG! does she know you know about it? Even if she tells you not to tell anybody, get help! Either help her to stop yourself or tell an adult. I know this sounds like something some teacher would say but with how many kids are dying these days, protect her.
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Well first you have to understand why she cuts then plz get her some help, ask her to find a support group and make sure she goes at least one time.
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heyy hun
talk 2 her about it. if she doznt stop get help. take her 2 a conselor or sumthing
xoxo
brunettebeauti
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usually cutters dun like it when people like us tell her to stop, chances are she wouldnt listen to ya. as her bf, u should stand by her. make sure to keep all sharp objects aways from her. she could be going through a tough time, thats why as her bf u should find out whats the problem and help her through this period in her life. make her feel loved and appreciated. -Rei
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If someone is cutting, that usually is a sign that they cannot handle their emotions anymore. They need outside help - and not neccesarily from a boyfriend.
I think the first step would be to share your concern; let your girlfriend know that if she's having a bad moment, she can pick up the phone and call you - but only if you are willing to take that responsibility.
I think the safest step is to talk to your parents about what to do - her parents will probably need to be involved. If you don't want to talk to your parents, try getting a school guidance counselor involved.
She'll be embarassed and possibly angry, but you are standing up for her - you are helping her get the emotional support she needs to be able to deal with life.
Good luck.
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Tell her how you feel about it, tell her that it scares you and stuff
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you can talk to your gf and ask her why she cuts herself, be there for her and try to comfort her in any way possible. if her cutting is really dangerous, you might want to find help for her... depends how far into the problem you want to go i guess. good luck, you sound like a really caring person =] -ask_anything
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