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should I believe him?!
Ok me and my friend were at the school watching my boyfriend practice for football and after-ward they get changed so me and my friend were outside waiting for him and at my school its like a long path way and half way is the high school and then all the way down is the middle school and then theres like little tower things on the side and me and my friend were sitting against them and my friend is a lot bigger then me so I wouldn't be that notice-able..so my boyfriend walks by and I didn't notice it was him and my friend was like hey its your boyfriend ( no names used ) and he was walking with his friend and he doesn't like my friend so she was like hey its .... and he doesn't even look over at us he just like throws his hand behind him like waving and walks away...so I was like about to cry cause I thought he was gonna break-up with me and so after we was up there me and my friend go and walk up and I see him in his car and he waves to me like all friendly and stuff...so then we met our other friends and I tell them what happened and there all like talking about breaking-up with him or like telling him off and so I call him and I was like are you mad at me and hes like like all in a happy voice and I was like then why did you walk past me and ignor me and hes like what? when? and I was like when my friend said hey to you and hes like you were with her? and then he had to go so I told my friends and their like hes lying and I dunno who to belive!? please help! sorry its so long!! I'll rate you high just for reading it all!
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Guys aere dick heads. if you are near someone that he dont like he wont come over and talk to you. Guys dont like to be pressured when they're around their friends. Don't believe him. Guys lie tro their girlfirends all the time. If he sees you and ignores you then hes not worth it. If he dont like your friends then dont like his. Good luck with your boyfriend.
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Well, I can give you some advice, but in the end, its really up to you what to do (obviously). Do you trust your boyfriend enough to believe him or your friends? Maybe he didn't notice you, maybe he didn't want to talk to you then for some reason, or maybe your friends are right. Talk to him and try hard to straighten things out and then talk to your friends and have them help.
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It sounds to me like he didn't see you behind your friend, making it a genuine mistake on his part - if he had been deliberately ignoring you, it would make sense for him to continue his behaviour when you saw him at his car and when you spoke to him.
If you are still suspicious, probe him a bit more, but if you do believe his story don't let your friends comments get to you, and politely explain to them that it's all sorted out now. Your friends undoubtedly have your best interests at heart, but they're probably a little biased as they heard the story that he'd ignored you before they'd heard any explanation. If you tell them firmly that you believe your boyfriend (providing you do, of course) and it's sorted out, then hopefully they'll understand. Good luck!
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well maybe he didnt see you... or maybe he pretended not to see u cuz hes tryin to act all tiight or sumthing... sometimes people do that... usually cuz they are confused about what they want... whatever it is.. talk to him about it... tell him how it makes u feel... see how he reacts... if hes a good bf overall... dont let this get to u... but if hes not... well than u probably shouldnt be wit him... dont ever cry over a guy... there r plenty of fish in the sea...
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You even said that you wouldent be noticeable..so maybe he really didnt see you:) Dont worry about it..
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