ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month now and we talk all the time on the phone and online but when we get to school we dont talk at all! we haven't even hugged..! and like all we do is say hi or wave and walk away like we're in health and Intro to something together and like everyone always talks but we never do! well me and my friend Sam are going to watch him practice and the kid she likes practice for football so if you have any advice on how to get him to talk to me in school please hurry cause my friend is coming over now! alright thanks!
xoRachel answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 7:24 pm: Do you try to talk to him in school? You should try that if you don't already. Just go up to him and start talking to him in class. Maybe he's nervous when he's around a bunch of other people and not just you, or not just talking to you. I think you should try talking to him first and see what happens from there.. maybe he'll start talking to you =c) Leave me one in my inbox if I can be of any more help!
Love, RacheL [ xoRachel's advice column | Ask xoRachel A Question ]
Jamison answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 6:44 pm: Next time ya'll are on the phone kinda mention it. Say you know, `It's funny, we talk all the time on the phone but never in person!` just see what he says. Tell him your gonna go up & talk to him the next day & do exactly that. Or you could kinda play around/flirt & say `Fine, I'm gonna ignore you in the halls` haha & when you see him look the other way. That always strikes a conversation w/ me and someone. Well good LuCk gURL !LOVE YA! [ Jamison's advice column | Ask Jamison A Question ]
joolaygurl89 answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 5:54 pm: You're both shy. You should make the first move...go hug him in the hallway next time. He should take that as a pleasant surprise.
It sounds like this guy isn't used to having a girlfriend. Give him some time to adjust. If it's been a while and you've been patient, and still you guys don't get any closer (emotionally and physically, heh), then maybe it's time to let him go. Wouldn't it just get boring after a while? [ joolaygurl89's advice column | Ask joolaygurl89 A Question ]
funkychick107 answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 5:07 pm: Ok, heres what i think. I think you , your bf, or both, are nervous about showing each other attention in the halls. You could at least walk together, and chat, and maybe make plans to do stuff and stuff like that. Hope I helped! [ funkychick107's advice column | Ask funkychick107 A Question ]
xxoBriannax answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 4:49 pm: Talk to him first.
xForeverxForgottenx answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 4:37 pm: go up to him and either start talking to him youself, like hi, whats up and all that. or talk to him about it and ask him why. he might be thinkging the same thing you are. so take action and go up to him. just start the conversation. hope i helped. [ xForeverxForgottenx's advice column | Ask xForeverxForgottenx A Question ]
AnDiE answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 4:31 pm: kay!! omg.. l0l.. that has happened to me b4 too.. like.. all tha tyme with people hoo i talk to over tha computer.. and then i see them at sk0ol.. and its all quiet.. but yea.. i thynk tha best thyng for that is just to go up to him and start talkyn to him and just.. lyk.. talk to him bout sumthyn yall wre talkyn bout tha dae b4.. on tha computer or what ever and yea.. l0l.. he shuud talk bak.. just TrY not to make it weird.. lyk.. akward with yall!! :D
BluE_eyEd_BeaUty answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 4:29 pm: HmM..sounds like a bad bf to me!! tell him how you feel and if that doesnt work..then dump him..cuz we all need a bf that talks and is there..phsysically (or w/e lOlz) and not technically...so find a guy who isnt ashamed to be around a great person like u! [ BluE_eyEd_BeaUty's advice column | Ask BluE_eyEd_BeaUty A Question ]
EmbracedxRain answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 4:22 pm: He's probably just shy or nervous around you in person. Yu should go up to him and start a conversation first. Or ask him why you guys hardly talk in person. I'm sure you'll figure thisgs out =) Hope it helps *AMbER* [ EmbracedxRain's advice column | Ask EmbracedxRain A Question ]
Sherry answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 4:20 pm: You should just go up to him and talk to him and ask him why you 2 dont talk at school..maybes hes shy...just see whats up..good luck! [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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