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hEyA kiDz!! i'm AsH! uhh i love to shop! :-) and hang with my skippyz...gotta love'em... i love watchin fuse..it rocks my socks!! i also love thrice, linkin park, korn, kittie, story of the year, lost prophets, slipknot, yellowcard, 3 days grace, taking back sunday, uhh and so on! lOlz..and i love my bf johnny :-D badly!! well if ya wanna know more..then hit me up!
E-mail: yUmMyGuMmYbEaR16@hotmail.com
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Occupation: uhh student!!
Age: 14
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Member Since: August 30, 2004
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well through out my life i have always been pretty sad and thinking how ugly i am when people all the time say im so pretty and everything i just dont belive it well anyways i never seem to be happy about anything and i dont know what to be happy about i guess im sorta depressing but love being happy and smileing but i never seem to feel that why ever can you tell me some things i should be happy about cause i dont know anything and i dont wanna turn gothic? (link)
well maybe you juss let it all go thru one ear and out the other!! maybe u have depression..maybe ur juss goin through a tough time..talk to close friends dont let it build up it doesnt work trust me..and gothic lol u wont go gothic!! juss try actually listening to others who think highly of u...and ignore ur mind n follow ur heart! im me at piink kisses x or email me at yummygummybear16@hotmail.com if ya wanna chat!!


well...i am a cutter. i have been cutting for about a year now. by the way i am 13 and female. i want to know why i feel so great after i do cut. its like nothing is wrong after i cut. i have tried to stop....but it has never worked.

also... do u know where i could find other people that are self addmitted cutters? (link)
eh well..i will admit i used to also i used to be addicted! :-/ not so great..i will tell u that if u rilly wanna stop u will..and u'll feel better after u do! trust me lol..but why u feel good afterwards..prolly cuz ur havin stress moments and it might "release" some so yah...if u wanna talk u can! email or IM me...


Alright heres my problem..me & this guy REALLY like eatchother but the thing is..hes 3 years older then me..but we don't really care about the age..hes scared to ask me out and i don't ask guys out..what do i do?

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13 (link)
tell him how you feel!! my bf is 3 yrs older too..but hey! we've been together for 6 months now :-) it all works out when u "express" urself in a nongay way lol


why do people cut themselves because i have a friend that does and its obvious. my friend always blames it on "the cat" but cat scratches don't make crazy grid patterns. (link)
well some ppl think it takes away pain when rilly it doesnt..it adds it to ur body and it can do damage and scar u for ur life..maybe shes goin thru tough stuff she never mentions to u..talk to her..ask her if she wants to talk to u y'know? juss support her! lolz


okay well i have 3 best friends one is emily i've had for 3 years and the other two brittany and meghyn and i spent the night with meghyn and brittany this weekend, and emily is always like your ditching me.. sometimes i feel like i have more fun with brittany and meghyn then emily well see meghyn and brittany are popular and brittany is in my class so we hang out alot.. so hanging out with them makes me popular but emily is not so popular... what do i do about it? me and emily are good friends but sometimes it gets annoying we have been best friends for 3 years.. what do i do? mods please dont delete i really need help. (link)
well ask urself...whos been there more? who cares more? who knows you best? whoever comes up..is ur best bud..dont go hangin out with kids who are popular cuz u wanna be..thats not a real friend..and are u sure u wanna be in the popular crowd? juss dont ditch ur real friends for fakes kay?


so i am goin into da 8th grade and my skin is tan and i have dark brown eyes .i dont kno which eyshadow to use, and i don't know what i shud do wit my hair, my hair is dark brown and is straight. please help.
I RATE :) (link)
hmm you should go with darkish colors..like the smoky eye look..like black eyeliner brightens up eyes..and ur hair..try scrunchin it up whenever u get outta the shower and put gel or mousse in it and blow dry it!! its rilly cute! lOlz



Okay this may sound a bit weird. . buh im 14 yrs old and i dont have like a real nipple yet.. when im cold or sumthing liek that.. yaah it looks like it but then it goes away.. please help! (link)
no need to worry!! your still growin in developin! so juss take time and let it grow lOlz..didnt sound right..lOlz sowwie.. :-D


okay well hi u know how i told u bout me and my b/f how he wuz goin in to High school and im still in 8th well...we broke up! I cried all day saturday and a lil sunday. I miss him sooo much and i still love him. We broke up because we neva saw eachother nemore and he wuz jus too busy for me and it wuz too hard for him because i guess all his friends have g/fs at skool! Every day it gets harder for me to not talk to him. Every day i wonder if he still loves me and misses me he told me when we decided to break up that he still loved me and he gonna miss me soo much but that wuz then and this is now! Will i eva get ova him???? is there nething i can do to get ova him??? PLZ help! Kaila (link)
go out and have fun!! live life like theres no one stoppin ya!! do things that made u happy before..even if it means doing krazy stuff lOlz..be with ur girlz or go to the mall or somethin...it will eventually get him off ur mind!


ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month now and we talk all the time on the phone and online but when we get to school we dont talk at all! we haven't even hugged..! and like all we do is say hi or wave and walk away like we're in health and Intro to something together and like everyone always talks but we never do! well me and my friend Sam are going to watch him practice and the kid she likes practice for football so if you have any advice on how to get him to talk to me in school please hurry cause my friend is coming over now! alright thanks!

-I rate high- (link)
HmM..sounds like a bad bf to me!! tell him how you feel and if that doesnt work..then dump him..cuz we all need a bf that talks and is there..phsysically (or w/e lOlz) and not technically...so find a guy who isnt ashamed to be around a great person like u!


My friend liked this guy for a while, so I decided to in a way set them up. He had quite a lot of free time, so they started to hang out with each other often. He really likes to wrestle, and has always asked us to try to trip him or flip him over. My friend decided to try to do it again and again, and she'd always loose. Sometimes she gets hurt, and asked him to stop, but sometimes he just do it again. He puts her down sometimes, and my other friends and I can't tell if he was always joking or not. They spend a lot of time alone, but my friend don't really know him that well. She's a pleasing kind of person, and I read an article in Teen People that made me worry a little. Is it normal for them to be always wrestling? Am I just paranoid? (link)
HmM well..if he puts her down...thats not much of a great guy..if he was a real sweetie he would be nice n "compliment" her..not diss her!! i say dump him n find someone better...and hon your so not paranoid..talk to her about it..tell her staight up how ya feel kay? lOtZ of lOvE!




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