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okay.. there is this guy who ive known for about two years.. and we have always just been friends.. and yea... so i asked him to ride the bus home with me today so that i wont be all alone and he did.. and when we were on there... he asked me.. "will you giv me a chance? " and i laughed and was like.. no!! because i thought he was joking.. but he wasnt and he got all sad.. and he got off at the next stop.. and it wasnt even his.. but yeah.. i feel bad.. and i dont know what to do.. i mean.. he is really nice and i would HATE to hurt him.. but yea.. what do you think i should do tomorrow when i see him?
sorry it was so long.. ill rate.. because i really need help!
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if u like him then tell him. when you see him tommorow just go up to him and be like "hey im sorry bout yesturday i honestly thought u were juss playin. i would give u a chance, i didnt mean it like that. im sorry" that will prolly work. if u only like him as friend then tell him that your sorry, that it came out the wrong way.
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Well, when you see him, tell him you thought he was joking, and tell him that you would give him a chance (you should)
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I think that tomorrow when you see him you should tell him that you thought he was joking, and instead ask him out (that is, if you like him.) If you don't have feelings for this kid then you need to tell him that you extremely like him as a friend but nothing more that that and you are sorry about yesterday. GoOd LuCk
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I was kind of in the same situation with my boyfriend now Tony. He always joked around with me and asked me out when he didnt really want to be with me. but one day he asked me out.. and I did the same thing you did. I laughed and said no.. I felt really bad afterward because he was upset with me. But when I talked to him I just told him that i thought he was kidding with me because he had done that alot to me before. and if you guys joke around alot together. tell him that.. He will understand. If you want to be with him. You need to tell him before its too late. and if you dont want to be with him. Tell him why you dont want to be with him..
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~*Jackie~*
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Just tell him you thought he was kidding. Also tell him you don't wanna ruin your friendship...although it may be a lie it will surely make him feel better! Hope I may have helped some. jamers«---
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Apologize?? Do you like him? Go out with him if you do.
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Apologize to him. Explain to him why you reacted that way. IF you want to go out w/ him, ask him out.
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Well, if he seemed like he was joking, then your reaction was sorta ok. You couldhave asked, r u serious? but u didnt, so its ok. But go up to him and tell him ur really sry, u thought he was joking. If u do like him, tell him u will give him a chance, and if u dont, tell him ur better of as friends. Hope I helped!
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talk to him about it and be like sorry i thought u were kidding...but hay maybe give the kid a chance since hes nice and all =D
*jesikuh
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First off, you definatly need to apologize and make sure he understands that you thought he was joking. If he wasn't joking would you still say no? Because you should tell him that, just in a nicer tone. Tell him that you love being his friend and you don't feel right making the next step. If you think he could be a potential boyfriend, give him a chance. You never know. After you go out with him you might see him in a diferent light. If it's just not working try and go back to the way it was. Just make sure he know you still like him, just not in that way. Good luck!
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If you don't like him, don't go out with him. Or if you do, just tell him that you thought he was joking with you or something.
-xXoBrianna
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tell him that you thought he was just joking. and that you're sorry if you hurt him. and then if you like him then yeah give him a chance. but if you dont then tell him that you're sorry but you dont see him as a boyfriend and that you still want to be really good friends. hope i helped. good luck.
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