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the guys and me
ok well I think I'm OKAY pretty... I mean Ive been told i'm "beautiful" by some people... but so has everyone right? ok well my friend is also OKAY pretty too. But whenever we go out the guys usually end up more attracted to me. I have no idea why I mean we're both really nice and everything... and its not like I mean for anything to happen. And sometimes I dont even like the guy! it bugs me sometimes. But also sometimes the guy SHE likes likes me... I feel so bad I mean I dont even do anything! But she always gets frustrated (which i can understand) but theres nothing I can do about it! Ive talked to her... and she knows it but still she get mad! I dont know what to do
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there really is a simple solution of making yourself ugly and bichy but i doubt you wana do that. you should encorage her to join a club that you will not join that way shell have contact with guys without them falling for you. if a guy asks you out you can always say "im taken but i think youd like my friend"
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i think shes jealous . . maybe you should hook ur friend and a guy up, asy good things about ur friend to the guy and maybe the guy will start liking her
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there was a question almost exactly like this coming from your friend's perspective earlier. so from your side my advice would be to help your friend with some of the guys by putting in a good word about her, getting her to be more in with all the guys you meet- NEVER leave her for a guy. thats the last thing youll ever want to do. you should tell her that you feel bad, and you do want to help her but your not always sure how to. come up with some ways together... just dont let this one issue damage your friendship- because guys dont always last forever. good luck=] -ask_anything
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Perhaps you come off as more confident as she does. Or perhaps, you ARE more confident than she is. Basically, in this case, it sounds like they are more attracted to your personality than they are yours.
There isnt much you can do. Perhaps you can set her up w/ a guy you know.
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Humm, well I know you said she is as pretty as you, but does she wear things that bring out her beauty? For example, do the clothes she wears suit her figure, and do the colours suit her. Or it could have something to do with how she smells [I'm talking about pherimones]. If your scent is stronger than hers then you might be 'drowing her out' so to speak. Maybe she could try some perfume that suits her as well.
Other than that all I can suggest is making sure she gets the spotlight sometimes. If she's shy and you are out-going then push her a bit to talk to the guys and flirt with them, and try and move yourself into the back ground.
I hope this helps *hug*
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