Hello, I'm Maplesyrup and I'm here to answer your questions. I like to eat, sleep, draw, dream, and take showers. Yes, I am indeed lazy. And I my scanner is busted so I won't be putting up a real pic of me for a very long time.
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how do I deal witht he 23 year old? she knows we had a good friendship,,know it bothers her at times. know her through my good friend we all worked togethre se still do he left company before they started to date (link)
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Hello, I'm sorry this is a bit late, but what exaclty seems to be the problem here? Are you jealous? Do you not like her, is she a bad person? Whatever the problem is, take into consideration: Does your male friend truly love the girl? If he does, and she loves him back, then try to get to know the girl. See what her interests and hobbies are, and maybe you could get to know her a bit more and like her more.
If she's bothered by your previous friendship, tell her that you two are just friends, and nothing more. She won't be entirely convinced, but at least she'll have some closure.
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well, i'm in grade seven and i'm the one outsider in my grade. i'm the one wearing the black makeup, etc. I really like this person alot and i know about at least 6 other girls that like him as well. me and him like most of the same things, hate the same things and we really get along great i know he's "the one"....or at least i think he is. i've always been very opposed to men and this is the first time i've ever liked any guy. what should i do to show him how i feel? and while i'm asking questions, how can i make some people take me seriously? most people know i'm crazy, fun, outgoing but some just don't take what i say seriously. (link)
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First, as for your people taking you seriously question, why don't you just lay of the goofyness for a while? You can show people your seirous by doing little thing that you state you will do. Like, you can say something like "Gee, I think I'll have the Mystery Meat special" and actually take it. Second, as for your boy question, you can hang around him more and show him more affection. Or, you can just leave a not in his book, but since what you write down cannot be taken back, since it's on paper, be carefu what you write.
Hope that helps!
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ok at ed white high school there dis boi micheal anderson anyone know him well if u do tell him i like him pplz (link)
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First of all, please type more grammer, spelling, and punctuation aware. That hurt my eyes.
Second, what the hell makes you think that a bunch of strangers from all of the world is going to know a 'boi' named Micheal Anderson, one of the many Micheal Andersons of the world, in a place called Ed White High School, when you haven't even told us where it is? And even IF I knew who he was, and where the school is, who do I tell him likes him? You haven't even stated who you are.
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I don't know why, but everywhere I go, Oompa Loompas follow me. They laugh and call me George. I've been thinking of flying away on my spaceship i.e. banana peel and going to live on the planet of cheese-in-a-can, but I'm not sure if they have cable there. Do you have any idea if the planet has cable, or if there is any way to avoid the Oompa Loompas? Please help, they already took my sanity! 'Twas all pink and sparkly! (link)
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You know, that's what we named our school newspaper....
Bring them over to California. Let's see how they handle my army of evil pencils. By the time they're (the pencils) are finished with the Oompa Loompas, your sanity will grow its own, and it would have run away with the spork and the plate.
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Me and my best freind really like eacother alot. We have a history of 'relationships' in the past, but it was middle school, and I don't really count it...But anyways, back to the present. He was my date to homecoming (which was a month ago) and at the dance, he told me he still liked me. Well, i've always liked him, so i thought everything would be cool and work out. A week passes by and he says nothing. I confront him, and he tells me he wants to wait for his license. Well, he now has his license, and has for a week. But he still hasent done anything. He acts like he likes me, and I'm posotive he does, but i'm tired of waiting. Hes told all his friends (mostly girls, that ask him whats going on between us) that he was going to ask me out this week, but guess what? HE HASENT. What should I do? (And no, I dont want to be the one to ask him out) Thank you! (link)
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Well, maybe he's just waiting for the right moment. Or it could be that he's shy, and he doesn't want to risk rejection. Either wait for him to ask you out, or ask him out yourself.
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So I was walking this evening and I accidently stepped into some kerosene. I just shrug it off and keep walking with my jazz hands lookin' all cool when this guy runs by and yells "That building is on fire!" So I start running towards it all like "yeah, who's your hero now?" with my jazz hands, looking cool. I get next to the firy part and my shoes are on fire randomly. Now I'm on a laptop someone gave me. What should I do?! (link)
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Water. Shoes. Pour.
Good...
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ok i have a problem....there is this girl and she was one of my good friends untill one day her mom calls to complain all these mean thing that i did even though there not true....so what do i do...i cant just not be friends with her! SHES MY NEITHERBOR!!! (link)
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Where did your friend's mom get that idea from? Tell her that you did none of those things, and maybe she'll understand.
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What happens if you put this side up face down while popping microwave popcorn? (link)
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*-!BAM!-*
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I have been going out with this boy for 4 mnths and i really care about him. I feel like everything thats going wrong in school or home i take it out on him and he will think i'm acting to bitchy and i'm scared of him breaking up with me. what should i do? (link)
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Don't take it out on him. Take it out on something else. Whether it's from painting a picture, or punching something, as long as you take it out on something else, it should be fine.
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I met a guy in a chat room....We have a lot in common and a lot of the same interests. I am 15 and he is 37...he looks way younger. I have been hanging out with him after school and at the mall. I want to date him. I am very attracted to him and he is SO nice and sweet to me. He takes me to lunch, etc. Should I get involved with him even though we have a huge age difference? I don't think it makes a difference. (link)
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No! He may seem as though he is very nice and sweet, but what if he is just beig to nice to you to get permission to do something more sexual?Don't waste your time with him.
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There's this smart, great, funny, talented, awesome, well-rounded guy at my school that girls would fall head over heels for to date. There's just one problem: he's black, and we attend a predominantly white school. Many people wouldn't have a problem with this, but his parents won't let him date girls that aren't black, and all of the black girls in our area are "ghetto", and he's not like that. My friend asked him to prom and they were both psyched but his parents won't let him go because she's white. He's never had a girlfriend and I feel really bad. Thoughts on this issue? (link)
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Why don't you ask your friend to go over to her his house for a study date as friends? Maybe she'll grow on the parents and they'll see that she's really nice after all, even if she's not black.
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If toast always lands butter-side down, and cats always land on their feet, what happens if you strap toast to a cat and drop it? My first friend said that the cat would eat the toast. My 2nd friend wanted to know what kind of toast: rye, or sourdough, and when I said it was regular white bread, she bit me. I said that the cat and toast would be sucked into a rift in the space-time continuum and the world would end. Who is right? (link)
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It rolls around so you can't tell which one landed first, and when you quit trying to see it the cat stops rolling, it stops rolling.
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Why are squirrels such vicious and demonic rodents? (link)
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Because the snakes made them that way.
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so i'm sailing aboard a ship n noticed there are a few holes in it. microsoft has told my friend that we shud fill them. what shud we fill them with??? we could use socks but we rnt sure cos they mite just soak up the water from the sea n the earth will b dry! can u suggest a sock substitte? (link)
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Put some hair in the sock then put the sock inside the hole. That way, if the sock starts to absorb the water, the hair can slap the sock silly.
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Why aren't you married yet? (link)
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Because I'm young. Younger than 16.
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There is this person who i hate but she thinks i'm her friend. My best friend feels the same way as i do and right now they are in an all out war. She won't understand that my friend and i don't want her around. How do i make her understand without hurting her too much? (link)
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First, think of a reason why you don't like her. Then get a person who shares her intrests to come sit with you at lunch. Once they get talking and get friendly with each other, talk to the girl you don't like in private saying you don't like her. Break it to her gently and tell her the reason why you don't like her. Maybe then, she'll get the hint and go off with her friend and leave you alone.
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I'm eating too much unhealthy junk food. What are some healthy snacks I can eat instead of chips and sodas? (link)
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Some good ones are grapes, apples, bananas, anything sweet and fruity should do the trick. And you can make salads if you get sick of fruits. Mmm.....this is making me hungry already....
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I work at FedEx and there's this guy that got hired on the same time I did. We became friends, and we've seen each other outside of work but strictly as friends. Now, for no reason at all, he's stopped talking to me. He goes into work a different way so I don't see him. He doesn't talk to me online, and when he sees me online, he puts up an away message. I figure he's met someone but I thought we were just friends so that shouldn't matter. I hate feeling like someone is avoiding me like a plague, especially when I didn't do anything. What's going on? (link)
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Let him off for a while, maybe he has some personal issues or problems to get over and wants to be alone for awhile. If he doesn't start being warm to you again, talk to him straight up and ask him why he's been ignoring you.
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ok, first i need to tell u this whole story
last year i met him, and we were distant friends, i guess if thats what u wanna call it, now, this year, we are like, brother sister close. except, i dont want to be. i want to be more. i told him this....but on the same day that 3 other girls told him about their love for him too!. He told me that he doesn't want to choose between all of us because he knows that somebody will get hurt. Also, he had liked this same girl for a while. even if he didnt like her, i would still be callin her a biotch. i dont see why he likes her, she is a serious bitch and rude to everybody...you have no clue. she is goin out with somebody right now tho.anyways. i want him to be happy. thats why im not going to try to make him ask me out, because i want him to be happy. it hurts to see him everyday and be so close to him, when i know it cant be anything more. i know that he doesnt love me in that way. i need to get over this, but i dont know how.
help!?!? (link)
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Yikes, having a crush on a good friend who is interested in someone else bites. First, make sure that you think that girl is a bitch because of her personality and not because your friend has a crush on her. If she really is a bitch, warn your friend ahead of time. Tell him all the reason you think she is and why you don't like her. But don't pressure him into not going out with her. Just state your reasons and let him decide on his own. And as for the 'getting over friend-crush', take some time off away from him. Let him get out of your mind, and just do stuff you can get really into. Get over him slowly, so time can mend your heart more carefully.
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I'm very confused. I have major crushes with 3 guys. One I've known since second grade. two of the mentioned males are in eighth grade, the other in sixth. I'm in seventh. What do I do? (link)
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Take some time off. Try to forget about all of them, and just do...stuff. Then when you've cleared your mind of it, hopefully you can see which one you still think of more. It that doesn't work, than ask yourself who you are most happy with and feel more comfortable with. Then go for that guy. Drop the rest.
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