I am a college graduate and I'm currently an Office Manager in a small law firm downtown Indianapolis, IN. I've recently moved to Columbus and it's the first time I've really been on my own. All my friends still live too far away.
Gender: Female
Location: Indiana
Occupation: Office Manager
Age: 23
Member Since: October 16, 2003
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ok so heres the deal.
i have been trying to set up my friends kiwi and josh for like a month...and i havnt seen my best friend houston in like 9 months... so this weekend houston asked me to go bowling with him and some friends and was like this is the only time ill be able to see you until october so i HAVE to go...so thats saturday night. and friday i promised my friend kiwi that she could spend the night with me... and that saturday during the day that me and my bf would double with her and josh. so i went to tell my bf the plans... and he told me that he wanted me to double with his mom and one of her friends thats going out of town for awhile. so now i have to choose between my best friends and my boyfriends mom! he was like no go hangout with that guy... your w/e he is... he gets so jealous and i want him to be there when i hang with him so he can see that houston is just my best friend... and i have to hang with kiwi but i really need to do that thing with his mom too. please help me! (link)
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What's more important to you, you or your boyfriend? If your boyfriend is the type that is going to want you to put him and what he wants first all the time then you need to reconsider this relationship. He needs to realize there is more to you than him, you have friends that deserve some of your time and attention and he shouldn't get jealous over that. He needs to learn to trust you b/c how can you be with someone who doesn't trust you and vice versa.
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Okay see i have pretty brown eyes right, but then at the same time i want to wear make up...but not too much..and i want to wear make up but i don't want to look like a goth...I mean what should i wear?? (link)
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Neutural tones look more natural. I like the little bit of black eyeliner idea suggested. Even some shades of pink look good with brown eyes as long as you don't go over board.
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People say body language says a lot. So, i wanted to know...what are some body language signs and stuff? like whats some things to show body language && what do they mean? && can u tell me some signs guys do and what they mean? like to show you they like you.. or even if they just want one thing? anybody?
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The only body language I know is that if they touch their face a lot, it means they are lying.
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what do i do if i by all the clothing i think is really cool...but when i were 'em at school they dont look so cool..... (link)
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Just wear clothes you like and don't worry if they are cool or not. As long as you think they are great, it shouldn't be a problem.
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Okay, there are a couple of guys that I like, and I've never had a boyfriend before (I'm a junior in high school). I keep getting hints from other people that they like me, but I just don't have any clue whether or not they like me, and I really am getting tired of trying to listen to people who have no clue what they're talking about when they say that someone likes me. Any suggestions on how I can figure it out for myself without asking them straight out or asking their friends or mine?
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You can usually tell if someone likes you by the way they act around you. If they like you enough, they will let you know. Maybe drop hints you like them and which ever one acts first, go with it.
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I'm 20 years old and I still live with my parents while I'm in school. They are driving me crazy. I want to get out but I can't afford to so I'm stuck in this situation. Anyway, my birthday is coming up and they're throwing this huge party that I don't want. They already sent out the invitations, so I can't get out of it. Is it wrong to fake an illness so I can stay the entire night in my room? (link)
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Just suffer through it and rake in all the presents.
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My labrador puppy, Chewbacca or Chewie for short, is turning five. His mom is my sister's dog, Vanilla Wafer or Niller, and she has an eye problem. She's gone blind and has such problems that she may have to have her eyes removed. I'm terrifed that Chewie is going to develope the same eye problems. Is there anything I can do to prevent it from happening? (link)
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Most pure breeds have some sort of problem. Just keep him healthy over all. If the time comes that he loses his eyes, you won't love him any less.
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Will I survive the hebrew school sleepover this weekend? (link)
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Yes.
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ok, first i need to tell u this whole story
last year i met him, and we were distant friends, i guess if thats what u wanna call it, now, this year, we are like, brother sister close. except, i dont want to be. i want to be more. i told him this....but on the same day that 3 other girls told him about their love for him too!. He told me that he doesn't want to choose between all of us because he knows that somebody will get hurt. Also, he had liked this same girl for a while. even if he didnt like her, i would still be callin her a biotch. i dont see why he likes her, she is a serious bitch and rude to everybody...you have no clue. she is goin out with somebody right now tho.anyways. i want him to be happy. thats why im not going to try to make him ask me out, because i want him to be happy. it hurts to see him everyday and be so close to him, when i know it cant be anything more. i know that he doesnt love me in that way. i need to get over this, but i dont know how.
help!?!? (link)
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Find something to occupy your time that has nothing to do with him. Try putting some distance between the two of you. You are worth being with someone who wants to be with you and you only, no matter how many other girls confess their love for him.
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Okay, so i REALLY like this guy. But I don't think he would like me back. I'm in 8th grade and i've never gone on a date or "gone out" with anyone before. If I asked out any guy in the school they'd probably rush me to the hospital or ask me if I was joking. I dunno, maybe i just have low self esteem. But the guy I like is pretty quiet and really smart. Please don't tell me to just go for it, cause if he said no, it would haunt me forever!! (i'm sort of a drama queen. shut up.) So I guess my question is: How can you tell if a guy likes you/would go out with you without actually asking him? (link)
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Try being friends first. If he likes you, it will lead to more. If he doesn't, then you've at least gained a friend. And its not the end of the world to be rejected in the 8th grade, you have all of high school to worry about.
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there is this guy who just asked me to homecoming. i dont really like him so i said that i would think about it, and fortunately for me a guy i like asked me and i said yes, now i dont know how to tell him that i am going with someone else because he was really expecting to go with me. how should i tell him i am going with someone else?b (link)
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How about being honest with him? Not brutally honest, just enough to get the hint.
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why does god hate me?
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God is what you make of 'em. If God hates you, then you really must hate yourself. Why do you hate yourself? I like you okay.
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What's this obsession we have with being hairless? Why do we thing that bare skin is so appealing? If we look at any animal, they just look disgusting without hair. Imagine shaving a cat.
What's wrong with hair, anyway? Is it just our preoccupation with youth that we shave the parts of our body that grow hair after puberty, in an effort to look pre-pubescent?
Sorry, just a rant. I guess if I want advice, it's this: How can I make people feel more comfortable about my hairy state? (link)
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You could make more people more comfortable about your hairy state by shaving. J/k. Maybe if you just explained why you choose not to shave then people would be more understanding about it.
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I work at FedEx and there's this guy that got hired on the same time I did. We became friends, and we've seen each other outside of work but strictly as friends. Now, for no reason at all, he's stopped talking to me. He goes into work a different way so I don't see him. He doesn't talk to me online, and when he sees me online, he puts up an away message. I figure he's met someone but I thought we were just friends so that shouldn't matter. I hate feeling like someone is avoiding me like a plague, especially when I didn't do anything. What's going on? (link)
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If he's avoiding you, then clearly he is not worth your time. Move on. Guys just aren't worth the stress. Even if they are just friends.
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