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i cant sort out all these plans!
ok so heres the deal.
i have been trying to set up my friends kiwi and josh for like a month...and i havnt seen my best friend houston in like 9 months... so this weekend houston asked me to go bowling with him and some friends and was like this is the only time ill be able to see you until october so i HAVE to go...so thats saturday night. and friday i promised my friend kiwi that she could spend the night with me... and that saturday during the day that me and my bf would double with her and josh. so i went to tell my bf the plans... and he told me that he wanted me to double with his mom and one of her friends thats going out of town for awhile. so now i have to choose between my best friends and my boyfriends mom! he was like no go hangout with that guy... your w/e he is... he gets so jealous and i want him to be there when i hang with him so he can see that houston is just my best friend... and i have to hang with kiwi but i really need to do that thing with his mom too. please help me!
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What's more important to you, you or your boyfriend? If your boyfriend is the type that is going to want you to put him and what he wants first all the time then you need to reconsider this relationship. He needs to realize there is more to you than him, you have friends that deserve some of your time and attention and he shouldn't get jealous over that. He needs to learn to trust you b/c how can you be with someone who doesn't trust you and vice versa.
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wow talk about confusing.
haha, no worries ive been there before!
my ex boyfriend got mad at me one night because i had plans with my friends and yes they were guys, so he had a reason to be mad at me! but then again, at the same time he didnt!
i had asked him a repeated amount of times "babe please come with me. i dont want to hang out with guys if youre not there! even if i know they wont try anything with me. please babe!"he didnt come with me.
and the funny thing is.
he called my mom and asked her where i was.
And she was like. Mike! she told you that she was going out with her guy friends tonight, didnt she? and he said, "yeah she did..but i didnt think she would go if i wasnt with her!" and my mom told me that he said that.
so the next day i told him that i was sorry and well you know.
it was his fault.
he should have trusted me more.
it was either my friends WITH him, or WITHOUT him.
he chose not to go.
and after that happened. he trusted me more.
but anywho!
i think you should talk to him about it. and ask him almost every day if he wants to come with you
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ask your boyfriend to come hang out with houston. but tell him that you wish you could hang out with your mom but you had already made plans with houston. explain to him that you never ever get to seem him and you two are really good friends. let him know he has nothing to worry about and tell him that you would never leave him for houston.
hope i helped:)
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