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i'm short.
i love to have fun.
im on drill team for my school.
i love to dance.
i love to sing.
im in love with someone that will never love me back.
and im okay with it...not really.
music is um well. a biiiiig attire for my life.
friends mean the world to me.
without them i dont think id be alive.

and well. i guess overall my friends think im cool!
haha

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Location: katy tx.
Occupation: dancer
Age: 15
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Recently, my friend Jennifer confided in me to keep a secret from her friend Lauren. Lauren is now with Jennifer's ex boyfriend and Jen told me that all Lauren ever talks about is the boyfriend(she talks about him 24/7). Jen is really annoyed and bothered by talking about him because she still has strong feelings for him. But, Jen doesn't want to hurt Lauren's feelings because she is really happy. Jen asked me what she should do and what should I tell her? (link)
WOW! I've been in this position before my BEST friend has done it to me two times. All she ever talks about is him. Truth is, no matter how long she dated them (it wasnt a long time) they still had feelings for me after they broke up. If she keeps her feelings staying strong for him, he'll most likely still like her after they're over with. Then theres another chance that he's just doing that to get her jealous. If she's still annoyed by her talking abou them 24/7 tell her not to be scared to tell her to shut up. It's fine. Do it nicely...lol, like say Would you please shut up, I don't want to know how happy you and my ex are together.. ( okay so maybe that would start some drama?? Depends on what type of personality she has.) Just tell her to talk to her and tell her how she feels, and MAKE SURE she tells her that she still has strong feelings for him... maybe she'll back off, or even keep the boyfriend thing hush-hush.

Well, I hope this helped you!

-xANGELofMERCY-


OKay Im 13 female.. and my best friend is .. 12 male .. im serious he iS MY BEST FRIEND!
Well i accused my best friend of someting and ive been totally killing him and he just looks at me an f rowns.. and i cussed him out.. then i found out he didnt tell my secret.. someone else did.. and he told me wen i accused him HE WUD NEVER TELL anything about his BEST FRIEND and he said he loved me.. what do i do to apollogize.. and he tried to kiss me on the cheek and hug me.. and i turned around ! WUT DO I DO!!?!/
I WILL RATE 5!! (link)
Wow how many times have I been there!!!

All my BEST friends are guys!
--Like no joke!
:]

Well when you see him next, just tell him you really need to talk to him, and apologize for taking out of proportion and blaming him for something he wouldn't ever do.
If he's honestly your best friend and cares about the friendship between the both of you, he'll accept your apology and everything should be fine!

Well, thats how it worked out for my friends and I!!!

I hope this helps you sweetie!!!

-xANGELofMERCYx-


People say body language says a lot. So, i wanted to know...what are some body language signs and stuff? like whats some things to show body language && what do they mean? && can u tell me some signs guys do and what they mean? like to show you they like you.. or even if they just want one thing? anybody?

Thanks (link)
well id have to say.

if they cant look you in the eyes when they tell you something. theyre lying.

and when a guy or girl always looks at your eyes or at your lips... they want to kiss you.

and if you notice them bite their lip.
they most definately are thinking about something.



ok so heres the deal.
i have been trying to set up my friends kiwi and josh for like a month...and i havnt seen my best friend houston in like 9 months... so this weekend houston asked me to go bowling with him and some friends and was like this is the only time ill be able to see you until october so i HAVE to go...so thats saturday night. and friday i promised my friend kiwi that she could spend the night with me... and that saturday during the day that me and my bf would double with her and josh. so i went to tell my bf the plans... and he told me that he wanted me to double with his mom and one of her friends thats going out of town for awhile. so now i have to choose between my best friends and my boyfriends mom! he was like no go hangout with that guy... your w/e he is... he gets so jealous and i want him to be there when i hang with him so he can see that houston is just my best friend... and i have to hang with kiwi but i really need to do that thing with his mom too. please help me! (link)
wow talk about confusing.
haha, no worries ive been there before!
my ex boyfriend got mad at me one night because i had plans with my friends and yes they were guys, so he had a reason to be mad at me! but then again, at the same time he didnt!
i had asked him a repeated amount of times "babe please come with me. i dont want to hang out with guys if youre not there! even if i know they wont try anything with me. please babe!"he didnt come with me.
and the funny thing is.
he called my mom and asked her where i was.
And she was like. Mike! she told you that she was going out with her guy friends tonight, didnt she? and he said, "yeah she did..but i didnt think she would go if i wasnt with her!" and my mom told me that he said that.
so the next day i told him that i was sorry and well you know.
it was his fault.
he should have trusted me more.

it was either my friends WITH him, or WITHOUT him.
he chose not to go.

and after that happened. he trusted me more.

but anywho!
i think you should talk to him about it. and ask him almost every day if he wants to come with you




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