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hola babydollll. **throws up peace sign** i'm nicole in case you didn't know. giving advice is what i'm here for. i've been through a lot. i drink starbucks religiously. i'll tell you i love you when i really mean it. understandiloveinmuchoways. i wouldn't be able to live without my friends. i'm heartbroken, but guys aren't everything. rememeber that. i'm a myspace addict. AIM is my boyfriend. i have a crush on music. my favorite colors are lime green, hot pink, orange &teal. i need a guy to fix this broken heart of mine. i love meeting people, so IM me. :) ♥
IM me KiLLTh3DrAmA xX

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Agh! One of my BFF's copies everything from other people! She's so unoriginal with her AIM profile, taste in music, style, way she acts && everything! So annoying! What should I do? Say something.. or just ignore it? Its so annoying tho! I will rate Ok thank yu!

hey babyfacee. yeah, i have a few friends like that too. all i say is "doesn't **name here** say that??" and then prettyy much just get into the conversation from there. if that doesn't work out don't hesitate to leave one in my inbox. hope everything works outtt.=) ♥_NtKKK

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hi nicole. i like this one guy whos older than me but he doesn't no who i am. how should i get his attention. if i do get his atteneton, i would be scare that he would think im ugly. help!!!!!

okay dear. get his attention, of courseee!! for me, it's always easier to start talking to someone on the internet. but that's just me. but in person is always better. and i'm sure you're a beautiful girl. plus, if he seriously cares about your looks he's wasn't worth it in the first place. hope i helpeddd. tell me how everything goes!! ♥_NiiC0LE*

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hey good advice, but the prblem is that i came 2 this school before her and it seems like i cant say anything rite. im friends wit her friends but they would rather hang out wit her. for ex: my bff from last year says hi 2 her in the hallway but not 2 me. we are still bffs. also i have this one friend sara. i new her be4 the girl ive been talkin about. and sarah tells her everything help

alright sweetie. well, you don't want to tell this sara girl anything about whats going on. because obciously, it will get to your friend and possibly start a fight. annnd we deff. don't want that. and when you said "i can't say anything rite" you shouldn't feel awkward around her. and that's okay if they'd rather hang out with her, make them like you i guess. i know that sounds weird. just get involved with them. talk about things they want to talk about. but don't change yourself for them. that's a biggggg thing. hun, you'll make friends, just wait. give it time. i'm sure they'll like you after awhile because you'll be around them. it'll be okay babe. :), i'm ALWAYSSSSSS here for you. remember that. hope i helpeddd.♥

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Hi its me the one who wants to get popular. My mopm doesn't let me have get togethers. or go places for that matter. i dont want to seem annoying calling them everyday. HELP please.
Another one is that i have my bffe. i thought we were going to be friens 4 ever. shes mor popular than me and all my friends would rather hang out with her wat should i do

awhh, hey babydoll. yeah, popularity isn't easy. and not being able to hang out doesn't help. but calling everyday won't be annoying unless it's like constant. or be like "hey, call me tonight!" so that you take turns calling eachother. and she's your friend, you can be just as popular as her. just hang out with her more. like when she's with her other group of popular friends, join her and get into their conversations. you can be popular if your friend is. because if she's popular, you're obviously worth someone populars time. which means you could be popular too. don't let other popular girls take over your twos friendship. popularity isn't everything. rememeber that. if you need anything else feel free to leave as many as you need in the inbox. i'd love to hear from you. :-), good luck dollface. hope i helped!!♥_NiiC0LE*

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I live in Parma. I'm not new, but i need more friends. I have a lot of side friends, but not a lot that back me up. They all take me as a joke. How do i get more friends? i am a girl and im 13.
Lovve,
i want 2 be popular

hey dollface. popularity isn't everything. but here are a few things that i can thing of off the top of my head to help you out as best as i can. if you have AIM, talk to girls from your school there. or the friends you have, invite them over for a girls night out and try to closer. or, have them bring their friends too so you can get more friends like that and you all can be one big group i guess you could say. or call your "side" friends everyday. just get close to them. a true few is better than a lot of friends that won't back you up. it's the quantity, not the quality. remember that babee. if you need anything else i'm here for you. always. hope i helped! good luck dearr! &♥;_NiiC0LE*

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I made this thing for my boyfriend, and I wrote "I love you" on it, but I have room to put his name under that.
Do you think I should personalize it or just leave it as "I love you"?

Personalize it, i'm sure it'll mean more to the guy. hope i helpedddd!! ♥ _NiiC0LE

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Hey nicole. so like im 13 -n- in the 7th grade at Harmon middle school. ya so like i havent had a boyfriend well i did in like 6th grade but he cheated on me. well like i kno i have a whole life and uve told me that ill find the right guy i just have to wait. well this guy on my bus Chris... you kno him. hes like so ugly and annoying. well he asked me out and like im all hell no... and like what do i do.. cuz like he likes me and he SAT ON MY LAP TODAY!!!! :-0 omg im like getting pissed. so HELP PLEASE>>>> you kno were to find me... Hotdrummer xx....

Much

Chris Who? I say, just totally flip on him and tell him to leave you alone. or when he goes on your lap, push him off, or if he talks to you ignore it. or show me this kid and i'll straighten him up ;-)) haha. hope i helped erica!! ♥ _NiiC0LE

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do girls call their boyfriends baby or is that just something guys call the girl.?

Yepp, I call my boyfriend baby all the time. haha. Either or. Hope I helped! ♥ _NiiC0LE

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I have a simple question that could have a lot of answers. What is a girl's favorite scent on a guy? Specifically, please.

Mine personally is axe. Not a lot though. Then it gives you a headache. But deff. axe. I'm a sucker for guy swho wear axe. hah. good luck kiddo. ♥ _NiiC0LE

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I'm 13 and in 8th grade, and I still haven't had a boyfriend yet. I'm not HORRIBLY ugly, I actually think I'm pretty. But NO guys approach me at all. I've been told it's because I'm shy. And I am shy, but...I'm not sure if it's something else. Do you think that the fact I didn't have a boyfriend in middle school will make guys turn me down in high school? I don't want to be single forever.

I can pretty much promise you that you won't be single forever. It's only middle school, you have a wholeee life ahead of you. And I don't think that will have any affect on guys in highschool. And the ones who do care about that, aren't worth your time. There's someone out there for everything, it will just take some time. Hang in there kiddo. :o) hope i helped!! ♥ _NiiC0LE

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hey. My parents really want me to go to this really fancy high school because it's the "better" education and i think it looks pretty cool and I'd like to go there but I don't want to leave my girlfriend behind (i really love 'er). What should i do?

aww. i'm sure it's gonna be hard. But go for the high school. you two can still hang out and call each other all the time. and if she was a girlfriend, she'd want the best for you, which is that highschool. i'm sure she'll understand. just cal her everyday and hang otu with her as much as you can. i know it might be hard at first, but everything will fall into place sooner or later. hope i helped. if you need anymore help feel free to leave another one in my inbox. ♥ _NiiC0LE

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ok well tonight I went to this party type thing not a big one but big enough...well there was this guy there and we started talking and he was helping me play pool and stuff and i dont know i thought we clicked...and i sorta started to like him but the problem is hes 19 and im 14 is that bad? Should I just stop before I get myself into trouble? Thanks

Hey Hun, i'm dating someone who's 18 and i'm your age. It's not that bad. But it depends on what kind of guy he is. Just be careful babe, that's all. Hope I helped. If you have anymore questions feel free to ask me!! ♥ _NiiC0LE

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ok well i like this kid ok and he lives all the way in pitsberg and i just wanted to know if all long relationships work out? well just wanted to know and i know that he is a real jerk for being like that thanks a lot and i love the adivce kept it up please!!??!!:)

Okay, well, first off, thank you :o). Not all long distance relationships work out but some do. Sometimes it depends on how far away you are from the person. And I don't know what state/city you live in soo yeah. And a real jerk for being like what? haha you gotta fill me in babe. I've been in a lot of long distance relationships and none of them really lasted that lasted that long. I'm doing one right and it seems to be going just fine now. If you really love the guy (and if he really loves you), i'm sure it will work out. If you need anymore help feel free to ask another question or IM me! ♥ _NiiC0LE

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O.K. well you see I like this guy named Logan and we went out in october for like a month till november and then i dumped him and then we went out off and on again until now, and I still really like him like more than i have ever liked any body! But for some reason i can't move on! And im wondering if he only liked me for my body or looks cause i dont mean to brag or anything but im a pretty girl.

Well, why do you say he liked you for your looks? from what you said there's no evidience he does. But it's possible. And I know what you mean not being able to get over him. You will eventually. He's just another one of those guys you can't get out of your head. hah every girl gets that once in a lifetime. But yeah, back to your question, it's possible he did. A lot of guys will only date a pretty girl. (which makes me kinda mad) buttt that's a different story. haha. alright, well i'm here for ya babe. hope i helped!!

♥ _NiiC0LE

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The guy that I like is about 25 pounds overweight and isnt athetlic at all. I asked him if he wanted to play tennis with me because I have been taking lessons. The whole time we played he critized me, saying mean things like "your stamina is terrible", what kind of lessons have you been taking", and " I thought you would have been way better". He was really upsetting me so finally I said that I was still learning and to give me a break. The thing was that he was a lot worse than me, and I was trying to say nice things to encourage me.
A couple days later he told me that he thought I should lose 15 pounds. I am average, not fat. He is way more overweight than me and I have never said anything to him because I know it would just hurt him. My feelings were very hurt with all his negativity. Should I move on?

Hey hun, YES!! move on. he's a stupid guy who's trying to make himself happy by making fun of someone else. i'm sure you're a beautiful girl. he's not worth your time. if he's gonna hurt your feelings, screw him. lol sorry dear. hope i helped!!!

♥ _NiiC0LE

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okay. i have an iPod video. and i have a question.. is there anyway you can put an actual video on it. because i cant figure out how to do it, if you can.

thanks.

yessuh, hah. i have limewire. and what i do is i download it on limewire. and upload it to itunes and get it from there. or i'm sure you can buy one on itunes.

♥ _NiiC0LE

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ok well i like this kid and i have asked him out a few times and said that he would get back to me and then like a day ago he asked someone else out and i am kinda mad and like i have liked him ever sicnes 4 grade and i dont know if i should tell him my true feelings or just 4get about him? and if he does break up with this girl should i go and ask him out again?

Hey hun, i really don't wanna sound like a bitch. but he doesn't like you. and when he was he'll get back to you, he was just trying to be nice. i'm sorry i had to say it like that. But try another guy. he's not worth your time. or just be like, "hey, you never got back to me" or write him a note telling him how you feel. in the mean time, try to move on. i'm sure you're a beautiful girl not worth this kids time. hope i helped. ♥ _NiiC0LE

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You know when people write PS: on messages or notes? Well what does PS stand for and what's it for? Thank you.

PS stands for Post Script and it's used for when you forget something when you're writing. Hope I helpedddd! ♥ _NiiC0LE

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so i like this kid. and someone said that he liked me back. and someone also said that they want us to date. that same person told me that they could hock us up. but when ever i talk to him he always leaves when were talking. what does that mean?

Well, talk to him about it. And, can you trust the person who told you all those things? Don't believe everything someone says. Annnd to answer your question. The could mean two things. either, A. he's just nervous/emmbarrassed or B. he doesn't wanna talk to you/doesn't like you. Soo, talk to him and see what's really up. Or ask one of his friends. That always works. but yeah dear, you gotta figure this stuff out. Hope for the best. ♥ _NiiC0LE

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my friend and i are kinda of fighting. she says she "doesnt trust me at all only because im friends with a ceritain gang at the school" but its not really a gang. just a little group of people. but what should i do because she is my best friend and i want her to trust me again?

Hmm. Well dear, to me it sounds like your friend has a little bit of jealousy and sadness coming along. Just hang out with her more. If she was your best friend you would be more occupied with her than the other "gang". And she's say she doesn't trust you because she's just not used to the changes yet. She probably liked it better when you didn't hang out with them. Just show her she can trust you by hanging out with her more, i think that's all she really wants. Tell her that just because you hang out with different people doesn't mean they can take her spot. I know this isn't the greatest advice, and i'm sorry. I've been in your friends place, not quite yours. But I can relate. I hope i helped. good luck babe. ♥ _NiiC0LE


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