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I'm very confused. I have major crushes with 3 guys. One I've known since second grade. two of the mentioned males are in eighth grade, the other in sixth. I'm in seventh. What do I do?
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if they were to die, which one would you commit suicide over?
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Take some time off. Try to forget about all of them, and just do...stuff. Then when you've cleared your mind of it, hopefully you can see which one you still think of more. It that doesn't work, than ask yourself who you are most happy with and feel more comfortable with. Then go for that guy. Drop the rest.
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Put chickens in each of their coats.
Whoever screams the loudest wins.
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if you're in 7th grade... dont worry about it. i know, having a boyfriend seems like something really important and something you're really ready and able to do. but honestly, its not. dont put yourself through all that stress for something that isnt that big of a deal. and if you have crushes on all 3 of these guys, itd be hard to pick just one, y'know? so take the easy way out and just be friends with all 3 of them.
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I'm not entirely sure how old you are but it does sound like you should just sit back and relax.Just be friends with all of them and if something happens then it happens.Most chrushes+/ relationships at your age are quite fleeting.
Just enjoy being single!
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What I am extremely tempted to say is: Wait. In the seventh grade, though it seems important, you could end up ruining long lasting friendships because you want more than that out of a relationship. Often times at the age of 12 or 13 you are not ready to handle dating or relationships. And if you like 3 different guys, it shows that you aren't ready to just date one person. Chill out. Guys aren't THAT important.
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I think the best thing to do in these situations is nothing. All these "major crushes" mean that you're just not <i>ready</i> for any of them... if you pursuit anything you'll only make someone mad or hurt yourself. Be single for a while, it'll give you time to think things through.
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