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There is this guy i like in my Social Studies class. Everyone says he is really nice. I would go up and talk to him, but he is alwayse with his guy friends. They kinda intimidate me. So should I ask around about him (see if he is single, or even interested in me) or should i wait to see if he will come up to me?
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Asking around never hurt, especially if his friends don't leave his side. If he's single, maybe drop a letter in his locker (if it has slats in it, and if he'll find it in there) or get to class a little early and leave it on his desk?
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i have fallen in love with my best guy friend, and i told him that i love him he said that he loves me back, but says that i just cant be. we hug, kiss and are all over eachother, but we're not dating, and everytime i bring it up to him he just says " it just cant be right now". i feel hurt but yet i cant stop thinking of him. what should i do? am i obsessed? ( i am 13/female ) (link)
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Stop with the touchy-feely stuff, and hang with your girlfriends some more. Get to know yourself and do things for you. If he really loves you back, he'll come around, eventually. It may take a while, so enjoy yourself for now.
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i know this is really long.. but i really need help.
okay.. me and my boyfriend of like 2 yrs just broke up about 3 weeks ago. we were always the couple that everyone said "are going to get married.. they belong together" and we were SO CLOSE! there was never a day that we didnt talk fool around or just love being with eachother. we broke up and things were a little weird for like a week.. but now its just like were best friends again. and its weird bc sometimes its even like were still a couple. we always talk and laugh and fool around.. and i miss it. sometimes i still want to be with him but other times i just love being single and i think maybe its the best for the both of us.. that maybe its just time to move on- and that doesnt scare me, bc in some cases i just want to move on.
okay- so a little while after we broke up he started fooling around w/ one of my "friends".. this got me really upset. not that it happened just the fact that my friend wud do that to me after that long of a relationship and she totally knew how much he still meant to me.
then i met this guy. hes like amazing. we became close and i got with him a couple times. its not like were BF/GF but.. i think we might be getting there. we both like e/o. my ex knows n all of our friends too. i like both my ex and this new guy.. do u think i should hang on to my ex bc things might go back to how they were before (like they have done before).. or should i just totally move on from my ex and be with my new guy. im so confused i just need help.. i like my new guy.. but i dont wanna leave my old love if there is still something between us.. what should i do? (link)
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Give the new guy a chance, but because you want to get to know him, not because you want to make your ex come running back to you, or make him jealous.
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One more question. What is the best way to heal a broken nose??? (link)
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Have x-rays done to confirm it is broken, and it will need to be reset by a doctor. After that, ice will help with pain and swelling. Medications are dependent upon what your DR orders.
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I'm an 18 year old girl who has had a string of bad relationships. I'm seeing this guy, who I really care about and love spending time with. The only thing is that every time I feel myself getting close to him, I pull away because I'm scared of getting hurt. I've been hurt in the past and used to self harm and was very self-destructive. I want to be as involved in this relationship as my boyfriend is but I hate feeling vulnerable. (link)
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Talk with him. If he really cares about you, he will listen and be patient with you. It sounds to me like you will probably be more comfortable discussing your issues one at a time, instead of dumping them all out on the table at once. All relationships have one partner feeling closer than the other from time to time, and no one wants to get hurt from a relationship, so that is normal. No one is worth harming yourself, though.
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how can I stop being so SHY!?! Guys only go out for me because of my looks and not my personality because I sorta freeze up around people I don't know well or aren't friends with. (link)
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Try double dating with one of your friends for the first date or two, but don't pay more attention to your friends than your date. You will learn to relax with your guy, he will see that you can be fun, and by the next date, you and your guy will have a basis on which to go from, like you can talk about the movie you saw last week, or whatever, but don't keep your conversation on how it was fun with your friends, or he'll think you aren't too interested in him.
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me and my boyfriend have been going on out for 9 months now, and we recently broke it off for about 2 weeks and i had the time of my life..but we got back together because i know i love him and dont want to be without him..but the fun i was having was gone..now hes been gone for 2 weeks and once again ive been back to having tons of fun..idk what does this mean? what should i do.. (link)
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It means you are two different people. If he dampens the fun atmosphere with a bad mood, then the problem is his and he must deal. If it's because you are chasing other guys, then you are not ready for a long-term relationship. If it's because he doesn't like your friends, then listen to him, but don't ditch your friends just for him. If it's money, pay for a date or two. You don't say why he is gone again. If you two are off again, keep it that way for a while.
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ok my friend resently made out for the first time and like told meh the things i needed to do it and made me really confident to make out for the first time and now my best friend (hes a guy and im a gurl) mite come ova and hes the type who would make out wit me if i wanted to. Im going into the 8th grade and i really wanna go in being able to say i finally did it. I know thats no reason but thats y im asking u wat i sould do. I mean i had a crush on him for ova a year until now im not sure if i like him like that. So what should i do. I really wanna just get it ova with cuz so many people make a big deal about whether you have or not
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It doesn't sound to me like you are really ready. Are you ready for the first guy you give it to to brag? Are you ready for the first guy you do it with to tell everyone that you sleep with anyone? Are you ready to become a parent? If you were really ready, you would choose the time and the place with the person in mind, as well. Be prepared, also, that for girls, sex is different. Guys can walk away without getting emotionally involved ALOT easier than a girl can (not that girls can't walk away, too, it's just harder for some).All this set aside, who's business is it, anyway? Are you doing it just to be able to say you did it? If so, you may be very disappointed with yourself, and may feel let down.
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This is just a question of curiosity...how many mL's (milligrams) of water are you suppose to get each day? If not mL's..then oz's(ounces)..? Thanks!!!(14 year old gurlio) (link)
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It depends on your weight and activity level. If you are active or overweight, you need to drink more than if you are not. General reccomendations are 8-10 eight ounce glasses of water. Some things like juices and some teas can count, but not if they have caffeine. If you do drink something with caffiene, you need to drink the same amount of water as what your caffienated drink was (8 ounces of Coke, you will need 8 ounces of water).
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Can you have sex when you are pregnant?? (link)
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It depends. Has your o/b ok'd it? Semen has a component that can cause your cervix to dilate, and if you are far enough along in your pregnancy, or if your cervix isn't up to the job, you can go into labor. If you are not having any health issues, and your doc says OK, then go for it. You may find different positions to be more comfortable, top is best. Doggie is ok, but your partner can penetrate too deep for comfort in this position.
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Ok, this is going to be kind of long because I need to give you all the details. I haven't always been overweight, but when I was finally aloud to stay home in the summer by myself, I started to get bigger. I couldn't go anywhere when my parents were home, so I sat and watched TV and ate constantly. Well, the big problem is that was about 6 years ago! Every year I say I'm going to finally lose weight, and I still haven't. Now I'm at least 30 pounds over-weight, and even though I love playing sports and being active, I also love to sit at home and eat the "tasty" foods. I am going to be a junior, and it is so hard to be an over-weight teen. I know all the stuff I need to do if I want to lose weight, but I just can't find my motivation to do it. Do any of you have advice to try help me? Please, I would really appreciate it. (link)
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Drink tons of water and try keeping a food diary. Write down EVERYTHING that crosses your lips, food type, number of calories, fat grams, and carbs. That will show you where you cut out the excess. Also, try replacing some of your "tasty" foods with alternatives, like baked Doritos instead of regular Doritos. Yes, that sort of food tastes different, and sometimes not as good (sorry, have to be honest), but the difference in fat and calories can be substantial, and after a while, you won't even miss what you used to call "tasty" foods, or you can use them as a once-a-month incentive to stay focused on your diet. Don't totally cut any one thing, as carbs help your brain function, fat is needed to help send nerve impulses from your brain, and you need a certain amount of calories just to survive.
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how do you tell a guy you don't like him if he likes you without hurting his feelings?!
i rate high! =)
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Be upfront with him. Be careful of what you say, and don't try to avoid hurting him to the point that you lead him to believe that if he holds out long enough, you will change your mind. You may have to give the dreaded "Just Friends" speech that no one really wants to hear, but if he can't be your friend, he REALLY won't cut it as a boyfriend.
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My brother is in Iraq, and hes only 21! it hurts so bad! hes my best friend and i'm only 13! he had to stay till next may and i cant send a lot of stuff and neither can he! what can i do? all my language arts projects are on him too! i wrote and 10 page story about a memory and he was it! can someone help me find out how to keep in touch and live my life not worrying soo much about him? (link)
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If you can cook, send cookies, or have someone help you make them. They don't last long in the military, and they come from the heart, and he doesn't have to drag them home, and he can keep them all to himself if he wants.
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ok, well this guy and i r good friends we talk like for 3 hours every day. well i dont know if i should say he is my boyfriend because he never asked me out but he calls "boo-boo"(i dont why) and babygirl and all ways says i love so he acts like hes my boyfriend but i dont know if he is or not. plz tel me what you think thnx alot
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Tell him you want him to be straight with you, and if he wants to be your boyfriend, go from there. If not, you still have a strong friendship. You didn't say if he has any other girlfriends, so that's a clue, too.
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This weekend me and the gurls went to the movies. There was this guy there that i think is really cute. I dont plan on hooking up with him because i have a boyfriend and we are very much in love. Well, at the movies this guy just happened to be sitting next to me. My friends got up to go to the bathroom and i didnt which meant me and the guy we're sitting there all alone. I turned over and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. I was kinda shocked he would do that since he knew how much i really liked my bf. Then, the night went on and i wasnt even thinking about the whole kissing thing becuz after all he did kiss me i didnt kiss him... well after the movie ended i walked out of the theater and then i had to go back cuz i realized i 4got something. the guy was still there. i got my stuff then he put his arms around me and hugged me and kissed me on the cheek again. This time without even thinking i kissed him on the cheek back.. I wasnt even thinking about my boyfriend!! i am such a bad person!! i know most of u dont think of kissing some1 on the cheek a big deal but to me it is cuz i kno if my guy was kissing some gurl on the cheek i would be mad it him.. now i dont know what to do! I want to tell him but i know its going to hurt him and hes been hurt alot b4 this. But still think he should know. I have this guilt on my shoulders. If been avioding him since the whole incident... Should i tell him or not? (link)
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Is this "other man" someone he knows, or will someone other than you tell him if you don't? If not, just let it go and don't do it again. Maybe write him a letter telling him everything, but don't mail it or send it to him, just rip it up and burn it. On the other hand, if he will find out from other people, beat them to the punch, be honest, and reassure him before and after you tell him that you love him and only him.
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this is goin to sound REALLY werid and maybe distubbing but i need an outside opinon,
i have seen my cousin, 2 times in my WHOLE life, me and my family stayed there for a weekend the second time, me and him slept outside in the tent cuz there was no rooms in the house, seperate, or anythig so we jsut slept out there and he kept putting moves on me! and touching me like, ( a boyfirend ) would do, i was getting really uncomfortable then when i was goin to sleep he pulled nice in close to me, and then he started kissing me then we started to make out i then id stop and tell him this is wrong he said we barley see each other so its allright but i didnt' agree i went back to trying to fall a sleep and then he started goin down my pajama pants and he FINGERD me, for liek 3-5 seconds cuz i pushed him off, i don't feel comfortable to even talk to him on the computer anymore and i can't TELL anyone cuz they'll think im like discusting what do you guys think? (link)
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Tell someone and who cares what they think! What he did borders on criminal conduct! Are you afraid he will say you asked for it? Stand up for yourself, because no one else will. You said you started to make out then stopped. Are you feeling ashamed because you didn't find it entirely gross? If so, realize that when you are touched like that, you will respond-that part is normal. The rest is not. You need to tell a clergy member, teacher, counselor, or someone. Now, the next part. You are both related. Time and distance do not change genetics. What he said is wrong! It does matter. Do you want him doing this to other girls? If not, speak out.
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