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how do you tell a guy you don't like him if he likes you without hurting his feelings?!
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<3*Chelsea
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okay just be like - sorry but this isnt gonna work out but ill still talk to u as friends. plz dont be mad! plz rate! KLG x-0-x
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i think the best way to tell him is strait up. but b4 telling him that tell him what you do like about him but that you dont like him that way. good luck!! <3 xogiggles37xo.
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There is no way for you to tell a guy you dont like him and he not get hurt. No matter what you do...he is at least gonna be alittle hurt.
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just tell him that ur more comfortable with just being buds and that ur not feeling the urge to take it to the next level! hope i helped <3
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Be upfront with him. Be careful of what you say, and don't try to avoid hurting him to the point that you lead him to believe that if he holds out long enough, you will change your mind. You may have to give the dreaded "Just Friends" speech that no one really wants to hear, but if he can't be your friend, he REALLY won't cut it as a boyfriend.
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Tell him you'd rather just stay friends.
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Dear Chelsea
Why not something like Option#1
" You know <insert guys name here>,...Ive been thinking, and I value our friendship so much that I am willing to sacrifice the fact that we cant be together in that way B/C of jeapordizing what we have as friends. Wouldnt you agree?"
OR Option #2
" Im just not ready for that kind of relationship right now, but I am flattered that you would think of me that way"
Then theres always Option #3
"If I were into guys youd be my top choice, so sorry Im Gay...but hey? we can still be friends cant we?" (grin)
Hope these helped Lemmie know :)
Mysique :)
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I think the best why is to say, "I like you to much as a friend then to ruin it by going out with you." If he does not get it then you can tell him that you think of him as a friend and only as a friend.
I hope i help!!
~Court_Sport~
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"Sorry man, i really just don't like you like you like me. There's a lot going on in my life now, and its not you, but right now i just can't really focas on guys right now. Your a nice guy and all, but i don't know if you're my type and all. THere are girls out there perfect for you, and i'm just not her."
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3 compliments then "but this wouldnt work because i dont have feelings for you like that"
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tell him that you really just want to be friends.. and you dont like him like that.. its to hard to picture you 2 more then friends or even best friends n maybe some time you will grow to like him (( like that )).. because at the moment maybe you just need him as a friends
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* dont tell him u dont like him but dont tell him u like him * just talk to him and mayb he'll just get the point taht u just wanna b friends*
<3alwayz
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jus be liek listen... i really think yu`r ko0l pplz buh yu`r jus not what im lookin for in a relationship, yu`ll find sum1 who will like yu back... tell him not ta get mad its jus how yu feel nd yu wanna be ppl`z wid him styll tho -haley
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maybe you could just be like..ur a really great friend and i dont want to lose you like that..so thats why i dont like you more than a friend <3/dakota
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tell him tht u guys shoudl jsut b friends not in a relationship.<333 carmen
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tell him straight up.. not to hurt your feelings or anything but i just like you as a friend and nothing else!! sorry!....... good luck, lol
-xxoBrianna
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all you can do is be honest and tell him, that hurts less then leading him on..don't be like well i think your ugly..lol just say you think a "friend" relationship would be best..i'm sure he'll feel a little let down, but he'll get over it..atleast he'll have a new friend..xO`lexi
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Well, Chelsea, I'm guessing this is something you HAVEN'T ALREADY heaRd, but I usually give the.. "I don't think it'd woRk out between us" line. Typical, but always woRks foR me! Goodluck!! Hope I helped!! =D
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u juss gotta tell him that u dont have the same felings for him and u dont want yo friendship to go away u want to stay friends. $M$
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Sit down and talk to him about it. Say your not really intrested in him and you just want to be friends. He'll understand!
xoxo chels
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Just sit down and talk to him. Be completly honest with him. Tell him that you two would be better off as friends and nothing more. If he is truly a great guy, he will understand and be thankful that you were honest to him & didnt lead him on.
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1) tell him you have your eye on someone else that you've liked for a while
2) tell him you aren't looking for a bf right now
3) if he's your friend, tell him you don't want to make things weird between the two of you
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