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are there any signs youre going to get your period for the first time? and ifso how long after you get the sign will you get your period?

You will get a yellowish whiteish discharge that will be on your underwear, your breasts will start to hurt, and you maybe even might get cramps in your lower abdomen, also being very emotional is a big sign you wil lget your period
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ok-
I'm f/13 and almost everyone aroungd where I live isn't virgin from age 11/up My friends and I are witch includes 2 boys- I was wondering, since alot of people(except parents) think we are wierd, Do you think it's wrong to be virgin?

There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin .. especially if your only 13 .. if you have sex at that young of an age .. then you can seriously mess up how everything works in the long run .. think about it
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my friend is alwayyss flirting with my boyfriends or ex-boyfriends. she even sleeps with them and it makes me soo mad. how can i overcome this feeling or deal with this problem?

Hey .. I Would say that you should talk to her about this .. I think she is only doing this because she is insecure about herself and how guys feel about her, and she thinks "hey if i sleep with them they will still want me" but believe me .. that is never the way to go .. Hope I Helped !!

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I've been saving up to get an iPod. My mom says that if I can get $100 She'll buy me a 60GB iPod.

But I also kinda want a cell phone.

I know that the cell phone will in time cost more, but I'm not sure which one I want more. I really want an iPod, and I have the possibility, because I have $71 out of $100 for it.

But I really want a cell phone too.

I'm so...stuck.

just think of which one you would use more!a cell phone? or an ipod? personally i would want a cell phone..because they are more convenient..and you can use them a lot more often ya know? and sooner or later ipods are going to go out of style..but that is just my opinion to help your decision

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Hey
My boy friend moved out of my school district.
I don`t know what to do because i don`t see him anymore.
But i still love him very much.
I miss him but i can`t see him because i can`t ride my bike to his house and it really sucks!
please tell me what to do.

Shannie

Aww hun im sorry..cant you see him on weekends? or like have your parents drive you to his house or vice versa! try talking online or talking on the phone a lot..i know long distance relationships are really hard..but im sure you guys can get thru it!

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13/f
ok i've never had a bf ever in my life. im kind of over weight and i dont think im very ugly but im prolly not really pretty eaither. i do have some guy friends but not real boy friends. i really want a bf cuz i always see my friends with there bfs kissing and holding hands and hugging etc. i've never been kissed either so i feel so left out cuz all my friends have please give me some good advice and please help me!!

Aww hun..dont worry about it!! i mean some girls dont get their first kiss until they are 16! Im sure you are gorgeous..and you just have to be confident in yourself..i mean guys think confidence is super sexy..and if you walk around with your head held high..smiling..and just being your beautiful self..it will catch a guys attention!

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Posted Saturday July 02 2005, 12:46 am
I have a small but confusing problem, to do with my friend.(I'll call him John)John's dad is a CEO and he has been out of the country for the past 10 months. He got back almost a week ago and saturday he sat down his family and confessed that he had been unfaithful to John's mother durring the 10 months. This really shook up John, he's scared, confused and really unsure of alot of things right now. And he came to me. And I don't know how to respond to this. I want to be supportive and I don't know what I would do if I were him. And he's alot more than a friend, and about 3 years older. What would you do if you were in our situation?

if you have not witnessed a situation like this..just let him pour his heart out to you and just try your best to answer his questions and listen to what he is saying. He just needs a friend to listen and talk to and a shoulder to cry on, and thats all you have to be

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Okay, so friendship questions are rare for me. This is gonna be long. If you have a problem with that, stop reading right now.
I'm really kind of scared. My best friend, short of sister, I think, is addicted to this guy.
Problem is, they never dated. She liked him, but he didn't like her. Then she got over him, and he liked her.
Then she decided to unget over him.
He's a possessive asshole. He's basically "claimed" her and talks about their married future, and she goes with it, considering him hers as he considers her his.
The worst thing is, though, all her life, her family has considered her the "screwup", so all she's known is displacement and pain. She's longed for real love her whole life, even the "parent" kind of love. Not just the husband/wife love.
I don't even know how to explain this. She thinks he unconditionally loves her.
I have unconditional love. My boyfriend and I have discussed marriage, and he loves everything about me, even my flaws, and wouldn't change me.
This guy, however, he's used her, emotionally abused her, hurt her more than anything, and he's even like, haunting her dreams. He tried to change her. Get her to dye her hair blonde, change her clothing style, criticized everything...
I'm just afraid she's going to end up with him and cause herself more pain.
She's created an idea of him for herself. Things he does, she's given examples...I can see that he's only doing these things because he gets something out of it. He gets a person to possess. Someone to own. I hate him for what he's doing to her, but she won't let me talk sense into her.
I can't talk to him because he doesn't like me anyway.
I don't know what to do about this. This girl is seriously like my little sister. I want to protect her from him. Not from all guys, just from him because I know he's bad news.
He tried to convince me to cheat on my boyfriend with him, and to tell me that if he "really" wanted me, I could be his in a heartbeat, because he's just that good with women, which sickened me from the start. I don't understand what she sees in him. Fine. Whatever, I can deal with that.
I can't deal with him hurting her and making her think he's the last person out there for her (she's had bad luck in relationships).
On top of it all, she's afraid her parents are going to make her move, and they're not sending her to college next year, which is where she should be.
What do you think I should do? I mean, I can't really DO anything. What can I say?
-Siren =(

wow.. this is a tough situation..but i think in a thing like this..your friend probably isnt going to listen to you if you try talking to her..because if your in love with someone..you dont want to believe things about your lover that may be true..maybe you could talk to her boyfriend, i mean i know you said he doesnt like you, but just be like "i dont care if you dont like me, but i need to talk to you, don't treat my friend like this, she is like a sister to me, and if you keep hurting her, shes going to end up being miserable, and if you guys were actually in love, you would want the best for each other, not the worst. and if you do not stop, one day i will catch you in the act of cheating or doing those horrible things you do.." or something along the lines of that..maybe even you can talk to your boyfriend about it, and tell him to talk to the guy, maybe even you can talk to her parents and tell them that he is doing nothing good for her and is making her miserable and she wont listen to you so maybe she will listen to her parents..

as for the college situation, if she is 18, she doesnt have to move with her parents, and i mean she should try talking to them and be like \"i really want to go to college and get a further education (in the department where she wants to learn) and if you would want what is best for me, you would want me to go to college\"

*i really hope i helped..if you ever need anything just ask me a question..or talk to me on aim..devilishd19

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well i need some advice because i've been wearin a thong for about a year now and i've kept it a secret from mi mom but yesterday she found 1 ov them and she didnt really care and wen she asked if it waz mine i said it was my friends. and my problem is i really don't wanna tell her tha truth... :( ( sould i stop wearin them??) i don't know wat 2 do if she brings up tha subject again? thanx ur advice would mean a lot to me....

i think you should just tell her the truth..because shes probably going to find another one of them, you cant hide them forever..believe me..i tried..but my mom does the laundy..lol but i mean if she didnt seem like she cared..then she prolly wouldnt care if you had some!

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i havent got my period yet and i want to try on a tampon to c wat it feels like and my friend said u can like get a disease or sumthing??
so i was wundering cen i try on a tampon??

if u are just starting..or u havent started at all..dont use one!! because your not supposed to even use a tampon until 6 months to 1 year after your first period!

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whats a good name for a new fish?

NEMO! haha or bubbles or gucci..umm sparkles! maybe even goldie!

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Hi my name is jessica my friend and i have known each other since 2nd grade now she thinks i called her a jerk so now its a big fight between us i tld her sorry but she said that it didnt cut it so i really want to be friends again what should i do

maybe you could just go up to her and tell her that if she trusted you like a best friend should..then she weould KNOW that you didnt call her a jerk or if u did that u were just joking and didnt mean it!

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can someone tell me why guys are so into boobs? i mean, i always hear boys saying"well i dumped her because she is soooooooooooo flat!" what do middle school kids need to be worrying about that stuff? and why do boys even need to worry about it?

because bois r shallow!! they think they will be cool or something if they go out with a girl with a huge pair of jugs!

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My first day of high school is coming up .. what should i wear ??? i wanna look cute n trendy ! for ppl who have already survived there freshman year ... give me a hint on what to wear first day of school =D

maybe you could wear a cute skirt and a cute shirt and sum flip flops! and either like straighten ur hair or crimp it or something like that and put on ur makeup really cute!! =)

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im not in any of my friends classes and i feel depressed ive had such a bad day.. and im really starting too get back at the "im ugly" stage

[its not really about advicenators]

make friends with the people in ur classes!! u dont need to be a loner just cuz someof ur friends arent in ur classes! its always great to meet new people!

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okay my friends ( a girl and a boy) are in a fight and everytime i talk to the girl she alwasy says so have you talked to him?? What should i say?? should i tell her i did or not!! they are in a big fight and i don't wanna ruin my relationship with this boy, because i really likehim...i mean really like him!! Any suggestion?? :(

*Stuck -n- Middle*

tell her that you dont want to be in the middle of it..that it is their fight not urs so they have to resolve this without u this time! =)

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how do you tell a guy you don't like him if he likes you without hurting his feelings?!

i rate high! =)

maybe you could just be like..ur a really great friend and i dont want to lose you like that..so thats why i dont like you more than a friend

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in 1 year i have to choose between field hockey and soccer b/c the 2 sports take place at the same time!! I do not wantt o choose but i have to so what do u think i should choose or what woule be a good way to choose?
Thanks for the Help!!

which one r u better at..which one do u like better? which one could u see urself playing longer? answer those questions and then u will have ur answer! =)

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okay..i have a friend and she wont let me hang around any of the other friends i have made this year or she gets mad and thinks im ignoring her! i really like her and i dont like it when she is mad! but i also like the new friends i have made! i dont JUST want to hang around her! how do i get her to understand that i want to be her friend and the others friend too?!

i think that you should introduce her to ur new friends then maybe you guys could all hang out together!

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(f, 15) hey i'm really confused right now...my best guy friend in the entire world just asked me to be his girlfriend a couple of days ago. now he has an awesome personality, but i don't think i could get over the lack of physical attraction, so i know it seems really shallow but i said no. supposedly he got over it really quickly and likes my friend sarah now..i know that sounds good that he didn't get hurt, but now i'm really jealous..i don't know if i'm just jealous of her because all the guys like her, or if i really do like him, or i am just being selfish and want everyone to like me..it's driving me crazy..i'm really not a bad person, i just don't know how i really feel..it doesn't matter that much i guess since he doesn't even like me anymore, i just want to figure out my feelings and i don't know how to. please help!

i think that you just expected ur guy friend to dwell on the fact that you said no..but instead he moved on very quickly..and no its not selfish! so its alright

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