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I've been through so much in my life, I'de just like a chance to help anyone I can. Ask away! I bet I can answer anything you need help with! ;-)
Gender: Female
Location: Canada
Occupation: Part Time Work
Age: 20
Member Since: June 4, 2004
Answers: 9
Last Update: June 23, 2004
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im nearly 17 and me and my girlfriend are thinking about having sex my worry is my penis is not real big and im a bit worried what my girlfriend will think does it matter? (link)
It's all in how you use your tools sweetheart. If she's a true blue girlfriend, she won't care about the size of your hardware, but how it makes her feel. ;-)

Just make it good for the both of you, and you won't even think about the "size".


hey...i know im going to seem stupid for asking this but how do you move your tongue around when your making out? (link)
Hehe.. This is kind of cute.
Well, there isn't a "proper" technique, sorry to say. Many people like different things. For example; some people just have a certain knack for rolling their tongues when they're kissing or flicking it a certain way. Sounds kind of silly, but there really is not step-by-step guide. Once you begin kissing someone, it just comes naturally and you don't really need to think about what you're doing. Trust me. :) With time and experience, you will find out what you're good at, and what your partner likes you to do with your mouth. Remember: Don't be afraid to ask him/her what they like! :)
Good Luck!! xoxo


hi there i have a big black head problem i have a million black heads on my nose and a few around my eyes...whats the best way to get rid of them without them coming back???????? HELP!!!!
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Don't try and pinch them out, this will just cause the dirt to go deeper into your skin. Wash your face three times a day, and maybe see a skin specialist. :-)
Blackheads don't go away permenantly, but you can steam your face so that the pores open and the dirt softens, then softly try and lift them out with a cloth over your hands so you don't put your bare hands on your face. Just keep your hands away from your face as much as you can! ;)


so far i've nly been fingered a few times... but i'm usaulyl really nervous when it comes to it.. i'm jsut thinking of basically him sticking his finger there and everything i dont want to be nervous but sometimes i can't help it. what can i dO? (link)
If it makes you so nervous, why are you letting him do it hon?


I have the hiccups. How do I get rid of them? (link)
Kind of gross but has worked for years. Have a spoon full of vinegar. It will be gone seconds. Also a less painful way (lol) is to breath IN as much as you can. until you can't breath in anymore. This should work aswell. :-)


I have a big nasty zit on my nose. I want it gone, NOW! What do I do? I'm so mad... it's really noticable, and I'm 26 years old! I shouldn't be getting pimples! (link)
Whatever you do, DO not touch it. Use a drying cleanser, then do NOT moisturize it. Let it dry out and DO NOT touch it. It will last longer if you touch it. :)


ok i have a really big problem with depression, and i was really depressed tonight i spent the enitre night crying ym eyes out, while my boyfriend went to a social ( a wedding anniversary for his friends parents that is basically a really big party). Is it wrong of me to be mad at him for going when i have been puking up blood all night and crying and wanting to kill my self?? i just needed a friend and he would rather go to a big party then comfort me. should i get rid of him or am i totally wrong and i shouldnt be mad that he went out, when i had a terrible time at home. (link)
Does he know you feel this sad? If not, you can't blame him. But if he does know how you're feeling then I think he should have been there to comfort you. - Don't forget though, he isn't a proffesional councellor, so he can't be there all the time. - He has a life to live to. If you're really this torn up you need to seek professional help, don't bring your boyfriend down with you. I wish you all the best and hope you feel better.


i got this girl pregnant a while ago

she said that she would keep it if i take care of it otherwise shes going to get an abortion


dont know what to do (link)
This decision has to be made by both of you, since the baby will belong to both of you. You do have alot of say, but in the end it will ultimately be her decision since it is her body. You need to get your thoughts together on what YOU want. Then sit down and talk with her. Ask her how she feels about it, and if she is ready. If you both agree, then go ahead with your plan of action, but make sure you're both on the same page because it is a serious issue. :) Good luck!


I am turning 12 in October. I am about 5'1". I weigh maybe 115-120... is that bad?
PLEASE HELP!
Oh, and I'm a girl!
Thanks! Bye (link)
You're not overwheight at all, sweetheart. - Just because you see models on the television, doesn't mean it's the "right" way to look. It's not beautiful and it is sure not healthy. Live your life to the fullest no matter how you look. Don't try to conform to society's ideal idea of weight, you're beautiful how you are!




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