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gotta girl pregnant
i got this girl pregnant a while ago
she said that she would keep it if i take care of it otherwise shes going to get an abortion
dont know what to do
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First off what were you doing with a 12 year old, having sex.. (without protection)???
You two are not ready for a baby so you should give it to a loving family until you are truly ready to be a father!
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Talk to her about it. Talk about if you guys are ready to have a kid, or not. If you are, see a doctor or something and ask for advice on how to raise a kid. If you guys decide not to keep the kid, then make sure you guys are completly sure.
Hope that helps.
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You should make a schelduel of the days you could take it and the days she could take it!
NO BABY NEEDS TO DIE!! EVERYONE DESURVES THE RIGH TO LIVE!! Just think if your mom got and aborshion when she was pregnetwith you??
HOW WOULD YOU FEEL? ok.. anywayz...you can get ahould of me if you have more questions!
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wow ur really young!!!!.i would say sence ur so young to give it up for adoption not an abortion...
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WoW well in my personal opinion a person who makes a child has been blessed and a person who gets and obortion and the guy agrees is killers..Yes you have to support the kid and yea you have to play the role as the father but there are so many good things that can come from one child and getting an abortion just doesn't make the fact that you had a baby go away
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oh. WOW. well first of all, you need to know that there are concequences behind all of this. When you are ever having sex again, or if anyone whos reading this thinks of having sex. You need to know that if your gonna go out and have sex you will need protection, and most of all be responsible for your own actions. If you get a gurl pregnant then your resposible for it, your the dad and always will be. Its really up to you guys' decsion, because ur gonna be the one whos gonna care for the baby at a young age and all, you still have a long lyf ahead of ya. However, if you do abort the baby, keep in mind that your like killing an innocent child. But then again, if you wanna adopt the baby for someone else, your gonna haveta go through with all the pregnant women, dat they go through and all...so make ur decsion wisely!!! good luck on w/e ur decision is
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my opinion would be that you should give it up for adoption, i don't believe in abortion at all. you both are way too young to have a child, let alone be doing that.
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well.. wow! thats.. wow your to young but then again so is she. how about adoption? tell her that you will take care of it and then when the baby is born put it up for adoption. nobody deserves to be killed. weather you are complete or not. thats not fair at all. are you 110% sure that she want abortion? cuz that is just plain out stupid!!
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This decision has to be made by both of you, since the baby will belong to both of you. You do have alot of say, but in the end it will ultimately be her decision since it is her body. You need to get your thoughts together on what YOU want. Then sit down and talk with her. Ask her how she feels about it, and if she is ready. If you both agree, then go ahead with your plan of action, but make sure you're both on the same page because it is a serious issue. :) Good luck!
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Normally I am all against abortions, however, If your not ready to be a father then don't punish the future child and the girl for your actions. Instead of making this whole thing a bad experience, use it as a learning one, and always have safe and protected sex.
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u hsould talk about it wit ur parents and do wat they want not u cause shes only 12 it can ruin her life and urs too
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Alright.
Since you're both very young, I would really let her get an abortion. I hear childbirth is extremely painful, and I mean...I wouldn't want to go through that at 12. Her body is most likely not really ready to have a baby, and when that's the case, it's very, very risky to go through with it.
She'd keep it if you would take care of it? I wouldn't accept that. One person should never have to raise a child.
In any case, you both need to talk to your parents - I would advise you do this together so it's easier for you two. But first talk to this girl, and ask her what she wants to do.
Remember, it takes a lot of money to pay for kids nowadays. You both still have your whole lives ahead of you. Don't inhibit yourselves with a child. I don't mean to sound harsh, but really. Think it over. It would be a lot of stress for both of you, and school's stressful enough.
Talk to the girl, talk to the parents, and make your decisions. It is up to her in the end, but you need to take the time to think it through. Good luck. You two are gonna need it. If you want more help, feel free to contact me.
-Siren
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well man this kinda shit happens....it all depends if u want to live the rest of your life with a kid of ur own...are you really ready to be a daddy?
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wow this is a big deal especially if you two are 14 and 12. thats kinda scary to think that an 8th grader and maybe a 6th or 7th grader are having babies. well i think you need to do something to help her right now i mean you did help make it. whether or not you keep it is up to you but someone should talk to an adult prolly starting with one of your parents. if she doesn't get an abortion [which is totally up to you two] then you need to be there for the baby. you are in no way to take care of one right now tho unless your parents are going to support you on this, so keep that in mind. NOT that i think abortion is the answer. but if you decide that you can't help take care of the baby then you need to let her decide what to do, she is carrying the baby.
DONT DO THiS AGAiN.
good luck tho with all this youre going to need it <3
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You should of been more careful...if your going to play with fire ....your going to get burned!
How old are you? You're probably too young, that's why you don't know what to do.
How can you take care of "it" (baby), you'll need lots of $$$ to pay for a kid these days.
Let her get an abortion if she wants to, then you won't have a problem anymore. If it happened "a while ago" , like you said, and you haven't done anything about it yet, what are you still waiting for?
If you're 14 and she's 12, you and her are just
a baby,you don't want another baby.
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