alright well im 14 & about to finally get out of MiDDLE SCHOOL :] lol yeah thats kinda important to me. im really excited i NEVVVER thought that it would happen, it felt like it took forever but it kinda like fLeW by.
i have noo bf right now i've gone out with a few people lately but i can't really find someone i really like except the same person i've always kinda liked BUT im open for ideaslol ;]
mm i have brown hair im kinda tiny [( height )] & green eyes. in my picture thats my cousin cj & i have NO idea wha the hells on my face lol
* ^ thats pretty much it i guess? IM me if u wanna talk im always on at night on weekdays.
Gender: Female
Location: ViRGiNiA
Occupation: sTuDeNt
Age: 14
AIM: babigotbak155
Member Since: June 1, 2004
Answers: 15
Last Update: June 4, 2004
Visitors: 1115
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i got this girl pregnant a while ago
she said that she would keep it if i take care of it otherwise shes going to get an abortion
dont know what to do (link)
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wow this is a big deal especially if you two are 14 and 12. thats kinda scary to think that an 8th grader and maybe a 6th or 7th grader are having babies. well i think you need to do something to help her right now i mean you did help make it. whether or not you keep it is up to you but someone should talk to an adult prolly starting with one of your parents. if she doesn't get an abortion [which is totally up to you two] then you need to be there for the baby. you are in no way to take care of one right now tho unless your parents are going to support you on this, so keep that in mind. NOT that i think abortion is the answer. but if you decide that you can't help take care of the baby then you need to let her decide what to do, she is carrying the baby.
DONT DO THiS AGAiN.
good luck tho with all this youre going to need it
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Okay anybody to answer this question would be most helpful. okay i am a 13 year old male and in my life i never had a girlfriend. to tell you the truth i kind of weigh 150 pounds. and my feet kind of stink. i want a girlfriend that is pretty but has a good personality and yet almost every girl i like i can't tell her. But the very few i tell i like them they say Eeeew.what can i do i don't want to be lonly please somone give me some advice.Pllllease i need advice!!!!!!!
P.S please answer soon as possible (link)
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well im guna tell you good and bad things about this whole problem. the good thing is that the right girl for you will not care how much you way or what your feet smell like. she'll just care about how you act and what you do when youre around her and how you make her feel. so there is no rush in finding one especially at 13. what grade are you in 7th grade? im sure tons of boys your age haven't had a gf yet. you prolly won't even start having like REAL gfs untill the 10th grade so there are no worries.
and the second bit of advice i have for you is if getting a gf means so much to you do u do anything to help get one do you take any steps too? like do you try to get foot creme or something to help with the odor? and maybe you should try a diet or try losing weight some way. im not trying to get you to change who you are and whatever im just trying to give you ideas on how to help it
- - - i hope things work out just be patient.
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Ok, I'm kinda in love with this guy who was a senior in my school but as the year went by and we grew closer we became friends and now we're in love(he loves me too and we're kinda going out) but now he has graduated and is going to college in August, and I have no idea what I'm going to do without him. HELP!!! (link)
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hm thats kinda hard, but if you think you really love each other then im sure its all guna work out and everything will be ok. but him going to college might be hard especially if he goes to a like away from where you guys live. im suer it will work out if you make it. you just have to try good luck
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ok, me and my ex broke up..and i want him back but he has a new gf now..and i dont think he wants me back..we went thro a lot..we are still good friends but i dont think he wants me back and ive tried to move on..i just cant...what should i do? (link)
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wow im pretty much going thru the same thing. just talk to whoever he is and see if you two can go somewhere and just talk. it would be easier to tell exactly how he feels face to face. and if he tells you there is nothing there thats when u need to start spending less time with him to un-attach yourself from him because otherwise it will not make anything better. but if you see less and less of him. then once you know your over him you can go back and just be friends.
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My bf and i are 16 and his penis is about 6 inches long is that average? and soemtimes
he has trouble keeping an erection is there anything we can do about it? (link)
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hm well i think thats pretty average but im 14 & haven't seen that many dicks so yeah. idk what he could do at his age to keep a boner other then you helping him keep it.
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This summer is coming up, I maybe see my cusin well I love her so much she my best cusin and freind. well thing is that she can be on wild side and she drop out school get a job.. she likes punk music and stuff. I more of other side not punky and stuff like her. she hases these bypooler and deppression and she shave her head once. I want be ther for her and be her best friend agin like have good time and louhts but it hard becouse things inside me hurts what she doing to her self and I would talk to her but it wouldn't help.. I dont want judge my own cousin and I dont judge I just feel un combale things i dont know what to do.. (link)
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my cousins like that except shes not as old as your talking about your cousin being. theres nothing you can do to change your cousin no one can change anyone unless they themselve want to change. you can talk to her about it and how you think she should but if she says she doesn't want to and shes ok with who she is then there isn't really anything you can do. but you can ask her and im sure she'd do it to change the way she acts around you so you feel more comfortbale im sure she loves you and wouldn't want you to feel un comfortbale
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i have liked this guy(lets call him *B*) for about 8 months. he has changed my life completely around. i like him so much, i can talk to him about anything. and he makes me feel like a princess. he is like the ideal guy. except he has changed me and not for the best. before i used to be the sweetest girl who wouldn't make-out with guys a lot. but now all my friends are like to me "god you spend all your time with him now" and their all like "its not my fault.. cuz *B* is kinda controling" Now last nite my bestfriend told me that eventually i am gonna have to choose between haveing *ALL* my good friends or the GUY!.. but i like him soo much!!!!What should i do?? PLEASE HELP ME!
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i know right now he means the world to you but are you willing to give up lets say 10 really good friends for just one boy whos changed you but not to someone you wanna be? . . if you like him as much as i think you do you need to talk to him and tell him that you like him a lot and stuff but you need to be with your friends too and stuff like that im sure he'll understand too im sure he needs his guy friends too. and if he is really controlling you don't need to be around that because it could lead to worse things and trust me i've seen taht happen.
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I dont believe in God, or Satan, or heaven and hell. I think its just a story told to us to try and make us act like better people. Please comment. (link)
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im not a very religious person like i don't go to church every sunday or stuff like that but i don't think to believe in God you need to. and if there was no heaven hell God devil or any of that how do you think all of this came to be?..it didn't all just show up one day someone made this. no one is telling you those stories to make you act better then you are. you're suppose to want to be because thats the right thing to do. i don't want to make you think you have to believe in anything but i know and enough people knwo whether or not someone who knows for a fact can tell us that there is place we all go to to account for thigns we've done.
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can u get birth control without ur parents knowing? (link)
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at my doctors office there is this thing on the back of all the doors that shows you how you can get it without your parents knowing, so yeah you can. but you need to get to your doctors to check that out for yourself.
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I like this guy and I really have no idea why.. We have never talked in person but I think he's cute and we've talked on the internet before. Do you think I should take a chance and go up to him and start talking or what ? Im confused... (link)
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im kinda doing the same thing right now. im talking to this guy who've i've seen and hes really cute and i like talking to him online and stuff. you should prolly hang out w/ him 2 or 3 times before you decide to like express ideas of liking him or whatever.
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if you could be anyone in the world alive or dead who would u be? (link)
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i agree with that one person one of the olsen twins they've got everything at 17. BUUUUUT lol im aiiiight with me
HOLLLLER lol
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i've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 months now and we're both too shy to kiss, we both said we wanted to but neither of us has the guts to make the first move. I don't know how to make a move on him and i'm scared that it'll all go wrong but i'm sick of my friends calling me a fridge. what do i do? :( (link)
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aw thats kinda cute i guess you two are shy & don't wanna like make a bad impression on each other. but yeah it will mean a lot more to you if you do it for yourselves rather then whatever your friends are telling you to do. your boyfriend obviously does not care if you kiss or not he likes you for you. how many of your friends can say they have boyfriends like that or a boyfriend period? and if you do want to kiss and want to know how to make a move just make a lot of eye contact and you'll kinda have a feeling when to move in and stuff like that, it comes naturally after the eye contact. im telling you it will work he'll feel it too if its suppose to happen. good luck and remember do it for YOU
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How do gay guys have sex? I now how leisbian have it but buti don't no how guys do! (link)
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haha this is kinda a funny question lol i see a lot of people have already answered it but im guna anyways . . they do it up the ass or suck each others dicks. SiMpLe aS tHaT.
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i was dating a guy and flames for ex came back blah blah blah long story...and i told my friend Brandy, adn after i said somethign, she just changed the subject and didnt offer me any words of wisdom, adn everytime i mentioned it, she went crazy and changed the subject. it is kind of frustrating becuase i want t otalk to her out it but she doesnt want to hear it...i do happen to knwo that she really doesnt like my ex, she never approved of us to begin with...but, what can i do...??? to at least get her to be able to help me through my problems? is there anything i CAN do? HELP!!! (link)
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wow that like sounds exactly like me and one of my best friends. she never really likes who i go out with and always finds a reason to not like him and i thought it was because shes kinda always liked the guy i was going out with at the time. you just need to go somewhere together and talk about it start out by asking her why shes always changing the subject and not even bothering to help and that you've noticed shes doing that and what the reason for her not liking your ex is maybe you'll come to realize shes had feelings for him or knows things about him you didn't know. who knows. i think you need to ask those two questions first. good luck with that let me knwo what happens, it reminds me so much of me
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I'm a 17 Female
There's this guy who goes to my friends church. His name is Collin. Anyway, I've thought Collin was cute for a while and I noticed him looking at me a few times during church and stuff. Well I told my guy friend, Aaron (who's friends with him) about it. Well last Sunday night Aaron went up to Collin and asked him what he thought about me (I didn't know what he was doing at the time. All I saw was Aaron talking to him and Collin smiling a lot.) Well Aaron told me that Collin smiled and nodded and said "Nice" (like he thought I looked good or something). Aaron told me I'd have to start talking to him because he's shy or w/e. Well when I got home he was online and my friend Crystal (whom he barely knows by the way) IMed him.. and asked him what he thought about me, again. And he told HER that he wasn't my type or something like that.. Could someone tell me what he means by this? I mean.. I know he's saying he doesn't think He's my type but.. why did he act like he was interested when my friend Aaron asked him but completely turn the tables when Crystal asked him.. Could it be that he doesn't know Crystal and didn't really want to tell her, or what? If anyone could help me, I'd greatly appreciate it! :)
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well yeah im pretty sure if he told your and his friend aaron that he liked you or was into you and whatever that that's how he was feeling. im sure he doesn't wanna tell some random girl who hes lookin at. i know i wouldn't and you prolly wouldn't either, so im pretty sure he likes you but maybe YOU should ask him yourself, its the only way you can be completely sure.
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