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What's his deal?
I'm a 17 Female
There's this guy who goes to my friends church. His name is Collin. Anyway, I've thought Collin was cute for a while and I noticed him looking at me a few times during church and stuff. Well I told my guy friend, Aaron (who's friends with him) about it. Well last Sunday night Aaron went up to Collin and asked him what he thought about me (I didn't know what he was doing at the time. All I saw was Aaron talking to him and Collin smiling a lot.) Well Aaron told me that Collin smiled and nodded and said "Nice" (like he thought I looked good or something). Aaron told me I'd have to start talking to him because he's shy or w/e. Well when I got home he was online and my friend Crystal (whom he barely knows by the way) IMed him.. and asked him what he thought about me, again. And he told HER that he wasn't my type or something like that.. Could someone tell me what he means by this? I mean.. I know he's saying he doesn't think He's my type but.. why did he act like he was interested when my friend Aaron asked him but completely turn the tables when Crystal asked him.. Could it be that he doesn't know Crystal and didn't really want to tell her, or what? If anyone could help me, I'd greatly appreciate it! :)
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it could just be a guy thing why would he tell another girl what he thinks about you i think u should stick to what Aaron said and kick crystal out of the picture she'll just mess things up why dont u just talk to him ask Aaron to introduce you to then see what happens
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well yeah im pretty sure if he told your and his friend aaron that he liked you or was into you and whatever that that's how he was feeling. im sure he doesn't wanna tell some random girl who hes lookin at. i know i wouldn't and you prolly wouldn't either, so im pretty sure he likes you but maybe YOU should ask him yourself, its the only way you can be completely sure. <3
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well..maybe he jkinda likes that grl Crystal...? and he likes u to..but usally boys are weird like that..dun get crystal in2 it bc then she will start to like him..and this happened to me..and then colin will like her..so just talk to him urslef and get to kno him!
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I say you walk right up to that young stud and ask him about it for yourself. you are never going to know what is going on unless the two of you sit down and have a little chat. kind of the same thing is going on with me right now, but i was too shy to say anything to him. i finally told him that i liked him, and now we are great! Seriously, this boy seems very shy! Go make the move girl..
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Well Aaron said that he was shy, so he was probably being shy. He might not feel comfortable telling everyone his feelings, especially people that he doesn't talk to. I think it would be best if maybe you were the one to talk to him, you can never know with friends telling you, you need to go get him yourself. Maybe then ya'll can get to know each other and see how things go from there. If he's shy i'm sure he'd much rather you talk to him first, so he doesn't feel so nervous. Hope it helped, good luck babe.
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Well, since you say that he said that *he* wasn't *your* type it could be that he doesn't think you would want to go out with him, or that you are in a differnt league from him. Might he have know at least that Crystal was your mate? If so maybe he was shy about admiting his feeling to her, afraid that word would reach you and you would reject him before he even had a chance.
I thingk that you should just go ahead and make friends with this boy. He sounds sweet, and who knows, even if he is unsure about his feeling towards you now, it could devlop into somthing much bigger.
So go for it, and good luck :)
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