Ok, I'm kinda in love with this guy who was a senior in my school but as the year went by and we grew closer we became friends and now we're in love(he loves me too and we're kinda going out) but now he has graduated and is going to college in August, and I have no idea what I'm going to do without him. HELP!!!
lilmizzsweetnsour answered Saturday June 5 2004, 3:05 am: well, you could have a long distance relationship...? but i think its better to move on, b/c once guys are in college they start 2 party and all, and meeting new people, so i think he might end up doing those kinda things, otherwise keep in touch wid him everyday or so, and mayb ur relationship will still last? or ask him2 keep promises 4 u, and all those kinda stuff. well good luck! [ lilmizzsweetnsour's advice column | Ask lilmizzsweetnsour A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Saturday June 5 2004, 2:13 am: If you to are strong you to should be able to make it... talk about it first. before he goes away. that is a good thing to do before because it will help you decide on your decision weather to stay together or not. makes things alot easier i tell ya!! trust me on that one [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
storageanddisposal answered Saturday June 5 2004, 2:11 am: College life is different, full of experiments, new surroundings, etc. If you think you can make it work, I'd stay with him, but the chances of a long term relationship working are slim. Many of my friends tried but failed. I would visit him as much as possible. Try to find a(nother) job to keep yourself occupied. Hang out with friends more. anything to keep your mind off him when you can't see him. [ storageanddisposal's advice column | Ask storageanddisposal A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Friday June 4 2004, 11:21 pm: If you both feel that you could stay true to each other in a long distance relationship, go for it. But think about it. If you don't want to be tied down to a guy you might never see much, I'd break up with him. If you two are really meant to be together after all that you'll end up back together.
But I'm all for positives, so talk to him and figure out if you two really want to do the whole long-distance relationship thing. Hey, it works for some people.
Good luck!
-Siren [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
babigotbak155 answered Friday June 4 2004, 10:34 pm: hm thats kinda hard, but if you think you really love each other then im sure its all guna work out and everything will be ok. but him going to college might be hard especially if he goes to a like away from where you guys live. im suer it will work out if you make it. you just have to try good luck <3 [ babigotbak155's advice column | Ask babigotbak155 A Question ]
georgiababe answered Friday June 4 2004, 10:06 pm: well what grade are u in? i say if u guys are in love then go for it, and do waht ur hear ttells u , just keep in mind tat when he goes to college ya'llwont see each otehr much hope i helped [ georgiababe's advice column | Ask georgiababe A Question ]
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