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i've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 months now and we're both too shy to kiss, we both said we wanted to but neither of us has the guts to make the first move. I don't know how to make a move on him and i'm scared that it'll all go wrong but i'm sick of my friends calling me a fridge. what do i do? :(
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Just wait for the right moment. Like when its just you to and then lean in! Just hang in there! you 2 will accomplish it no matter what! lol i know it can be nerve wrecking even if you have made out before. good luck-----trix
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The next time you 2 go out when he drops u off give him a hug and just as ur about to pull away stop like right by his cheek then stare him straightin the eyes look away look back and slowly move ur face close to his keep eye contact eventully he'll start moveing in and the next thing u know you'll be kissing. Maybe he's just one of those guys who likes the girl to make the first move. I hope it works out email me back at AskDanni@aol.com to tell me how it turned out later-Danielle
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I DEFF. THINK YOU SHOULD GO FOR THE FIRST MOVE!!! its always sexy n a big turn on for guys when gurls go for it!...well it depends on where you are for ur first kiss!?!... if ur like at the movies... jus get close to him... let him put his hand around you lay ur head on his shoulder n put ur arm around his stomache... then when u feel its the appropriate time ... GO FOR IT!... hope yall have a good time!! lemme know how it goes! ; )
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aw thats kinda cute i guess you two are shy & don't wanna like make a bad impression on each other. but yeah it will mean a lot more to you if you do it for yourselves rather then whatever your friends are telling you to do. your boyfriend obviously does not care if you kiss or not he likes you for you. how many of your friends can say they have boyfriends like that or a boyfriend period? and if you do want to kiss and want to know how to make a move just make a lot of eye contact and you'll kinda have a feeling when to move in and stuff like that, it comes naturally after the eye contact. im telling you it will work he'll feel it too if its suppose to happen. good luck and remember do it for YOU <3
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Being shy isn't a bad thing. Kissing just comes natural and will be mean a lot more if you take it as time wants it. If you both want it to happen, it will and it will be wonderful. You just have to wait for that special moment that will make it all worth waiting for. As for your friends calling you a 'fridge', well that's not exactly what true friends should do...maybe they just need to realize that taking it slow and letting it happen natually will make you and your boyfriend become more comfortable with each other. Soon enough you two will be 'smoochin' :) I hope this helped!
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Don't worry about what your friends are saying. You are dating your boyfriend, not your name-calling friends. If the kiss thing isn't working out, don't stress. The fact that the desire is there on both your sides means that it will come in time. One of you will make the move when the time is right.
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i know what your going through. i went through the same thign with Ex-Flame John. we went out for 4 months, but never even tried, and we really liked each other. i guess we were both scared. but, you could do it one of 4 ways...the romantic way, or the old fashioned way, the quick and painless way, or the long boring way.
romantic way: ask him "is there anythign you have ever wanted to do but never erally could get up the nerve to do." and when he agrees, kiss him and when hes says yeah (which he should) be like, "well this is mine" and juss do it!!!
Old-Fashioned Way: tell him that you want to kiss hiim but are afraid to make the first move...then he should be so flattered that he will kiss you!!! he should be so flattered that you want ot kiss him and maybe he was scared cuz he didnt know if you wanted it or not, and didnt want ot push you too far.
Quick & Painless: JUSS DO IT!!!!!! juss close your eyes, pucker up, adn move in.
Long & Boring: wait for him.
the choice is yours, but i hope that i was of help!!!
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Fridge is the new word for that huh? It used to be TMN. I think I'm getting old. Sigh.
Anyways, for your question. If you can't work up the courage to kiss him on the lips then try and see if you can make yourself kiss him just on the cheek. He's probably terrified and if you kiss him, even the slightest little cheek peck, he'll know you want him to kiss you and then most likely he will. Guys can be reaaaaallly really shy because they're afraid of the reaction you'll have if they kiss you. So, if you want him to kiss you - you'll have to kiss him first.
If you can't work up the courage to kiss him on the cheek, then try holding his hand and just staring at him. Hopefully, he'll get the hint.
if even that doesn't work, write him a note and write in big huge enormous letters
I WANT YOU TO KISS ME.
And then slip it into his hand. And he had better kiss you at that point.
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Well i believe that if u guyz talked about than u should be able. if u guyz r separating give him a hug and go strait for it don't hesitate. i'm sure he won't move away just give it 2 him
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One day while you're just sitting somewhere like on a couch, at a movie, outside, ANYWHERE! AS long as you feel like you're ready just lean in and give him a kiss. Don't go full-frontal the first time.. Just a peck will do. Then.. let him take it further if he wants..
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Wow. 2 months and not even a kiss. I say just do it. Take aim, close your eyes, and kiss him. Get it over with, do it while you say good-bye, that's a pretty good time.
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First of all, don't kiss him just because your friends think you should. That's dumb, and you will regret it. However, if you are sure you want to do this for yourself, then just go for it. Stop stressing - you will be fine, and who knows, you might even enjoy it ;)
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If you feel that you want to then just go for it. Think, what's the worst that can happen?
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