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love hurts
ok, me and my ex broke up..and i want him back but he has a new gf now..and i dont think he wants me back..we went thro a lot..we are still good friends but i dont think he wants me back and ive tried to move on..i just cant...what should i do?
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Well maybe the whole online thing is maybe a hit of him saying he does want you back and right there would have been a good moment to say how you feel about him. and he probably would have answered back the way you would have wanted him to. I would wait for another moment like that or maybe be like how come you were wondering what i would do if u came back me right now.. and maybe he will tell you and you could tell him there.. trix
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I think his tryin 2 say he wantz u back but not in those wordz. he wantz u to confront him and fight for him. so thatz wat u must do. i mean i sure his not tha type 2 play wit ur mind like that nad lead u on. he wantz u back from wat u r sayin.
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Just let it go. I know it's hard, but he's moved on and you are only going to get more hurt if you stick around clutching at straws. Good luck.
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OMG! I just went through the same thing. Just be yourself and don't throw yourself at him when he has a girlfriend. Make sure that your there to talk to him if/when they break up. Don't be to pushy, but make sure that you are there for him in his time of need. When he seems over her, swoop in and tell him what you feel about him. And reminince alot.
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wow im pretty much going thru the same thing. just talk to whoever he is and see if you two can go somewhere and just talk. it would be easier to tell exactly how he feels face to face. and if he tells you there is nothing there thats when u need to start spending less time with him to un-attach yourself from him because otherwise it will not make anything better. but if you see less and less of him. then once you know your over him you can go back and just be friends.
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I know the usual answer would be to straight-out "move on". Well, I've been in the same exact situation, and I know saying that is easier than doing it. For a while, I couldn't go a day without thinking about him, or talking to him. But let me tell you, I just woke up one morning and he was no longer in my thoughts [also, I tried to think about all of his flaws, instead of how "perfect" he was to me.. this helped me realize how much he wasn't as GREAT as I portrayed him to be]. Once I got over all of that, we're still really good friends, so I think this will work out for you too. <3
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awww..dun say u CANT move on bc u realli can! who broke up with who? did he break up with u or did u break up with him? w/b and then i will give u the advice..xO
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ok first of all... if this is heather-lol-then i am going to tell u the same thing i always do! U DONT NEED HIM! u are a better person without him and he is a pig. u know this. he doesnt deserve u and u have so many friends that love u! if this isnt heather... then sorry lol
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Alright here it goes ive been though that and its really hard but all u have to do is think of all the bad annoying discusting embarsing or stupid things he did that really made u mad. and just relize that the girl hes with right now has to deal with ALL that and you are free to shop around for a new Better boyfrined because as perfect as he may have seemd.. theres always some one better and when u find him (the better one)(n believe me hes out there) moving on will go alot smoother! hope i could help
signed- Ben There Done That
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Start by asking your telling your self " okay we broke up we are over he has a new girlfriend and I need to move on" If you agree with what you just said then well yea you should probably move on. Maybe try getting a new man yourself. On the other hand if you answered no then you need to tell him or maybe try to talk to him about how him and his girlfriend are gettin along. If that sstill doesnt help then try writing down pros and cons to each situation
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