Hey Alicia! well .... there's this guy that i like .. but my friend use to be REALLY obsessed with him and like him alot .. everyone else says that he likes me .. and he flirts with me alot he also trys to show off alot which is annoying! well he called one of my great guy friends and asked him if i was dating anyone(and i'm not) soo he asked me out... but i think that my friend still likes him ALOT ! the truth is .. we arent even really friends..we sorta grew apart..but i was just wondering if i should go out with this guy or not? i mean he's not even that great .. but i would be nice i guess to be with him ..
[ I'm 14 ]
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? VivaLaJen answered Thursday June 3 2004, 5:32 pm: Well, I think it all depends on how strong of a bond you have with your girl friend. I mean, if you're still best friends and all, then it wouldn't be right to go out with the guy. I'm not automatically saying that if you two grew more apart, then you should straight-away go out with the boy. I think the simple solution [or a way to make the solution] would be to talk to your friend and see if she still likes him as much as she used to. I know it's wrong to go out with someone your friend likes, but if she's over him. Then again, if he's not that great, then why risk the friendship? So in the end, communication with your friend, and realizing if he is worth it, is all that matters. [ VivaLaJen's advice column | Ask VivaLaJen A Question ]
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