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Having Cousin whoes on dark side
This summer is coming up, I maybe see my cusin well I love her so much she my best cusin and freind. well thing is that she can be on wild side and she drop out school get a job.. she likes punk music and stuff. I more of other side not punky and stuff like her. she hases these bypooler and deppression and she shave her head once. I want be ther for her and be her best friend agin like have good time and louhts but it hard becouse things inside me hurts what she doing to her self and I would talk to her but it wouldn't help.. I dont want judge my own cousin and I dont judge I just feel un combale things i dont know what to do..
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my cousins like that except shes not as old as your talking about your cousin being. theres nothing you can do to change your cousin no one can change anyone unless they themselve want to change. you can talk to her about it and how you think she should but if she says she doesn't want to and shes ok with who she is then there isn't really anything you can do. but you can ask her and im sure she'd do it to change the way she acts around you so you feel more comfortbale im sure she loves you and wouldn't want you to feel un comfortbale <3
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Well, I listen to a little bit of punk and have had my head shaved before, but then again I'm a guy. She has made her own decisions, the best thing you can do is remain close to her, and talk/listen to her when she needs it.
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Punk music isnt bad at all, i listen to punk as a matter of fact but anyway, If talking doesnt work, do something. Make a big difference to make her see, she needs to realize things around her are changing, show her shes not the only one going through these things. Make her understand things like being wild when youre not doesnt change anything but your friends and attitude towards things..tell her you miss her alot and you dont like seeing her like it and it hurts so much.
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Well I can see how that's tricky becausr you lover her. But the only thing to do is just what you are thinking, *talk to you her*. That's the only way you are going to feel better and get that off your chest. But talk to her in way she that she knows you love her and the only reason why youi are concerened is because you love her.
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