Member Since: June 5, 2004
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Last Update: June 5, 2004
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Okay I will try to keep this short.
I have a friend lets call her lana, well I met lana at camp one time and we sorta became friends because we were not liked that well and so I mean I thought she was a great friend and all that and not about 2 years lata to me hse is like SO boring and just like a fly that I can't get ot go away. she constitaly calls me and she became friends with my "So Called Friends" and they are always making up lies to lana about me and well lana is sorta someone that will beleive that you can walk upside down if you tell her that. and so she beleive all these friends say about me and I don't know how to tell I don't want to be friedns with her anymore because I just can't stand her. I mean she isn;t that pretty and that doen't matter but she follows me around and acts like a lost dog. she says her mother likes me because I'm the only firned that hasn't been mean to her. I'm a nice person and I just canpt find the guts to tell her that she drives me batty! I have a really good friend and lana gets SO upset that i spend more time with her and I that I don't like her that well. I like her but I just don't like..;... HELP ME!!! I don't know what to do!
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to nice of friend (link)
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'Lana' can't help that she wants to be friends with you. Like you said yourself, you are a nice person. A nice person, in my opinion, lets a new friend into their life. She may be annoying, you say, but who cares? Everyone is annoying sometime. Get to know 'Lana,' Who knows; you guys could become great friends.
Talk to 'Lana' about how the rumors your 'friends' are saying aren't true. She should believe you if she really does want to become your friend and likes you as a person.
Explain to 'Lana' calmly that you have other friends, and can't always hang out with her.
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Hi there! I was just wondering if you could help me figure out what to do about a lil problem I'm havins?!?! Ok...well see I've been dating this guy for 2 months but before we even knew each other he was really good friends with some of my best friends. Well ever since the first day that we started *officially* going out they all started telling him how I was just gonna use him for sex and then dump him and stuff=(but when I met him I was a VIRGIN! And now they keep telling him that he never spends time with them anymore and that he should break up with me and they say all this stuff behind my back but then act like everythings alright when they talk to me! I mean I really love my friends but I don't think it's right that they do/say all this stuff about me. I confronted them once and they all said sorry and that they knew I would never do anything like that to them and that they wouldn't let it happen again but now its just gettin worse! What should I do?!?!?! Thanks a bunch! (link)
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I agree with just about everyone. Your so-called 'friends' are mostlikely jealous. Just ignore them, and talk to your boyfriend about it. Explain that the rumors they are spreading aren't true. If he doesn't believe you, then maybe he isn't the right guy for you.
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dude i really like this kid but he like is a player n he wants me to go to his house tom n have sex i dont want to n i m like in love with him but he messes with my mind it sux wuta i do? (link)
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If he's a player, why would you want to have sex with him? Okay, anyway..If you don't want to have sex with him, then don't. If you do (although I don't see why you would) then..er..have sex with him. Don't let him mess with your mind. You are your own person. You make your decisions. He doesn't. Why would you be in love with a player that controls your mind? Who would want to? Eh..I'm so confused.
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i got this girl pregnant a while ago
she said that she would keep it if i take care of it otherwise shes going to get an abortion
dont know what to do (link)
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Talk to her about it. Talk about if you guys are ready to have a kid, or not. If you are, see a doctor or something and ask for advice on how to raise a kid. If you guys decide not to keep the kid, then make sure you guys are completly sure.
Hope that helps.
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