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2 faced friends?
Hi there! I was just wondering if you could help me figure out what to do about a lil problem I'm havins?!?! Ok...well see I've been dating this guy for 2 months but before we even knew each other he was really good friends with some of my best friends. Well ever since the first day that we started *officially* going out they all started telling him how I was just gonna use him for sex and then dump him and stuff=(but when I met him I was a VIRGIN! And now they keep telling him that he never spends time with them anymore and that he should break up with me and they say all this stuff behind my back but then act like everythings alright when they talk to me! I mean I really love my friends but I don't think it's right that they do/say all this stuff about me. I confronted them once and they all said sorry and that they knew I would never do anything like that to them and that they wouldn't let it happen again but now its just gettin worse! What should I do?!?!?! Thanks a bunch!
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To paraphrase Frasier,
Men do not use sex to get what they want. Sex IS what they want!!
It is impossible to use a boy for sex. That was a huge mistake from the beginning, no matter who said it, because that will not drive a boy away.
If your friends are assholes, and that is the general picture I'm getting here, dump them. Come on...why is it, if a man acts like this to a woman, she dumps him like third period French; but if a woman acts this way to a woman, she takes it and takes it for months? Just because they KNOW you does not mean they're your friends. They are being assholes of the highest order. Get a new friend, or just tell these you're not interested in their backstabbing any more.
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I agree with just about everyone. Your so-called 'friends' are mostlikely jealous. Just ignore them, and talk to your boyfriend about it. Explain that the rumors they are spreading aren't true. If he doesn't believe you, then maybe he isn't the right guy for you.
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gurl like that are jacked i had so much probs with dat shit u need to talk to ur bf n tell him the prob n confront the bitches n tell um this isnt gonna happen n tell them they need to cut da shit n its not right talk to um see wut happens good luck babe email me if u need anything gbabe_cutie@msn.com
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I agree with the previous 2, they're jealous. I wouldn't comfront them about it again, I would just ignore them. They sound immature to me, and most of the time immature people go on only until there's no more responses. How did you find out about them talking behind your back? Did your boyfriend tell you, if so then just ignore them. They'll eventually get a life of their own and stop bothering you. If they were really close friends, they wouldn't say such things. But of course, that's just my opinion.
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i think ur friends are just jealous and they wont admit to it they just dont kno how it feels to have someone special ..but wen their time comes they will kno how it felt so dont look at ur friends all the time becuase ur with someone u love and if u choose ur friends over ur bf then thats wrong i mean its been 2 months who knows where this relationship might be in a year but if u dont like this guy too much then go for ur friends becuase they cane bring u more happiness
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