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bf breakup problems
Hey alicia!! just lemme say that ur so pretty and nathan is so cute and u guys r cute together! but ne ways lemme get to my problem...ok i was going out with this guy named Bryce for 6 months and i really felt like i actually loved him and we did a lot of "firsts" together and alla the sudden like a week or 2 b4 skool got out he dumped me claiming that he "didnt want a gf for the summer" and his friend that i really dislike even did it for him...and then one of my really good friends told me that she heard that he just plain didnt like me any more but i didnt know if it was true.i still really like him even tho i dont show it cuz its been like 4 or 5 weeks and ppl think i should get over it and all and i got a lot of sympathy frum guys and girls cuz they felt bad cuz they knew i liked him a lot but what my question is...how can i get him back next school year? or get him to like me again? cuz we didnt talk at all after our breakup in any of our classes and all and if i cant get back together wit him i atleast wana become good friends with him.or should i just plain give up on him? plz help cuz im really confused!
(im 14)
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Talk to him. Thats the only way you will know anything. If he dumped you for the summer its prolly cuz he wanted to be free to see other girls. And if thats it, then thats a jerk. But i dont see why u want to possibly put yourself through that again. I would move on. If he doesnt want you or your friendship he is missing out on, then youre better off without him in your life.
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I agree with ^^ you should take the summer off...think about things and think if he's really worth it. There are so many guys out there that will treat you right. The sooner you go after someone new the quicker things will get better for you...trust me
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alright. i say you take your summer and use it for urself, let ur self sorta forget him, so to speak. in doing this you wont feel awkward talking to him and if he has any feelings for you the time will do the same for him. in doing this it will allow the space needed for both of you guys to talk again and become friends. that way if you cant get back with him you are still friends.
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