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My name is Jamey..I'm always in need of advice, so thank you to everyone who has answered me :) I love you all so much!
Gender: Female
Age: 15
AIM: bcjamey
Member Since: June 16, 2004
Answers: 6
Last Update: June 21, 2004
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how far do ya'll think is the best to go in a relationship of 5 months. (link)
The way that I was told to look at it is...if your parents were sitting right infront of you...what would you do with your bf? But its not like you'de really go by that.


i am havin a real trouble tryin to pick a colour for my room. i have knda a big room and i dont want colours wot make it to big or to small can sum 1 help me plz (link)
I would do it like forest green with baby blue...have one dark color and one light color say they'll even out and make your room look the size you want it!


Hey alicia!! just lemme say that ur so pretty and nathan is so cute and u guys r cute together! but ne ways lemme get to my problem...ok i was going out with this guy named Bryce for 6 months and i really felt like i actually loved him and we did a lot of "firsts" together and alla the sudden like a week or 2 b4 skool got out he dumped me claiming that he "didnt want a gf for the summer" and his friend that i really dislike even did it for him...and then one of my really good friends told me that she heard that he just plain didnt like me any more but i didnt know if it was true.i still really like him even tho i dont show it cuz its been like 4 or 5 weeks and ppl think i should get over it and all and i got a lot of sympathy frum guys and girls cuz they felt bad cuz they knew i liked him a lot but what my question is...how can i get him back next school year? or get him to like me again? cuz we didnt talk at all after our breakup in any of our classes and all and if i cant get back together wit him i atleast wana become good friends with him.or should i just plain give up on him? plz help cuz im really confused!
(im 14) (link)
I agree with ^^ you should take the summer off...think about things and think if he's really worth it. There are so many guys out there that will treat you right. The sooner you go after someone new the quicker things will get better for you...trust me


ok i am in love im sure of it i can imagine getting married to this kid and stuff. but he completely screwed me over. we were going out for a month... i gave up everything for him too like my friends, family, the first guy to give a shit about me, and even skool a little... and then he moved in w/ a friend to go to this skool that would give him a chance. i was happy for him and he made me feel confident that things wouldnt change to much. but well... they did.. a lot. i proly talked to him 2 in 3 months after he moved and i heard all this shit about him cheating right... well i finally gave up and stuff. but i still cant stop wondering about him and the one time i saw him he was at the mall w/ his arms wrapped around another girl and he like ran from me (proly afraid id kick his ass) anyways... i still love him! i kno we could never be together now and that he is a total ass for abandoning me... but i cant help it!! (link)
You just gotta get your mind off it. Make sure there's nothing that will remind you of him. I know there will be somethings but others like if you have letters, necklaces, or something like that put it in a box and tape it up so you can't get into it and get more upset. He's obviously a jerk and doesn't deserve a girl like you...I know thats probably not what you wanted to hear but its the truth. You just gotta pick a new path to go down and everything will be okay.


alright im a new frosh right, well i like 2 guys and i cant pick one, i wanna see what other people think...well lets call the first guy x now x is my age i have gona out wit him b4 and broke up wit him so i wouldnt get hurt but it ended up hurting me more, i know thats stupid know N im learning well we have been talking the last few 3 m. b4 school ended get even closer than we were when we were going out, well i like him alot and idk his friends say he likes me N he acts like it most the time, he told me to call him over the summer and we could hang out but idk maybe im to scared or w/e i dont wanna call...and then theres well lets call him o well he 16 and i like him too...he always is saying that hes almost inlove wit me but idk hes soo sweet and he understands me most the time...we are talking as much as we can at the moment and i think that maybe im not good enough for o cuz i mean he has goan throught some hard stuff wit his ex that i know abut because we have been friends erally good friends up untill some time after him N his gf were over...if anyone could try to help cuz i just dont know anymore..and the best friend i got right now my almost twin is helping out but i want an outsiders view!! thankx bye bye 14/f (link)
It seems to me that you like the older guy better b/c you said alot more about him in there. And I think you should try it just make sure since there is a two year difference that you guys are both on the same maturity level b/c that can cause problems if your not...but I'm guessing you are since you've been friends for so long...g/l!!

-Jamey


I was dating a guy for 9 months and we had sex...we broke up yesturday and he allready has another g/f. Should I regret doing that? To me it seems as if he doesn't even care what had happened between us b/c he's allready dating another girl...I'm just confused. (link)
Thanks guys...




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