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Still In Love
ok i am in love im sure of it i can imagine getting married to this kid and stuff. but he completely screwed me over. we were going out for a month... i gave up everything for him too like my friends, family, the first guy to give a shit about me, and even skool a little... and then he moved in w/ a friend to go to this skool that would give him a chance. i was happy for him and he made me feel confident that things wouldnt change to much. but well... they did.. a lot. i proly talked to him 2 in 3 months after he moved and i heard all this shit about him cheating right... well i finally gave up and stuff. but i still cant stop wondering about him and the one time i saw him he was at the mall w/ his arms wrapped around another girl and he like ran from me (proly afraid id kick his ass) anyways... i still love him! i kno we could never be together now and that he is a total ass for abandoning me... but i cant help it!!
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Gte over the guy! Find someone new! you were good to him and he blew it. Don't spend the rest of your life in love with him when you can do so much better. Good Luck! :)
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A friend of mine once said
"A man is never worth a woman's tears, and when you find the right one, he won't make you cry."
Think about it. This guy has treated you like absolute shit. He appears to be a complete and utter asshole. Has he ever done anything nice for you? From the way you talk, doesn't sound like it.
Honey, you gotta find yourself a new guy.
I mean, I dated a creep for 2 months. He cheated on me, was condescending as all hell, and was a terrible kisser to boot. Then a year and 5 months later, I met the guy of my dreams...we're still together. Lol.
You gotta get rid of the creeps to find the good guys. So keep looking; don't focus on this one guy! You'll find one that really deserves you. Good luck!
-Siren =)
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I agree with jbdreamer. He treats you wrong so find a new guy.
*Nicole
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I don't understand how women can love men that treat them like crap. You are probalably still hung up on him because he was the first guy that paid attention to you. You just need to keep telling yourself that he was a jerk.
Also, you should never give up people and things in your life to be with a guy. If he really cared about you, he would be a part of the life you have.
It's time to move on, don't let this jerk that you went out with for only a month devestate you like that. I promise you, you will have more boyfriends, and more break-ups in the future. You need to learn to deal with them. And for now, just have fun with guys, don't be so serious and think they are your soul mate after only a month. Because you really don't know them as much as you think you do.
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You just gotta get your mind off it. Make sure there's nothing that will remind you of him. I know there will be somethings but others like if you have letters, necklaces, or something like that put it in a box and tape it up so you can't get into it and get more upset. He's obviously a jerk and doesn't deserve a girl like you...I know thats probably not what you wanted to hear but its the truth. You just gotta pick a new path to go down and everything will be okay.
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Almost everyone feels this way at some point in time. The trick is finding a way to start looking for other guys. I advise you to start talking to some guys more. After which you will start thinking of other guys more, which will lead to desiring to date other guys.
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is this jolinn!...sry if not..lets call this guy bubba N this guy that gave a shit about u chris...well wait it out N if u havent alredy u can get over him u'll find a gr8 boyfriend and an AWSOME new best friend...hehe maybe a twiN~ lol JK! love ya! Sara
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well, though it may have seemed right at the time, giving up all that stuff for a guy just isnt a good idea to begin with. you never know when a relationship will end and if you give everything up for a guy and then the guy abandons you, well you have nothing left. Now its fairly obvious that he isnt gonna go back to you. i would say just try and get over him but that is alot easier said than done, trust me i know, as well as alot of other ppl.
its gonna be hard to do it cos ur gonna be thinking of him, but you need to try to regain everything you lost, spend more time with your friends and your family. at first it wont seem to help but in time youll start to forget. just try and keep yourself occupied, even if it means doing skool work. also try and find new hobbies, but what ever you do, dont sit and ponder and wallow in self pitty, it wont help you.
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Well, I know how you feel. But you have to move on. Try to find a new guy you might like. I am sure b4 you like this guy, there are other guys you like. Mayb you could go back to the other guys you like b4 you found this one. Good Luck! :D
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Plain and simple.. hes a jerk forget him-trix
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