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2. ChAnGe SoMeOnEs LiFe, BiG oR SmAlL
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Every girl wants Prince Charming...and while he may be nice and all...I'm thinking that I'd rather have the guy that's gonna call at 4am just to say hi, or someone who'll stop by my house- after just hanging up the phone- because he wants to see how I'm REALLY doing. Because I said I was fine, but we both know I'm lying. Or the guy who'll stay home on a Saturday night with me because I'm sick and bring me my favorite kind of candy...even though I can't eat it because my stomach flips at the idea. That guy- that one guy...he may not be Prince Charming to anyone else...but he'd be my hero. My "knight in shining armor." Anyone who'd rather stay home on a Saturday night and hold my hair back while I puke...that's a hero...
What is cute, cute is young and inexperienced, cute is holding hands in the car and kissing at the red lights,what is sexy, sexy is standing in the rain as you push me up against the hood of your car, tearing my shirt as you kiss me with the intent to never stop; what is passion, passion is knowing what you want and stopping at nothing til you get it; what is beautiful, beautiful is about the inside of a person, beauty can only be found in the heart, passion is putting your heart in what you do, what is love, love is the amazing balance of all these things on your mind, heart, body and soul.
PeOpLe HaVe AlWaYs ToLd Me I WaS gOoD aT GiViNg AdViCe BuT iDk...HoW aBoUt YoU tElL mE!!
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i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused (link)
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i dont like this question at all, because it is mostly an opinion. i am 15. and im NOT a virgin i have only had sex with one person and i am proud that i lost it with who i lost it with. i love him more than anyone. i think u shouldnt be so quick to say all of that stuff. do you know any of the girls you are talking about not all of them are doing it or stupid reasons. (i know some of them are and thats for them to i guess find out the hard way) when i had sex with my boyfriend i was ready, it was how i wanted to lose it. guys still do respect me because they always have and because of the person i am, and they didnt treat me any diffrent before i had sex. if i was put in the same situation i would do the same thing all over again. i am not a slut whore tramp or anything i am just in love and i did what i wanted and was ready for at the time. i just hope you you understand not to put people in a catagory like that. sara.
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Ok well i am good at giveing other ppl advice, i take my time n think bout it, but when it comes 2 me getting advice no1 seems ta care or take the time, so mayb sum will here...N i already kinda asked a ? like this b4 but never really got tha answer i wanted so ima try 2 put it in a different way...
Im 13/girl n im realllyyy confused. I liked this lets call him * ahah ok well * n me were really good friends n then we both started to have 'more than friends' feelings bout eachother, but we never went out cuz i messd things up. So newayz we like barley ever even talk nemore. N im really trying to move on, im pretty much over him, cuz i dun see him 2 much cuz its summer n hes goin to the high school n ill be in 8th. Ok well like i moved on.. its just i cant find ne1. N i kno tha whole 'o ull find sum1' wateva stuff but that doesnt help me? i think ppl think im still stuck over * which im not n i jus wanna move on. How shud i do this? Sry its a lil confuseing but its jus hard 2 explain. (link)
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theres not much to say just flirt alot N all and just pimp it up IDK theres no fall for somone FAST trick sorry cuz if there were they could be selling it!! lol but just go on there soo many more things that * just have fun 8th grade year!! XoXO Sara
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Im 14 and ive never kissed a boy?! is that bad!? will people not date me because of that!? i mean boys have attempted to but i didnt let them because they were jerks and they just wanted sex! so help me! i need to know if thats a bad thing! and you'll probably say just to wait....he'll come to me but i cant wait any longer!! :*(
~Help me~ (link)
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thats just how u are nothing to be worryed about really i mean somtimes it just happend i mean my fist wasnt anything i wanna remember! lol there are tons of guys that ahvent too ur age!! its fine!! XoXO Sara
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hey, well i was mad at my mom for something she did so i e maild someone something that said bad things about her. shes given me silent treatment so im not to worried. What should i do? (link)
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tell her ur sorry for what u did but explain to her how she mde u mad!! they just somtimes dont understand untill we tell theM....they cant read our minds thank god cuz i would be in deep if they could!! lol xoxo Sara
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Okay its now summer and like 2 weeks after summer started, my friend that i used to like was in a car accident, and was hospitalized for about a week and it made me realize that i still had feelings for him. So he asked me to go out with him so i did and we have been going out for about a month, but summer is my time to be like free and meet new guys at the beach n everything you know? I mean i like him, but i don't think i really want anything serious right now. Should i tell him i want a break? Should i break up with him? Or just stay with him?? (link)
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i think u should say what u told us to him...tell him that u just wnt ur summer N dont want to hurt him and if its alright nd if everyone has the same feelings when school starts up again things could be tryed again....just give him time to understand N take it cuz idk how he will!! hope i helped!! XoXO Sara
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How cAn I ge my boyfriend totalk to me???
all he dose is egnore me and Its like everytime I go to talk about him around his friends he gets red in the face andsays he dosn't know me.
What should I do?????? (link)
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i think you should brke up with him or talk about it with him...i mean u should have a guy that wants his friends to know ur going out with him!! thats messed up! ushould get more!! xoxo Sara
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hey okay well mai boyfriend constantly sends me these pics of these celebrities practically porn pics sometymes and it bothers me and hes lyke oh yeah shes hott and shes hott and sumtymes makes jokes about'em which I think arnt that funny esp when it deals with something sexual ... i meen i knoe he doesnt have a chance w/'em er n e thing but it styll bothers me... when he did it tha 1st tyme i thought he was gonna stop then i realized that hes not stopping! should i act pissed a bit jus ta make him knoe that thats not ryte or should i jus let it happen...cuz it wont matter he doesnt have a chance and thats how he is...?? (link)
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I think ya just have to tell ur boyfriend to stop sending/showing them to u!! i mean he dsent have a chance with them like u said N he knows it but if he looks at it in his own time no just like everyone elses BF out there!! i think he'll understand!! XoXo Sara
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Hey! OK, I'm really shy. Its not that I enjoy being all by myself because I totally hate it... I love to be with people... but it’s hard for me to just walk up to someone because last year in classes we got to sit around and talk for the end of each period. When I tried to talk to someone they would be like "uh huh. Ok" and then walk away. However I’ve talked to each of them individually and they seem interested in talking to me (No, they were not just being nice) I’m moving to a totally new country next year which means a new school. I want to redo myself… like not be so shy anymore. Could you all give me some tips for me to be less shy? And please no advice like "just talk to people"… that doesn't work. I've tried. Thank you so much everyone!! Any advice is appreciated!
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well i have always been outgoing but try when your walking around at the mall or the store anywhere mostly! just smile at people u dont know it will make u look friendly and say hi...pratice small talk about new music upcoming movies and things that happend in class what ever comes to ur head!!! good luck!! i odnt think u'll have a problem!! xoxo Sara
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I've messed up a lot...and I'm only 15. I'm not going to go into detail about all the mistakes I've made, I just need a way to deal with them. It's like their haunting my mind. I don't know how to deal with it, and I'm always putting myself down about them too. I'm only 15 what do I do? I know its in the past and I can't do anything about it.... (link)
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dont get mad you have changed but take all that anger or w/e and do somthing with it...go into a soprt or do somthing that takes ur mindoff of it when ever u start to think about it...if its running or putting on some non-deppressing music!! just dont do anything to harm urself cuz it dosent help it makes is worse!! xoxo Sara
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Im 16/f and i think im addicted to alcohol...whenever i see it i must have one...its really bad....ive been drinking for abotu two years now...and im always safe about it..i just ALWAYS want it...like if my rents go out for 15 minutes im in the cabinet taking out vodka...i really dont know what to do... (link)
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alright i know alot about this Topic!! you cant keep this going yet u can stop by urself...you gotta tell some one and get yourself into A.A. meetings be4 it becomes a bigger problem...my dad was like you at ur age and didnt stop! he dosent have much of a life anymore...and hasnt for a long time now...just go to your parents or a teacher and tell them....hope i helped!! and when u dont sstop its not only effecting you but everyone that love/cres for u!! xoxo Sara
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i feel like when im playing sports i have certain expectations to look up to cuz my sisters are all awesome at soccer and basketball and then there me and i think im not that good. but all my friends disagree. idk...wut do i do? (link)
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if so theres somthing that your good at...and i mean your friends are looking at you and how u look when u play and over all...u just think about all the little mess ups ya did and not all the gpood things!! xoxo Sara
P.S. just keep looking around N tryin new sports!!
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There'a a guy in my grade that i am BEST friends with. I know everythign about him ( not exaggerating) and he knwos everythign about be. I am closer to himthan anyone else i ahve ever met. Theres jsut ome problem...
I really like this kid. He makes me feel really special. I told another one of my close friends baout it and she just told em that she had figured. She told emt aht me and this kid had flirted so amny times before. including when he had another girlfriend.
I really like him but i dont knwo if i shoudl tlel him or not because i dont want to ruin teh friendship that we already have. I love being his best friend btu i like him so much. please tlel me what you think....Oh also, he sends me mixed signals as to whether he likes me too or not... could you also tell me some of the signals i shoudl look for? thanks (link)
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well i dont know what signs you should look for cuz all guys are not the same with that some are most thouchy even if they dont like you!! they are weird like that! but i mean just take the leep i mean it might come out bad but ur still young and i mean maybe he likes u too! just no matter what happens try to stay friends!! hope i helped xoxo Sara
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i don`t kno if it`sz healthy that i`m 12 nd my bra cup size isz a 36B..isz that bad ?? (link)
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its not bad at all!! no one the same with boobs...i mean my friend at 14 is a 36D and im a 34A!! xoxo Sara
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OKAY MY FRIEND J.B CALLED JOSH(B/F) AND J.B WAS LIKE MAN KRISTEN IS GETTING ON MY NEVEES AND J.B WAS JUST SAYING THAT SO JOSH WOULD BELIEVE HIM SO THAN WHEN J.B SAID THAT JOSH WAS LIKE YEA SHE IS GETTING ON MY NERVES TOO AND THAN J.B SAID SO U GOING TO BRAKE UP OKAY MY FRIEND J.B CALLED JOSH(B/F) AND J.B WAS LIKE MAN KRISTEN IS GETTING ON MY NEVEES AND J.B WAS JUST SAYING THAT SO JOSH WOULD BELIEVE HIM SO THAN WHEN J.B SAID THAT JOSH WAS LIKE YEA SHE IS GETTING ON MY NERVES TOO AND THAN J.B SAID SO U GOING TO BRAKE UPTO SMOKE SOME MORE AND I TOLD JOSH I DO NOT WANT HIM SMOKEING THAT AND I REALLY DO NOT WANT HIM LIEING TO ME AT ALL!!i really need help now can someone help me! (link)
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i want to help you but i dont understand whats going on....soo your bf says your gettitng on his nerves and now hes gonna brake up with u to smoke cuz u said not to??? is that it...help me understand N ill help u!! xoxo Sara
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i weigh 92 ponds and im 5 foot 3... am i over weight? or under weight? (link)
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WoW you are very under weight!! u gotta gain some!! no joke thats unhealthy! but im not saying you gotta gain fat try working out a little and getting muscles! xoxo Sara
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17-F Okay...I've never had a really good relationship before. All my friends and seem to have the perfect boyfriends and I can't even meet someone that I connect with. I feel like I'm never going to meet my special someone. I know that your suppoes to be happy with yourself until you can be completely happy with someone else...so I did that...I fixed everything I don't like about myself and really am happy with my life as it is...except not having my significant other...what can I do?
-Sincerely, hopeless (link)
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Hopeless, dont worry about it, a great guy isnt gonna just come up out of knowwhere and schools gonna start soon and theres sure to be a guy there i mean summers slow cuz u dont see or meet guys enough to like them...just dont worry and thats awsome your soo happy with yourself! keep it that way! xoxo Sara
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Hey see I knew this boyfor about 8 years now and he went away when we was10 years old then he finally shows up yesturday and expects us to re be friends...... and I hardly even reconize him.!
so what should I do?? PLZ HELP (link)
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well i mean if u guys were friends then i dont know why you couldnt be now...not as close but still friends, get to know him again...he might be the same person or not [good or not] but you wont know untill you get to know him over again xoxo Sara
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hey sara its me shannon lol, just wanted to say hey! later.. (link)
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Heyy Man!! whats up?!?!? XoXo Sara
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ok well ive been drinkin for 5 years(10-15 yrs old) its all started out with just drinkin like on the weekends or at parties, but lately ive been drinkin everynite. or at parties ill tell my self o ill just have one beer, but then i end up drinkin a 12 pack by myself! ive been arrested for drinkin and smoking, ive been to AA meetings NA meeting and everything, but i dont know wut to do... is it stress related or wut? is there any medication i could take?
*addicted, 15 (link)
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medication no...stress maybe..it could be "your way out" of a situation...i know AA seems like sometimes its going nowhere but keep trying it...u really dont want to stay addicted when your older...it really messes up peoples life!! i know soo may sad storys and shit like that for drinking!! i dont want anyone to have to put up with some of the things i have...being addicted dosent only effect u but the people around u that love u too!! hope i helped!! XoXo Sara ask me a questin on here or IM me on XxtAkEmEaWaYxX7
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If you cut yourself once...then realize what you've done is stupid..should you seak help? (link)
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no i think by asking on here ur looking for help...and u realized that you were stupid N its pointless soo i think your alright...just if it becomes worse N a habbit then ask me N i have some sites N hotline number that helped me N my friends!! XoXo Sara
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