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Get over him?
17-F Okay...I've never had a really good relationship before. All my friends and seem to have the perfect boyfriends and I can't even meet someone that I connect with. I feel like I'm never going to meet my special someone. I know that your suppoes to be happy with yourself until you can be completely happy with someone else...so I did that...I fixed everything I don't like about myself and really am happy with my life as it is...except not having my significant other...what can I do?
-Sincerely, hopeless
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Ahhh I have the same problem. Im sorry I couldnt help
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i have a friend who feels the same way you do, just believe in yourself, the right man will come eventually!! you just gotta give it time and don't rush into anything, just be yourself and have fun being single!
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First of all, be hopeful! And visualize who you want in your life, and how your life will be with that person. It has been my experience that, in some form or another, we always get what we want. But you must visualize it first. The rest will follow. It will materialize. Be patient, for these things can take a while. But you're happy with yourself in the meantime, so enjoy life to its fullest and keep developing your strengths!
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Hey,join the club. I've never had a good relationship before either,so don't feel bad. Love is the hardest thing in the whole world to understand,even harder than math. What can you do? Well,nothing,I'm afraid. Mr.Right and I'm sure plenty of Mr.Wrongs will wander into your life very soon. But you have to give off good vibes. Go up and talk to the guy if you're interested. Smile a lot and act interested and eventually you'll hit the jackpot. I know you're thinking yeah yeah yeah,this is the same bullshit I've heard for years,but some of the most interesting guys don't come up and talk to you because they think they can't and won't impress you. I fight that a lot and I feel like when I make a compliment they just think I'm trying to get them in bed. So just be yourself really. It'd be nice if I followed my own advice.
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hey! i feel yah! all my friends have b/fs and i just can't find some one! and im happt w/ who i am excpet the b/f thang!...the best thing is just going places! like i meet ppl at the movies or on the internet! so just ask ur friends if they have a friend to set u up w/....thats what i do! so u will find a b/f! :)
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Hopeless, dont worry about it, a great guy isnt gonna just come up out of knowwhere and schools gonna start soon and theres sure to be a guy there i mean summers slow cuz u dont see or meet guys enough to like them...just dont worry and thats awsome your soo happy with yourself! keep it that way! xoxo Sara
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trust me babe ur day will come...u will also have the perfect guy...and u should never change ur self...and if it seems like you have 2 that means ur not 2 happy..i hope u end up with him..rate me please
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TO: hopeless
heres wat im gonna tell you...just relax and wait...everyone has their own "special time" and stuff like thah...yours is just coming a lil late is all...wile waiting... be yourself...someones bound to come sooner er latta...ya noe?
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you will find your special someone someday! because everyones Mr Right is just out there somewhere just waiting for them and im sure that urs is just around the corner! u will meet him soon! i promise! *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
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well, you're only 17... you have time on your side. It just might be that your current circle of friends doesn't contain someone that you feel romantically inclined towards, or vice versa.
Ask yourself why it is that you don't seem to connect... are you looking for the right things? It alwasy drives me nuts when people proclaim the crap about "opposites attract" because it isn't true - people are drawn towards others with similar interests, with similar values, goals, etc...
And don't worry about something starting with a bolt of lightning - the best relationships are the ones built on friendship and trust... too often, people create these overly and overtly romantic flings that just aren't able to sustain themselves. Perhaps, while you may feel left out, you're actually going about this in a more mature manner... just some food for thought. ;)
Oh... and don't worry about "finding someone"... let them find you... and make sure you aren't in love with the thought of being in love, because that will doom any relationships before they even start.
Good luck.
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There really isnt anything you can do. You just have to get through these tough times. But he will come around,for now just have fun with dating ;) lol
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