i am 16 years old...even thought i am young i have been through alot and i hope i can help!
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Age: 16
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my boy friend cheated on me. should i dump him? hes really srry and i really like him but i dont think he should get away with it (link)
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dump him cheating is wrong and he shouldnt get a second chance he doesnt deserve u..and if u let him get away he will just do it again..it doesnt mater how much u like him its wrong that he did that...please rate me
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Okay Im almost 15....a little over 3 years ago i met this guy...we went out fer a few months but then i had heard that while i was on vaca he had cheated on me with this other girl....i dumped him...he denied it all...then we went out again...and we went out for about a month...then i had dumped him because tha school year was about over and i had also found out that he was playing me with one of my freinds. Then tha next school year i didnt talk to him at all. He only stayed at my school for about 3 weeks n then moved. I was sooooo happy!! but i was bff's with his cousin and she had persued me to write him a lil note tha day he left. Then about 2 weeks after he left he called me..we talked for a few hours...but then i had gotten mad at him bc i think he was being a jerk to me online. Then tha summer before...8th grade i started talking to him and we became REALLY close. we went out but only for a week or two bc we were going out behind my parents backs bc i didnt want them to know i was seeing him again bc they didnt like him bc of what had happened b4...well later i told my mom everything and how he had "changed" and we went out for about a month or so...but then we broke up bc things just werent going good...our timing has always been wrong..but now...this summer my summer b4 ninth grade we have gotten really close. We talk all tha time online n on tha phone...we flirt n yeah. Its soo nice bc today he told me that he missed me n that he really wanted to be with me. He said he really wanted to work things out n us to be together. I'm suppose to go to his house tomarrow but im not sure if he really wants to be with me n has changed this time or if he just wants me for sex. The problem is we r both going to tha same highschool. So chances are i will see him around. And i am TOTALY crazy for him. What should I do??Plzzzz help im soo into him but im not sure if hes real!!! Thanx lots of luv* (link)
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ok well he must like u if its been that long but if u want to know for a fact if he likes u dont have sex with him so u dont feel used becaues if u think u r or even have to question urself thats not good...but if its been that long it must meen something cause no1 stays with someone that long for no reason...please rate
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i have a problem of keeping a thought during class, i often daydream and get off task, and im always forgettin himework, is there anything i can do to fix this? (link)
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ya just try thinking about school more and its commen everytime im in class i daydream i mean who doesnt (boys frineds family, what ur going to wear to a party you know the girl things) its normal rate me please
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A lot of people judge people by their looks and not by their personality. i used to do that too. i realized you arnt going to become a better person and your not going to meet people by judging other people by their looks. It makes me want to cry how i am experecing this. I realized i have been doing that too. i told some people about this person awhile back whom i liked. he wasn't the greatest looking person and the people i told knew that. when i told them, they all looked at me in discuss. that night i reconsidered liking him because of what he looked like and how dorky he was. Now i could have become really good friends with that cretin guy, but because of people and myself judging him, i am not friends with him. Everyone will not notice this, but every look you give a person, if its bad it will bring him/her down. just think about it. How would ypu fee; about it, people making fun of the way you look, or the cold looks you get every day when you walk down the halls. you see every popular boy and girl with someone, having un. Then you see yourslef looking at them wishing you were them. Christina Auhulara has inspired me to write this paragraph, Her song "Beautiful" is a great song. I hope some day you will listen to this song and think the same this i do.
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that is so true...y does everyone live to these standars "u have to fit in a size 1, u have to have nice hair, dress nice, have the nicest cars, nicest house" everyone should be treated equal no1 shjould be better then anyone and on top of that its all about the persons personality if we all worry about looks we wont get to see the good side the HeArt....rate me please
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~Hey I have this cutting problem. I just always wish someone would take me away from this world. My parents just kicked me out...once for smoking pot and sex...and the other reason is becuz they didnt want me. Right before this happened I caught my almost husband in the bed with 2 otha gurls.I almost married him at 17!! I got a new bf though. That is the ONLY reason I am still her. I am living wit him for now. I tried commiting suicide once but my bf stopped me. Life just keeps getting worse. I cut myself to releave myself from deppresion, anger, and nething else. I want to stop cutting myself becuz my bf doesnt like me doing it. I was raped by my ex's friend(my ex set it all up)and my bf doesnt know yet. I am anirexic(food disorder). I am 5'6, 92lbs, blonde hair, blue eyes, white wit a tan. Pls help me stop cutting myself~ (link)
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ok 1st lets start with im sorry but 17 is just way 2 young 2 get married! and it was meant for a reason 2 find your fiance cheating because now it looks like u found much better! look at the good side (its looking like ur bf loves u) i think u should go to therapy or something n get help (not to sound rude) and chill on the eating disorder u r really tiny and try getting help for smkoing pot and try talking to ur parents good luck...please rate me
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my brother just hit me so bad and it was for like no reason my whole face started bleeading he took a shoe and started hiting me with it and started pulling my hair i hate him so much..i was so close 2 calling the cops but i just couldnt wat should i do i really started hating him! (link)
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its ok babe next time just call the cops u can do it
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Do you know of any sites where I can post up my pictures for free? (link)
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1. webshots.com
2. picturetrail.com
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i still love this guy very much..we went out for a year then broke up b/c things werent working out at the time... and now he might be dating my best friend. she told him she doesnt like me now,some freind huh? i still like him so much.. i never knew how much until he was gone.. i only broke up with him b/c he gave me lots of attitude sometimes, and he hung out with his freinds more then he did with me.. i felt like i was a nobody. we barely ever saw eachother and he called me like only like once every 2 weeks..and i got sick of it...but now i regret doing it..we used to so alot of things together.. i dont know why i love him so much.. and it pisses me off so much b/c him and my best freind... i love him.. :-( now him and my best freind are gonna hit it off, i just feel so bad and upset.. i never knew how much i really liked him.. he told me later in the future we would work it out.. but i don't see that happening.. they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.. he loved me soo much he claimed, and even his mom told me..but all those little things added up and made me break up with him... can u help me out?? i dont know what to do? your prolly gonna tell me to get over it but i cant.. he is all i think about 24/7 and i get depressed.. well thanks alot... (link)
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ur best friend isnt a friend anymore how can she do that! that has happend 2 me b4 2 besides the best friend part it old my boyfriend either u treat me beter or im leaving u and that was a 1 and a half ago and i didnt realize how much i loved him till he was gone and every1 said move on move on but it wasnt that simple and he said we will always work out in the future and guess wat after all thos enights of crying were back together again =)....and hopefully that happends 2 u he will realize that he needds u and he will change he will make more time 4 u and u will be the center piece of his life...hopefully..please rate me .please rate me
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hey okay well mai boyfriend constantly sends me these pics of these celebrities practically porn pics sometymes and it bothers me and hes lyke oh yeah shes hott and shes hott and sumtymes makes jokes about'em which I think arnt that funny esp when it deals with something sexual ... i meen i knoe he doesnt have a chance w/'em er n e thing but it styll bothers me... when he did it tha 1st tyme i thought he was gonna stop then i realized that hes not stopping! should i act pissed a bit jus ta make him knoe that thats not ryte or should i jus let it happen...cuz it wont matter he doesnt have a chance and thats how he is...?? (link)
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i think he just wants to see how u will react and see if you feel the same way not that ur lesbian or anything but to see what u think of pornos and he wants to see if u will ever be sexual
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17-F Okay...I've never had a really good relationship before. All my friends and seem to have the perfect boyfriends and I can't even meet someone that I connect with. I feel like I'm never going to meet my special someone. I know that your suppoes to be happy with yourself until you can be completely happy with someone else...so I did that...I fixed everything I don't like about myself and really am happy with my life as it is...except not having my significant other...what can I do?
-Sincerely, hopeless (link)
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trust me babe ur day will come...u will also have the perfect guy...and u should never change ur self...and if it seems like you have 2 that means ur not 2 happy..i hope u end up with him..rate me please
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okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time and now he told me that he likes me back and he says that he wants to have sex with me but im scared cuz it will b my very first time and i don't knoe if i want to loose that respect for myself this early in my life im only 13. and this boy is kinda a player but ive liked him for a long time and now that i knoe he likes me back i don't want to do n e thing that will ruin this. please help me
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u are only 13 babe u have a long time ahead of u and it seems like its a good idea becaue u love him but truely if he loves u he will respect ur descision
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okay i really really really really still love my x but hes a major playa we went out twice and both times it didn't work out but we still talk alot online and stuff but its not the same. i still like him alot but i try to make it sound like i don't care everytime his name comes up in a convo wit me and my friends but i really do care and i really do have feelings for him still! and i knoe that i can have almost n e guy i want i mean a lot of guys like me so y do i want him soo much???
please help me out asap!!
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that has so happend 2 me...and i played a million games with him since he was playing it with me...and even though other guys wanted me i always asked myself y do i still like him? its becaue ur heart is set on him not ur mind and u should take the chance and tell him how u feel i took it a billion times and now were back together...and just like u i never told my friends (but its best if u do because they will comfort u) rate me please!
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okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time every since the beginin of the year ive liked him on and off again. so then when the summer came we were talkin and hanging out and stuff and he grew to like me back so we made plans that we were gonna hook up one day when we were both free. so i was all lookin forward to this day. well i just talked to him online and he told me that he didn't mean to hurt me when he says this but "i really like this other gurl and she is the only one for me right now but we can still b friends" well wtf! PLAYER!! god i cried! i mean i knoe im not supposed to cry over boys but i mean this one really hurt my feeling i didnt kno wut to tell him but i was just trying to be nice about the whole thing saying "i hope everything works out" and just letting it go! did i do the right thing? or was i supposed to tell him how much it hurt me? or was i supposed to play it cool and act like i didn't care? or wut do i do now? please help me asap!
signed
broken heart (link)
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i am so sorry! that has happend to me before 2 and i thought i would never get over it but now i am with some1 a billion times better...even thought it seems like u wont find better trust me sweetie u will..that was real nice of u 2 do hopefully u can still stay friends but that will be very hard (its hard to stay friends with someone u love) becuase u realize how much u miss them...rate me please
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ok well my hair isnt curly but its wavy and frizzy and juss like i hate it...i straighten it with a straightener and ive tryed like 3 diff kinds...and they get it soo silky but it never stays straight and the ends curled in and it juss pised me off...so i started ironing it...it works gr8 (yea a clothes iron on an ironing board)...it stays straight all day and is pretty straight when i wake up!! after i shower it gets ugly again and its jsus a hassle ironging and straightening ur hair eryday!! wat can i do?? r ther ne like straighting conditioner/shampoo that will help? ne good straighteners...i really dont wanna iron it it kills it!! HELP (link)
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i had the same problem....its horrible...but i went to the salon and got it chemically str8ened its about $200 dollars but its worth it and it only takes me 10 mins to str8en now...and i only have 2 get it chemicaly stre8end every 6 months...maybe u should give it a try
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Hey. I really want to join the step team for my middle school, but I don't know how to step. I don't know if they will teach you how to step or if you already have to know it. Please give me advice because I really need your help! thanx. (link)
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stepping is great! u will get a hang of it really quick! its ok its worth it even if u look dumb doing it..who cares what people think? its fun
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this guy i know wants to get back with me after he hurt me once got back with me hurt me again and then while i was getting over him he made out with a 12yr old girl when he is 18 and now he thinks everything is ok? (link)
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ok skip him because u shouldnt be the girl he thinks he can always get...play a game with him and let him know ur not a backup
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Okay, I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend that I've only been with for like around a month. But when I'm around him I don't really feel comfortable with him anymore and a few days ago he tried to get me to smoke with him by saying if you loved me you would... and i was really mad cuz im not big on drugs. I don't really want to be with him anymore, But he likes me alot. If you were me what would u do? (link)
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i would end things..but thats me i dont wanna put ideas in ur head...but if someone that loves you pressures u to do something bad then thats just wrong! good luck and i hope u make the right decision
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