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Question Posted Thursday August 5 2004, 1:42 am

my boy friend cheated on me. should i dump him? hes really srry and i really like him but i dont think he should get away with it

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Babyzee answered Sunday August 8 2004, 2:17 am:
if i were u i would dump him cuz once a cheater always a cheater *STEPHANIE*

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lilprpchick07 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 4:51 pm:
this one is tough because it is hard to tell if they truely are sorry! but i have been through the same thing and i really liked the guy afterwards. I think the best way to handle this is to dump him but only for a short while and after you think u are over it then ask him back out if he says yes then he most likely was sorry but if he doesn't want to go out with u after that then he probably didn't care in the first place. lol this worked for me hopefully it will work for u!

LILPRPCHICK07

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onlyqtwitdabooty answered Thursday August 5 2004, 12:06 pm:
hey! sweetie i can tell u now dump him cuz for 1 he not sorry for what he did and 2nd once a cheater always a cheater...keep that in mind..there are better guys out there that wont cheat..hope i helped Tracy

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XLeft08BehindX answered Thursday August 5 2004, 11:30 am:
I think that everyone deserves a second chance..You never know, Maybe he is really sorry. But tell him that if it ever happens again, it'll be over forever..Unless he's one of those conceited jerk types who thinks he can get away with anything, then dump him!!

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bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe answered Thursday August 5 2004, 11:30 am:
DUH dump his ass!

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AskingAshley answered Thursday August 5 2004, 10:30 am:
whoa - yes yu should definitly dump him!! i mean it`s gunna be really hard at first but no one deserves that pain! i mean he says he`s sry but it could happen again! and he could totally break yur heart! even if yu really like him, yu need to get rid of him before yu get hurt again!

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SwEeTeStSiN7 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 10:02 am:
No guy is ever sorry for cheating. And if he really loves you he wouldn't have done that to you! If i were you i would dump him. You can do better!





xoxo chels

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blake08 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 7:12 am:
Dear Confused lover...

I think that you should dump him because i believe ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER...
But its ure decision and if you really think it can work out then you need to talk things over with him and get things strait..

If you need more advice email me at Big_blake08@yahoo.com or add me on yahoo..willing to help anytime

Blake08$

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Xx1Fate4XBlvr3xX answered Thursday August 5 2004, 4:52 am:
no guy is ever sry for cheatin on someone...i mean really...he shoulda thought bout it before he did it...did it once..he will do it again

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Lena answered Thursday August 5 2004, 4:12 am:
the question is.. do you love him? are you gunna be able to trust him again? i dont think he should get away wit it either.. but did he tell you? or did someone else tell you... if u found out from someone else.. dump him.. if he told you.. then maybe u should give him another chance.. or think about it some more before you do.. can ya live wit out him?

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RileyRoo402 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 3:57 am:
hi i think you should make sure you can trust your boyfriend and make sure he likes you and trusts you before you do anything! and just talk to ihm about it!

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*tasha* answered Thursday August 5 2004, 3:19 am:
Personally..I don't really believe in 2nd chances..So I believe if they do it once they'll do it again..BUT I also think it depends on how long you've been together..if you've been together for like a year and this is the first time then MAYBE you should forgive him..but also i think it depends on what he did w/ this other chick.I'd dump him but its ALL up to you! GOOD LUCK!LEMME KNO HOW IT TURNS OUT I"D LOVE TO HEAR IT!

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blackmamba answered Thursday August 5 2004, 3:16 am:
he doesnt deserve to get away with it. thats not fair to you. once a cheater always a cheater, so if you let him get away with it this one time, chances are he'll do it again.

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crystal200022us answered Thursday August 5 2004, 2:59 am:
I would definitely give him another try. It sounds like you don't want to let go of him and if he's really sorry then it wouldn't hurt to give him another chance. It might be hard to trust him for a while so I would just watch him carefully to make sure he's not going to cheat again. I hope this helps and good luck!
Crystal

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Thickbabyie4u answered Thursday August 5 2004, 2:41 am:
Dump Him I think, If he cared about you like he should've, he shouldn't have cheated on you to begin with, but it's your decision and I hope you make the right one, good luck! ;) God Bless! Beeyes! ~1ne~

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PepeLePew answered Thursday August 5 2004, 2:28 am:
Since he already did it once, he could do it again. I'm sorry, but you should dump him.

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FadeDxDreamS answered Thursday August 5 2004, 2:17 am:
Yessss...you dont deserve to be cheated one..no one does evan if he is sorry he should have know better in the first place!

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kitty143 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 2:07 am:
dump him cheating is wrong and he shouldnt get a second chance he doesnt deserve u..and if u let him get away he will just do it again..it doesnt mater how much u like him its wrong that he did that...please rate me

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LoStNcOnFuZeD answered Thursday August 5 2004, 2:06 am:
I say get rid of him. He didn't have enough respect for you or himself to be true to you. You can find somebody better.

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native_babe answered Thursday August 5 2004, 2:05 am:
well if you really like this guy and you think that he wont do it again then go for it. you should sit down and talk to him first. ask him why he did what he did. if things dont change then you should definently dump him.

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Mackenzie answered Thursday August 5 2004, 1:59 am:
Dump him. He's a waste of time. How much could he like you if he has to go out and find some ho?? Relationships aRe supposed to be two-sided, obviously he's not giving it his all. You deseRve betteR.. much betteR!!

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kevin1986 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 1:54 am:
Yeah,dump him. He'll learn next time not to do that.

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