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ok. Me and my ex were back to dating, trying to see if we would get together again. We have been on and off for 7 months but a few days ago have officially ended things. I guess love is not enough to make it work but I'm ready to move on, don't get me wrong I LOVE HIM but i NEED to move on. ok. now here's my dilema:
In order for me to move on I need to forget him EVERYTHING(because i can live off the memories) but I don't really want to forget the past because what we had was beautiful. Can I remember what we had (as just that) and still really move on?
PS: the thing is we do have feelings for each other, we care about each other but as bf and gf we don't work. we can't be friends so pretty much i don't want to forget him because our memories is the only thing we have left. we love each other so its too painful to be friends. advice.

i know how you feel... i just went through that same situation. what you need to do is move on. make lots of plans with your friends and do lots of fun crap to take your mind off this guy. meet new guys flirt alot. then later on youll find another sweet guy probably a better one than this one.

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my boy friend is a really kool person and great bf. he calls me and pays attention to me and stuff but im so over him... im just not interested anymore. i want to dumb him.. how can i do it nicely?

well tell him that youd rather be friends and that you still want to hang out and stuff but not be together anymore. tell him the truth. hopefully he'll understand.

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my boy friend cheated on me. should i dump him? hes really srry and i really like him but i dont think he should get away with it

well if you really like this guy and you think that he wont do it again then go for it. you should sit down and talk to him first. ask him why he did what he did. if things dont change then you should definently dump him.

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