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over it


Question Posted Thursday August 5 2004, 1:29 am

my boy friend is a really kool person and great bf. he calls me and pays attention to me and stuff but im so over him... im just not interested anymore. i want to dumb him.. how can i do it nicely?

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SmoothiesFknRock answered Thursday August 5 2004, 4:29 pm:
If I were you, I wouldn't break up with him. He sounds really nice and nice guys are hard to find these days. Maybe you should re-think it. But if you still decide you wana break up, then just explain to him that you still wana be friends but nothing more because you just don't have the same feelings you used to. Be upfront and honest with him. Hope I helped! xo| Jenn*

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BeezKneez answered Thursday August 5 2004, 11:29 am:
Really, there is no way 2 dump someone nicely. Just try 2 explain ur feelings 2 him, and if he really loves you then he will understand and want u 2 be happy.

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SwEeTeStSiN7 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 11:05 am:
If i were you i wouldn't break up with him. Nice guys don't come along offen,you should work this out with him. Maybe your spending too much time with him if your gettig tired or him.


xoxo chels

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blake08 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 7:15 am:
Dear Over it..

I really dont think you should break up with him.. i think that you should try to work things out...but if you want to let him go easy (there is no real easy way to do it) just tell him im sorry but im not interested in you and that id love to continue being friends....but im really sorry...i hope we can still be friends

If you need more advice email me at Big_blake08@yahoo.com or add me on yahoo..willing to help anytime

Blake08$

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Xx1Fate4XBlvr3xX answered Thursday August 5 2004, 4:54 am:
maybe u shouldnt dump him...think bout it...nice guys dont come along to often...maybe u should try n spicen up the relationship some more? but if u really wanna dump him...just tell him...straight out...u dont feel the same way anymore and instead of leadin him on longer u wanted to tell him...cuz u care bout him that much

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Lena answered Thursday August 5 2004, 4:14 am:
Well then.. hell haha i would want him.. lol but you should tell him how u feel... dont mix his feelings for you... tell him it'd be better for you to be just friends.. or good friends.. best friends w/e you want it to be... the worst thing u could do is stay with him and fake yer feelings.. for you and him

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RileyRoo402 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 3:59 am:
ok just lay it out straight! say that you've had a great relationship with him and it's been fun but it's been a long time and i think we should end it! sumpthin like that! sorry but i'm new.

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*tasha* answered Thursday August 5 2004, 3:22 am:
Just tell him how you feel..thats the best way.Just be like "your such a great guy and I really enjoyed being with you.But I think maybe we should just be friends!I hope its ok with you" be really sweet about it and maybe throw in that "maybe someday we can be more again!" I hope I helped. GOOD LUCK!!

.:tasha:. (any more ?'s just ask!)

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native_babe answered Thursday August 5 2004, 2:07 am:
well tell him that youd rather be friends and that you still want to hang out and stuff but not be together anymore. tell him the truth. hopefully he'll understand.

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kevin1986 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 1:51 am:
Give him the Let's Be Friends speech. But you'll regret it later,nice guys aren't on every street corner. For the record,this dumb person later accused me of calling her a hooker because I said every street corner. Earth to Mrs.Dumbass,it's an expression.

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