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My dilema
ok. Me and my ex were back to dating, trying to see if we would get together again. We have been on and off for 7 months but a few days ago have officially ended things. I guess love is not enough to make it work but I'm ready to move on, don't get me wrong I LOVE HIM but i NEED to move on. ok. now here's my dilema:
In order for me to move on I need to forget him EVERYTHING(because i can live off the memories) but I don't really want to forget the past because what we had was beautiful. Can I remember what we had (as just that) and still really move on?
PS: the thing is we do have feelings for each other, we care about each other but as bf and gf we don't work. we can't be friends so pretty much i don't want to forget him because our memories is the only thing we have left. we love each other so its too painful to be friends. advice.
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why dont you write in a journal ALL the memories you had together. then put the journal away in a place you rarely go. (like the top of a closet or under a bed) and then if your missing him REALLY badly one day go look at it (limit how often you look at it tho SELF CONTROL GIRL) and then just focus on your friends or your school work or a sport. just have a blast and have fun. you'll be fine <3 ck
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u can stay friends and u can still have the awesome memories..as long as u dont bring up the bad ones wit the good ones...u guys will be fine...dont stress it so much and dont worry obut the "feelins u still have for each other"...
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hey..well i went out wit this guy for a year..nd then we broke up...he had many other girlz..nd like..ever since we broke up..we been talkin every once in a while...and well i'll admit it...yea i still love him so much!..and we were so much in love..but iono bout his feelings now..just keep ur head up..and remember there is more guys out there..and dont ever for get tha good memories u spent wit him!
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OF COURSE YOU REMEMBER THE GOOD TIMES YOU HAD! I know it may hurt now, but 8 or 9 months down the line, when you get over him, you'll rememver the good times you had and use it as memories, I do it all the time! My and my ex aren't even friends, but it's okay to remember the good times you had with your boyfriend. And hopefully you can also share good times with your next boyfriend as well! Good Luck! God Bless! ~1ne~
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i know how you're feeling but you gotta get over him. take some time off and have some fun. plan lots of activities with you and you're friends. keep you're schedule packed with things so that you have no time to think about him. eventually you'll find another guy just as good or better than him! trust me. i hope my advice works. good luck. x's and o's
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i know how you feel... i just went through that same situation. what you need to do is move on. make lots of plans with your friends and do lots of fun crap to take your mind off this guy. meet new guys flirt alot. then later on youll find another sweet guy probably a better one than this one.
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