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okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time and now he told me that he likes me back and he says that he wants to have sex with me but im scared cuz it will b my very first time and i don't knoe if i want to loose that respect for myself this early in my life im only 13. and this boy is kinda a player but ive liked him for a long time and now that i knoe he likes me back i don't want to do n e thing that will ruin this. please help me
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u are only 13 babe u have a long time ahead of u and it seems like its a good idea becaue u love him but truely if he loves u he will respect ur descision
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wow i kno this is hard but ur 13 nd u have ur whole life ahead of u-u better wait nd not have sex so soon. But its ur opinion, if u decide to have sex w/ him just be careful if u decide u dont want to, talk to him about it..nd dont make him pressure u into it. If he doesnt respect ur opinion than he doesnt respect u!
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um.. ok if you asked me i think hes just using you and im not trying to be mean im just say what i think because you liked him so long and all of a sudden he likes you and wants to have sex! i dont think you should do it with him but its up to you.
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You shouldnt have sex with him because you are WAY TOO YOUNG TO EVEN TALK ABOUT THAT
and if you likes u sooo much and all he wants to do is have sex with you he doesnt really like you
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dont do it..you are wayyy too young! and u are even having doubts so it shows that you arent ready..when you do have sex you want it to be with the one you love and with someone really special! and i dont think that hes that guy..*hope i helped* <3/Dakota
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if he does like you then he won't pressure you to have sex! just tell him you want to wait .. maybe hook up and get to know him better and then maybe you'll be ready! one word for you also --> trojan :) good luck!
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Lets think about this. You've liked this guy for a long time. For now lets pretend that you didn't. So what we have now is just a guy whom you've known for a while, who just said he likes you. We know that he has a reputation as a "player", and we know he said that he wants to have sex with you. Let's not forget that you're only 13. Would you really think it would be wise to date him in this situation? I really don't. So why would it change just because you like him? It's all the more reason not to. Since you like him, it would only be painful and you would have your heart broken. i wouldn't see him if I were you.
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You've basically answered your own question,you're just not ready now!!! 13 is a very very young age to even be thinking about that serious of a relationship or commitment.If you feel,as you say,that you would lose respect for yourself by doing that,don't compromise your dignity just to win over some boy!! If he can't respect the fact that you're not ready for that,then he's SO not the one you want to be with!!!
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You should definetely fuck him!!! It's the funnest thing ever!!!!!!!!!
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if you feel like your having doubts, then you probably aren't ready. if he a player and you have sex with him, he could move onto another girl and you'll regret it. think it through carefully. you could go out with him, ut tell him that you're not comfortable with the physical aspect.
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If you scared then you are deffinetly not ready. Unless you are 100% confident about having sex, then you are not ready. You don't want to have any regrets. Personaly I think you are far to you to be thinking about sex anyway. You still a kid. You are not old enough to handel the responsibilities or consquences of sex. Don't feel presured about sex. If he leaves you because you won't sleep with him, then he never really loved you.
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listen. if you say he is a player than all he prob wants from you is sex cuz he knows you like him and he thinks you will be ready and willing. you should wait untill you feal comfortable because you shoukldnt do it so a guy will like you. ask him if you could wait untill you feal right and if he says no now then just dont do it unless you feal ready but sisnce your 13 i recomend you dont because since he prob had sex with other girls then you could get a sex related desies such as AIDS ot STDS.
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even if you like him a lot, you probably shouldn't have sex yet. you said he just told you he liked you... and then he asked for sex right away? you guys should get to know each other first. if you're even in a little bit of question about losing your virginity, DON'T DO IT! you have the rest of your life ahead of you.
but then, it is your choice. you have to do what you think is best.
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well, tell him that you really like him and youre glad that he likes you too, but you might not be ready just yet. youre only thirteen and you shouldnt feel like your in a rush to have sex, because there will be other guys along the way ; there will be ones that you'll like more and you'll be ready to go farther with. hope i helped out
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hi, listen i'mma b very honest okay...u said u liked this boy for a very long time n NOW he likes u back...n ASKS U FOR SEX...dont u think that may b he knows how much u care n he only wants u for one thing ~~~~>"sex"...listen if he likes u soooooooo much or w/e then he will wait for u whenever ur ready...n if u dont feel ready then DO NOT DO IT!!! may b dis kid is not who u thought he is...may b he is not that special someone...so dont do something u will regreat! If he relly cares for u n he doenst want u only for sex then he will wait for u no metter wut...TRUST ME...i've gonne through that...so good luck ;) n i hope i helped xoxo effy...
p.s. if u need anything else then holla at me ;) i'll b more then happy to help...
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Whoa having sex at such an early age is a definate BAD thing! Tell him NO N-O! You shouldn't be having a sexual relationship with anyone at your age you need to wait until you're 18 at least!
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Well if he's just using you to get some he soooooo isn't worth it no matter how much you like him... BUT if he's not gonna use you tell him that you arent ready because you still feel you are to young to be having sex, and if he really cared then he would understand...
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