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my x


Question Posted Wednesday July 14 2004, 1:13 pm

okay i really really really really still love my x but hes a major playa we went out twice and both times it didn't work out but we still talk alot online and stuff but its not the same. i still like him alot but i try to make it sound like i don't care everytime his name comes up in a convo wit me and my friends but i really do care and i really do have feelings for him still! and i knoe that i can have almost n e guy i want i mean a lot of guys like me so y do i want him soo much???

please help me out asap!!


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kitty143 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 7:02 pm:
that has so happend 2 me...and i played a million games with him since he was playing it with me...and even though other guys wanted me i always asked myself y do i still like him? its becaue ur heart is set on him not ur mind and u should take the chance and tell him how u feel i took it a billion times and now were back together...and just like u i never told my friends (but its best if u do because they will comfort u) rate me please!

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united_python_cheerleader answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 1:44 pm:
Well you shouldnt act like you dont care about him when you do because then he will see youa cting like this and not like you back .... just be yourself and give it a chance




but if he keeps playing i suggest you lose him



Love Ashley , PLZ RATE ME

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tikibikini answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 1:27 pm:
all i was saying is that you are like oh yea i can get ne guy i want but sry i wasnt trying to make you look or feal stupid

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BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 1:24 pm:
I know how that feels. But look at this quote:

For once I wannna be the girl who got him to quit his game, retire his jersey, n draw hearts around my name...

I know how hard it must be and how much it must hurt, I've been there (actually going through it lol) But, all you can do is hope he gets through his playing times lol. You can either write him a note telling him how you feel about him or when you talk to him on the internet. Basically just telling him how you still love him and you wish he would just stop being a player because its hurting you. I think maybe you should try to move on until he's over being a player or something. And tell him that, be like "Although I love you, I'm gunna move on, there's no point for me to wait around when all you're going to do is be a player, so until you can get over being a player, then tell me" Say something like that and just how you feel about him. But, since you can get a lot of guys, just try to go out with another guy, there is no point in waiting for him when all he's going to do is be a player. It'll only hurt you more. And I know how that feels, when someone mentions there name all you can do is smile and look away. Its hard, but just try doing what I just told you. I hope this helps, and tell me how it goes too! And if you need help writting or coming up on what to say. Just ask me, I'll be glad to help =D

xoxo Kourtney

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letty_lOu answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 1:22 pm:
omg sooooooo been there!it sux! u deserve so much better..i had a bf just like that..but i had to dump him and get over him..it took a LONG time but it happened..and i found someone else that makes me totally happy!beleive me..u`ll cry alot if u try and get over him and all but in the end ur gunna b like wow..i cant beleive i dont care about him n e more..thats what happened to me!i was just amazed how much i didnt care or think about him n e more..cause he was all i used to think about ..even though he hurt me alot!well lyl babe
xO.Letty Lee!

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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 1:20 pm:
hi, well listen try to entertain ur self wit other stuff...n not think of him so much...try to not talk to him as much so u can get over him quicker...give guys a chance...gurlllllll ur prolly fine...u can get anyone that its not a player type n can treat u like u deserve...a princess!! so wut u should do is....go n get to kno another guy that u think its cute or w/e give him a chance who knoes u might end up liking him :) so wut u waiting for....go out n have some fun!!! xoxo effy

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Roxybabii922 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 1:18 pm:
Well if he's a "playa" maybe you should REALLY try your hardest to move on because you don't deserve to get played... there are plenty of other guys out there and im sure you could do waaaaay better

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