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i've been friends with this girl since 6th grade. she used to live across the road from me, but then she moved away. Not far, only about 30 minutes. We used to talk on AIM but then we ran out of things to talk about. I mean, we don't have the same group of friends and we don't know who each of us is talking about. Now, I don't talk to her at all and I feel horrible. What am I supposed to do?? I want to be friends with her again but it's like we're complete strangers.
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hang out with her.. try to get to know her friends and let her get to know yours.. if it duznt work out at least you tried
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Well thats ok.. that would be a normal feeling to feel when you wind up like this-trix
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Invite her over for a sleepover.. i mean you guys were friends once, & she probably didn't change too much, you guys might still have some things in common. Have her over and you guys can catch up on things about what you've been doing. It might be fun.. & if you guys still feel uncomfortable at the sleepover, have some movies ready so you can put them in so it doesn't get ackward or have some games (board games, video games or card games.) good luck hun!
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Start talking to her again on AIM. Maybe satch up with eachother and get to know eachother again. It'd be like starting all over again, but if you want to be friends with her again it will be worth it.
Hope I helped you!! -- good luck
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Losing a friend like that is hard on the both of you, you should invite her over one day...2 hang out..kinda like re-unite, this way you can update her on things that are going on and she can tell you about the new interesting people she has met!
-good luck!
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maybe you and her could just hang out for an afternoon with some of both of ur guys friends so that they could all get to know each other and then you guys could start hanging out again! but i mean if shes not willing to do that tho u prolly dont need her ne ways *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
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listen sometimes things happen in life...u get lots of friends...n u lose lots of friends...thats how life is...expecially when u guys dont have the same group of friends...n everything...i think thats normal...so just get use to the idea that u wont b so close to her anymore..i mean if u see her or w/e its ok to still hang out wit her for a day or w/e but u'll see that it wont b the same as the back old dayz...b/c she has diff friends then u...n she will grow up differently then u...so u guys wont have stuff in common anymore...so...just move on...chill wit ur new friends ;) xoxo effy
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Well what you can do is just when you talk to her since you feel like she is a stranger ask her like what she has been doing ( stuff about her )
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Try calling her up or tell her this on AIM and say you want to hang out and then catch up on some good times. Tell her to bring pictures along of her friends and you'll do the same because then you guys will know who you two are talking about. But I would hang out with her so you two still can be friends. Hope this helps!!
xoxo Kourtney
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Just call her up and ask her to hang out, you probably still have a bunch of things in common
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