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i hjave this friend that i love very much but the things she talks about somtimes i dont beleve are truthful..i know if i confront her then she'll get mad and not want to talk to me and say i think shes a liar so whats the point but i dont like being lied to..what should i do?
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good question .. it's not fun being called a liar or her thinking you're a liar. actually it hurtsz really bad :/ just sit down with her and maybe talk about those things. if it gets to the point where she gets mad move on to something else.
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okay there is this guy and we are really good friends! He comes over and stuff and we just hang out and have the BEST times! We can talk to each other about anything! We have such a good friendship! I was thinking about him the other day...i might like him! I think it might be wierd though, and he hasnt given me any signs about him feeling that way... i don't think so at least. But i don't know if i should give him hints as to taking it to a higher level, and if i should then how should i do it?? HELP ME PLEASE! (link)
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if its hurting you inside to keep it in then you need to tell him .. but if you think it will hurt your relationship as friends then maybe don't. you don't wanna lose a friend. it hurts.
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my mate has fallen out wiv me and i dont no y.we was at dancing and i went to say hi and she just flipped.i really wanna be mates wiv her.can ne 1 give me advice as to become mates wiv her agen? (link)
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if you really want her back then talk to her .. it sucks really bad to lose a friend. you dont wanna have to go through that.
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my bff just told me she was liking gurls. do I treat her different, or the same? help me.
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i think this is the stupidest question not to be rude because the first thing you said was "my bff" if shes your BFF then why do you care who she likes? treat her the same! unless you wanna lose your bff .. good luck
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On a family vacation, down at my aunts house, they own a farm in oregon. THey have these beautiful hourses, but one inperticual caught my eye. We rode them all day, and into the early evening. Later that night, my cousins and I were playing spin the bottle . It was my turn, I spun not knowing where it would land. It landed on the horses barn, everyone laughed. I spun again and it landed on my older cousin Bradley. We made out fer a little bit, that didnt satisfy me. I knew what i had to do. Later that night, when everyone fell asleep, I went to the barn and found my *friend* I started to stroke its mane I got aroused. I started to grope it, head to tail. I jumped on top , humping with all my might. That wasnt enough for me or the pony. I hopped back off, and found something i must have missed before, long and firm, it was beyond human. I bet you can figure out what me and my mouth did that night. The next morning, my mom was ?ing me about the encounter, what do I do?! And is it wrong that i enjoyed it? please help me (link)
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tell your mom the truth! don't lie to her! doing stuff w/ a horse isn't what some people would do but if thats what floats your boat then go for it! good luck!
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my friend tina looks way older for her age and she is 13 and older guys like in their 20s hit on her. and we went to the movies by ourselves i though we were going to get raped because these guys were following us around all nite and she told them i was 17 but im 13 and i dont even think i look 15 how could i pull of 17!
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that always happens to me :P all you have to do is tell the guys to bug off! if they're smart they'll leave you alone! if they're not go to an adult and tell them that they won't leave you alone! and pullin off a 17 isnt that hard! your friend shouldn't have done that tho! good luck!
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OKAY MY FRIEND J.B CALLED JOSH(B/F) AND J.B WAS LIKE MAN KRISTEN IS GETTING ON MY NEVEES AND J.B WAS JUST SAYING THAT SO JOSH WOULD BELIEVE HIM SO THAN WHEN J.B SAID THAT JOSH WAS LIKE YEA SHE IS GETTING ON MY NERVES TOO AND THAN J.B SAID SO U GOING TO BRAKE UP OKAY MY FRIEND J.B CALLED JOSH(B/F) AND J.B WAS LIKE MAN KRISTEN IS GETTING ON MY NEVEES AND J.B WAS JUST SAYING THAT SO JOSH WOULD BELIEVE HIM SO THAN WHEN J.B SAID THAT JOSH WAS LIKE YEA SHE IS GETTING ON MY NERVES TOO AND THAN J.B SAID SO U GOING TO BRAKE UPTO SMOKE SOME MORE AND I TOLD JOSH I DO NOT WANT HIM SMOKEING THAT AND I REALLY DO NOT WANT HIM LIEING TO ME AT ALL!!i really need help now can someone help me! (link)
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same thing happened with me! all you need to do is sit down with Josh first and tell him that smoking could hurt him and you care about him and ask him what you did to get on his nerves & say your sorry and you'll change then sit your "friend" JB down who obviously isnt your friend if he's gonna do that kinda crap and ask him how you got on his nerves and why he called your bf josh! then try and get stuff back to normal! good luck!
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okay, there are these little boys i babysit for, and they are devils. i always try and to different activities *(crafts, cooking, movies, games)* with them, but they never like my ideas..what can i do with them? (link)
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ask them what they like to do and if its a little too wild then try and compromise and do something like it! good luck!
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Hey..
me and my friend are together in a babysitting job and we love children so much and we just already let out flyers one,last year and once just recently the next year..on the 1st year flyer given out..no1 responded..the 2nd year one responded..liked our job..gave us $20 each for 1 1/2 hours...i know.. alot..o well..lol..back to the subject..ever since that day..no1 has responded..what should we do? send out more flyers or keep waiting or quit caring..what should we do??
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you should place an ad in a paper bcuz alot of people read the paper! that will get you more publicity! good luck!
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Hi see well I have this Boyfriend who cares for me tomuch!!! I mean love him and all but he gets to protective!!!! what should i do , I dont want to be mean to him either what should I do???????????? (link)
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sit him down and tell him that he doesn't need to be so protective and that your stronger then he thinks! if he loves you as much as he says then he'll understand! good luck!
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im 14/f and i REally like this boy he is soo cute, and we alway stare at each other, i know he likes me to,and im older then him by 2years.is that bad?im just 2 shy to tell him how i feel.HELP MEH!!! (link)
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aww! you guys like each other right? then age doesn't matter! "age ain't nothin but a number!" its not bad! and tell him how you feel! he likes yoU! go for it! good luck!
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okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time and now he told me that he likes me back and he says that he wants to have sex with me but im scared cuz it will b my very first time and i don't knoe if i want to loose that respect for myself this early in my life im only 13. and this boy is kinda a player but ive liked him for a long time and now that i knoe he likes me back i don't want to do n e thing that will ruin this. please help me
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if he does like you then he won't pressure you to have sex! just tell him you want to wait .. maybe hook up and get to know him better and then maybe you'll be ready! one word for you also --> trojan :) good luck!
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I'm 13 ans my boyfriend is 17 is that wrong? I love him and he loves me and he is super nice to me and does not nag me about sex he said its all up to me and we have talked about all that! So is it wrong???? (link)
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its not wrong if you love him but you'll have to have sex before he turns 18 or he can go to jail for it when hes 18! but be careful and use protection! good luck!
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my dad raped me. should i tell my mom, he said he would hrt me if i did. what do i do? thanx, gracie (link)
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whoa, your dad has something wrong with him hun! and you should tell your mom and the police and the same time! the police won't let your dad hurt you! thats satchatory rape! i hope you chose the right way! good luck!
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well i like this kid nd he likes me nd wen i talk to him he sometimes tells me to tell people im his cuzin nd shit - he dose have a girl but i dont no her ?! y u think he sayin to tell people that ?! PLEASE HELP !! (link)
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he must like his girlfriend alot because if he's telling you to tell people that then he doesnt want anyone to know he likes you! which is WAYYY wrong so i don't think you should even bother with him! at least not until he's single! good luck!
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Ok So 6 guys like me.. i think its because i'm a freshman and older guys want to go out with me cuz i'm new or whatever,. i already know 3 of the guys ,. the other guys i met at camp or the races,. and talk on the phone.. ok the problem is.. while i was talking about all these guys i have a guy already..of about 2 years off n on ... I broke up with him 12 out of 15 times.. & no matter what we always run back to eachother,. its like trUe love.. haha ne ways.. these other guys got me thinking and i think it might be a good idea that we need to see other people.. =/ Since it is highschool ,.. but seroiusly,. a while back my guy said that if i dump him one more time that hes not coming back or go out with me again.. so now i'm afraid to lose him,. and what if hes the "one",... i'm so confused.. last night while i was talking to these 6 other guys on the internet i didnt even notice that my boyfriend was on =x opps? well we havent been talking Much,. we never get together? .. what should i do? i'll rate =)
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well, if you think this guyy is the "one" you want to be with for a while then forget about all those other guys! BUT if you think you need to take a break and see other people for a while then you need to do that because holding onto something you kind of don't want right now will bring you down! and you're right running back to each other is great! i mean you guys must really like each other! but right now it may be a good time to just take a break from each other and then in the long run see if you guys end up running back to each other and if you don't then it isn't ment to be!! good luck!!
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Hey...I have a big problem. I have a major crush on like everyone in my friends family. Her stepdad, her 2 younger brothers and even her mom. Im not sure if its because i hate my own family so much but i am seriously in love with all of them and would die to get my hands on her step dad. He flirts with me a lot and it makes my friend uncomforable. What should i do? Because I still want to be her friend but I want a relationship with her stepdad even more. I know my friends mom wouldnt mind sharing and that her younger brothers would understand that I want a more mature man in my life. I guess if it doesnt work out with him, i can go to the brtohers but the stepdad just makes me feel sooo special. I get chills when i see him! What should i do to keep my friend and get it on with her stepdad? Thanks soo much!
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im pretty sure this came from a crew/softball player :P but anyways you can't have a relationship w/ the stepdad bcuz you're too young and if you go to her brothers then your friend will get very angry and prolly not be your friend anymore!
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ok i think im fat but my friends think that im like really skinny. and so does my friends mom. she always says "god look how skinny she is" and i cnat stand it. its not like i wanna be fat but i dont like to be considered like a tooth pick whne i think im fat. wut do i do? (link)
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first of all why do you think you're fat? and if you don't like them calling you skinny or a toothpick ask them nicely to stop and say that you don't like that. good luck!
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Hey, guys! I'm supposed to call this guy I like back in ten minutes. We're not dating, but we can both tell it will happen soon. He asked to see me again, and we couldn't come up with things to do. He said we could go swimming, but I'm not the most confident person, and I wouldn't feel comfortable swimming infront of him. I don't want to tell him this, because it's highly embarrassing and something I just wish to keep to myself. I know you could tell me that if I can't tell him something like this a relationship wouldn't be good, I just don't feel like it's his business. Can someone please tell me what to say to him, or suggest another outing? Please help me!! (link)
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if you don't think it's his business then thats quite alright but he'll need to know sometime! maybe tell him that you're not comfortable swimming or swimming is just not your thing and if he asks why tell him you wouldn't like to talk about it! or just stick to doing something else! a bike ride? even a walk would be good! good luck!
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i like this boy a lot i mean iv liked him for like 2 years how do i make him fall in love with me.? ps he kinda likes me but i want him to like me more
ps.... what questions are good to ask a 14 year old boy? (link)
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hang out more and get to know each other better! and good questions are: family, friends, likes/dislikes, faves, or anything that goes with that! good luck!
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