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Hey, guys! I'm supposed to call this guy I like back in ten minutes. We're not dating, but we can both tell it will happen soon. He asked to see me again, and we couldn't come up with things to do. He said we could go swimming, but I'm not the most confident person, and I wouldn't feel comfortable swimming infront of him. I don't want to tell him this, because it's highly embarrassing and something I just wish to keep to myself. I know you could tell me that if I can't tell him something like this a relationship wouldn't be good, I just don't feel like it's his business. Can someone please tell me what to say to him, or suggest another outing? Please help me!!
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hi, well i kno that u already prolly gone out wit him now n w/e w/e...but if another occasion comes up n u guys dont know wut to do ...then just go play pool...even though u dont know how...SO WUT...go for fun...plus u'll have more fun if u dont know how...go bowling or...watch a movie...hang out together...go out wit friends...go to partys i dunno stuff like dat...n when u go to the pool u dont have to swim u could just chill there n get a tan! talk to him...n stuff...u know or get in to the water n talk to him...just b/c u go to da pool dont mean u have to swim ;) hope i helped even though i'm a lil late ;) xoxo effy
if anything else or w/e then holla at yr gurl :-P
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man o man!DEF kno where ur coming from!gosh!my ex asked me to go swimming one time before we starting dating and i was like yeah rite..i dont want him to c me in a bikini just yet..i mean u gotta get used to them before they can get all that greatness!how bout the movies?or the mall?those always do me just fine!:-D!lyl babe!
xO.Letty Lee!
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if you don't think it's his business then thats quite alright but he'll need to know sometime! maybe tell him that you're not comfortable swimming or swimming is just not your thing and if he asks why tell him you wouldn't like to talk about it! or just stick to doing something else! a bike ride? even a walk would be good! good luck!
hope i helped xOx .. rate me please!
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Just because you cant tell him that doesnt mean it would reflect on your relationship, some things are personal and you like to keep them to yourself! Try going to the movies say 'Well theres a really good film i wanted to watch.. id prefer to go there.. how about it?!' Good luck :)
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Go to the mall or a movie or my fave... go-karting :)-trix
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go out to luch that way you can talk and no ones half naked!!
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Being uncomfortable is a normal part of being in a relationship. Both sides have to be step out of their comfort zone every once in a while. I know its hard, but be confident in yourself and go swimming with him. Whats the worst that could happen?
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