Hi see well I have this Boyfriend who cares for me tomuch!!! I mean love him and all but he gets to protective!!!! what should i do , I dont want to be mean to him either what should I do????????????
Diddy_Kong_Racer answered Thursday July 15 2004, 3:48 pm: Well do not tell him directly to stop being so overpretective becuz no doubt he will be sad and possibly embarrassed. You can never love some one too much i always say so just be really nice and tell him that you really wanna go wherever you want or need to go.
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BrittanYmARIe answered Thursday July 15 2004, 3:38 pm: you should tell him not to be so overprotective..tell him you need your space..and tell him that you love him and that you love that he care enough to protect you so much to..plz rate me!! [ BrittanYmARIe's advice column | Ask BrittanYmARIe A Question ]
bRuNettEwOndEr34 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 12:54 pm: Well, being that you love him, breaking up isnt going to be an option. So the only other choice that will let you loose a little bit is to just talk to him and tell him how you feel. Kinda try to tell him what you just told everyone here. Just be like okay i really love you and everything, and i realyl want to be together but i feel like your being a little overprotective of me or something like that whatever comes to mind at the time. If he loves you like it sounds like he does, he will change anything just to not get you to dump him, trust me he will.... Good Luck..!!
beCca_bOo answered Thursday July 15 2004, 11:38 am: Ha. It sounds like someone i know! if you really like this guy, i would still give him a chance. but if you decide that its too much protection (which a little is fine!) then i would talk to him. It could be that he just loves you a lot!
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MissJ1414 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 10:35 am: Just do what you want and then if he gets mad tell him how you feel. And maybe yall can work something our ya kno like come to an agreement. [ MissJ1414's advice column | Ask MissJ1414 A Question ]
InLoVex3 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 9:30 am: sit him down and tell him that he doesn't need to be so protective and that your stronger then he thinks! if he loves you as much as he says then he'll understand! good luck!
xosweetpea03 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 9:24 am: hmm...an overprotective boyfriend can get relle annoying .. i think you should just tell him how you feel .. and if that doesnt get thru to him youre gonna have to tell him to lay off and quit acting like your mom or hes gonna have to go! good luck =) [ xosweetpea03's advice column | Ask xosweetpea03 A Question ]
liddlehillxo answered Thursday July 15 2004, 9:04 am: maybe you should talk to him and tell him that he shouldn`t be too protective and care for you so much, explain how you would like to continue going out with him but he needs to give you some space.. if he likes you as much as you say he does he`ll understand [ liddlehillxo's advice column | Ask liddlehillxo A Question ]
queenbianca2004 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 8:32 am: well write a list of pros and cons and throw it away and follow your heart!!
butterfly004 answered Thursday July 15 2004, 8:18 am: He's possesive about you cuz he thinks that if he doesn't love u enough you'll leave him and that's gonna be a real heart breaker for him.So the best thing you can do is reassure him that you're his as many times as possible.This will not only increase the depth of your love,he will be sure that your not gonna leave him!!Best of luck...
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DruidX answered Thursday July 15 2004, 6:03 am: I think you should sit down and talk with your b/f. tell him the times he gets to protective, and ask him gently to stop doing it so much. Assure him, that you like to know you are protected, but he doesn't have to go overboard.
ClurBur answered Thursday July 15 2004, 5:56 am: Tell him that your not comfortable with him being protective and you arent going to do anything behind his back etc, basically tell him how you feel [ ClurBur's advice column | Ask ClurBur A Question ]
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