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mmk. i really like this guy i met on a cruise, and he lives about two hours away. he's 3 years older than me, and is in college. i realllllly want to date this boy, but i'm not sure if the distance will work out. BLAH. he's coming to visit me really soon, but i know i'll be attached when he leaves again. should i just call the whole thing off, and prevent any future heartbreak now, or should i atleast give this a chance.
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If you both find a way, and really love eachother, then distance isn't a problem! :) But if your not sure, have doubts, then don't go out with him.
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if he really loves you the way you love him, than it will work. the distance may even pull you closer.
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Well if you really like this guy then go for it. I wouldn't call it off because that's like not trying. Long distance relationships can be hard put you'll get through it.
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Here is a question, are you in college, or still in highschool. Peoples mind frames are so different between highschool and college. That frist year of college people chage so much. I say you wait a while because you are walking into a new chapter of you life, and you don't want to ruin that experience by trying to starting a long distance relationship with someone. I think it would really hold you back to some wonderful new expericnces.
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If you think you can handle the worry that he's met another girl, and the stress of a long-distance relationship, then go for it. If he really likes you, and you like him, you two will make an effort to keep in contact. Give him a chance. You can always call it off if it doesn't work out.
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Rather to love and lost then to never love at all.
Sound familar? Honey don't call it off, if he caught your eye on the cruise then there must be something about him worth keeping around. Many long-distance relationships work out great! Even if it wasn't meant to be, at least you won't have the "what if I had stuck with it" nagging you later. Give it a shot and have fun!
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Aww no dont call it off, i think if it was me id give it a chance and he's obviously making the effort to come and see ya and thats a good thing! Good luck
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