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Best friend/boyfriend
My best friend that is a boy likes me, we have been really close for like 2 years now. And hes obcessed and even tells my boyfriend how lucky that my boyfriend is that he has me, is there anyway i can get him to lay off a bit without hurting his feelings? Cuz hes always there for me and idont wanna loose him as a best friend, but i dont want him as more than that..
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Tell him what you told me at the end you dont want to lose him as a best friend and your all flattered and stuff that he likes u but you like your bf alot and you dont want to risk losing him as a good friend-trix
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Just be like "You know I have a boyfriend that I really like and you're just my best friend who is always there for, you're only my best friend and always will be JUST my best friend." Just say something like that. And just tell him you like your boyfriend and ONLY your boyfriend. Hope that helps!! Good luck =D
xoxo Kourtney
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be like well ur a nice guy but i rlly hav feelings for my bf sry but it's true n ur such a good friend a relationship might ruin that n i dont wanna lose mybest friend
~*~*~TINA~*~*~
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Just tell him that you feel uncomfortable around him saying all that! i dont think youd loose a friend by saying that :)
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It would be impossible to not hurt his feelings. You have to be honest with him though, considering the fact that he's your best friend. Since he's obsessed, he might be in this friendship just to try to date you if it doesn't work out with your boyfriend. I know it sounds terrible, but it does happen. Talk to him about how you feel, if he's not just in this to date you, he'll understand. You won't lose him over something like this if he really does value your friendship.
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