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my dad raped me. should i tell my mom, he said he would hrt me if i did. what do i do? thanx, gracie
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yea you should tell!! my name is gracie to!!! ;)!
yea go tellll he will get put in jail and so he can*t hert you!
x3 GrAcIe!
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yes you need to tell someone..your mom wont let your dad hurt you...this doesnt happen all the time so you really need to do something...you should really press charges even though you love him and hes your dad but he didnt something really wrong so you should tell someone before he does it again
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call the police....then once they come tell ur mom...get away from ur dad...u gotta do this. i know its scary just relax and do the right thing, dont let ur father scare u! call the police! cuz ur mom will talk to ur dad and he will be able to coome to u and hurt u...if u call the police then they will come and ur mom will know and it will be too late for ur dad to hurt u. im praying for ya...
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get OUT OF THAT HOUSE. if you are not safe in your own home, GO SOMEWHERE ELSE. go to a teacher or someone, where your father cannot find you and hurt you. then tell authorities! you need to watch out for your mother. if your father can do that to YOU, what can he do to HER? make sure both of you are out of harm's way before you take action. safety comes first in creating your own justice. tell me how it turns out. hiwatari_gurl@yahoo.com.
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you need to tell ur mom rite away. that may not be comfortable for u so if it isn't u need to tell someone, prob. the police.
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u should definitly tell ur mom.. tats way serious.. n he said tat so u wont tell but he aint gonna do nuttin.. tell sum 1 quick b4 he does it again! gud luk xoxo angie
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tell someone.. you need out of that house..! tell an adult any adult just tell!
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tell anyone! not talking about it does worst
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telll ure mom
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i think u should...he has no reason to do that & he should get in trouble...u wouldnt want him to do that to some1 else do u? TELL ON HIM PLEZZZ..FOR YOUR OWN SAKE
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gracie, this is one of the hardest things for anyone to go through being raped is not easy for anyone. but when it's a family member that's even worse because this is supposed to be someone that you can trust not someone that you have to be afraid of. do yourself a favor, wait until you can be alone in the house or anywhere with your mother, tell her and don't be afraid, there's a chance that it might get blamed on you or you might think it's your fault, well let me tell you now, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT! tell your mom and then call the police. it's not safe for you or any siblings you might have to have your father in your house if he can't be trusted. he needs help but not only that you need help to, a situation like this can do a lot of damage to your self-esteem as well as effect your future relationships with any men. please for your own sake tell someone before it's to late and never ever blame yourself. remember your mother won't judge you and no one else will either.
*~*shan*~*
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okay tell someone bc this is serious your mom .. the police.. whoever
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im very sorry that, that had happened too you. i think you should deffinatly tell your mom, so your father can get help.
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TELL SOMEONE RIGHT AWAY!! you should tell your mom imediatly he could do this again do u want that? if you tell someone he can be put away and never do it to you again-- if u need any help at all my e-mail is sweetazcandy8d9@aol.com
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Better to tell someone than bare with it. He could do it again, which is why he wants you to keep quite. Let your voice be heard, ROAR!
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Dear Gracie, You should definetly tell your mom not even her but even the police because that a serious crime once you tell them they'll take him away and put him in jail so he wont hurt you
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Tell you mother befor it is to late he cant hurt you if he is in jail now can he ! this is a very seriouse matter next time he try's call 911 immidiatly!
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Gracie,
This is a very serious matter and it has to be delt with before it goes too far. Yes, you should tell your mother! No one deserves to live like that. Tell your mom right away!
Hope this helps~Good luck!
*Bethany*
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whoa, your dad has something wrong with him hun! and you should tell your mom and the police and the same time! the police won't let your dad hurt you! thats satchatory rape! i hope you chose the right way! good luck!
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U should deffienty tell ur mom and if ur dad trys to hurt u call child aduse. Im really sorry about that tho but really u need to tell somebody even if it not ur mom maybe a concilor or sum1 older who u feel good talking to. well keep me updated what u decide to do.
best wishes erin
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ok u deffinatly need to tell your mom, or another adult NOW! this is something serious that he could be sent to jail for.
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wow gracie this is a hard question to answer! but if i were you i would tel your mom and have him arrested and then he cant hurt you. no one should have that done to them and if you dont tell someone then hell probably keep raping you. so if i were you i would tell someone but thats your choice.
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Yes tell her right away.you could get sick with some diseases just tell ur mom that he raped you and that we need to go because he said if i tell you then he will hurt me
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You need 2 tell ur mom this is a serious matter!!!!!!How could he rape u your his daughter!When you tell ur mom and if she doesnt beilve Call the police and they will take care o everything!!!
i hope i gave the best advice huh i wish u the best of luck and i mean it!!!
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Absolutly tell your mom and the police this is serious. Go to the police and they will take u and your mom away from the police so he can never hurt u agin
i wish u the best of luck
~*~*TINNA*~*~
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Deffinetly tell your mom. He wont be able to hurt you if you get the heck outa that situation!! Tell your mom, and even the police. He's your dad and its not good at all for dads to do that!!
xoxo
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telll ther freaking police (unless you live in kentucky or arkansas then its ok)
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Tell your mom. This is a serious matter, I think you should also tell an authority figure and prosicute your dad. This is something to tell someone about, you cant keep this a secret. And I don't think your dad ment he will hurt you because they just say that so they won't get caught and in trouble for what they have done. So tell someone before your dad does it again.
*Zoe*
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TELL YOUR MOM NOW!!!!!!!!!!! HE RAPED YOU!!!!!!! How could he do that to you!? Your his daughter! TELL YOUR MOM NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
--Julie
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heck ya hun you schould call child protective service on your dad he shouldnt be doing that to you!!and dont be scared you will be ok1!
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definitely!! if you dont he could go for it agin and thahs not a good thing!! the sooner the better...ya noe?
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I have been raped b4 and its not fun . You should like tell somebody you trust and they should do something ( if that dosent work call the police i know you love your dad but it is for the best )
Love Ashley , ~ plz rate me ~
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That happaned to my friend. She threatened to tell her mom and her dad did the same thing but she had to tell her but she isnt allowed to see her dad anymore not for awhile anyways but everybody else can she cant talk to him and she said she is better off this way because she doesnt have to put up with the pain anymore but she just misses the "old dad" of hers but she'll see him in a few years now... and you should go about the same route so i would tell your mom fast just do it when its just you to in or something like shopping or in the car-trix
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*PLEASE tell your mom that is the most #1 important thing you can do!!!*
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You should tell your mom. Or go to a police station and tell them. The thing your dad did to you is really bad! If you tell your mom, she might move out with everyone but him so he wont hurt you or anyone else anymore. But please! tell somebody please! he might do it again to you. So report this to some kind of figure you can trust!
*BROOKIE*
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* OMG!!! i feel so sry for u* i hope u r OK* yes tell ur mom and also call this # 800-656-4673* its teh abuse & incest national network*no offence and all but ur dad is an assh*le* if u dont wanna tell ur mom tell and adult u feel confident with*
<3 Alwayz,
*Anggie*
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hunny, YES tell your mother when he's not around. it as a crime. you have to inform an adult!
~*~Natalie~*~
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Yeah tell your mom, ask her not to say anything to him about it, go to the police, once he is in their hands he wont be able to hurt you...
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Gracie,
Tell your mom as soon as you can. He told you that he would hurt you to intimidate you. Rape is very much about exerting power over the powerless. It is very damaging, and you will need medical and mental attention. I am sorry that this awful thing happened to you. Please take care of yourself. Its going to be a hard row to hoe with this one, so be as strong as you can.
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im sorry to hear that, but did u enjoy it? did he finger you?
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i KNOW that you should tell your mom because if he does it once he will most likely do it again or you could talk to the police and if you talk to your mom and make her promise not to say anything till charges are pressed then your dad will never know that you told and cant hurt you
~jessica~
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I really think you should tell someone. Your dad shouldn't have raped you. What he did was wrong. Talk to you mom. Tell her what happened and tell her that you're afraid he'll try and hurt you. And ask her to take you to the police or someone who can help you. This shouldn't have happened and you should never keep quiet about it. Get help asap. I hope I helped!
-Chloe-
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*YeS tell your mom as soon as possible! even though he said not to tell her, you need to! Whenever you and your mom are together and your dads not around tell her so it can get taken care of! He could end up doing it to you again in the future so you need to tell her so it doesnt! It was wrong what he did so tell her for your own sake!! Best of luck!* xOxO Kaela <3
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yeh you need to tell her.. he might keep doing it again and again and again.. and tell her what he told you.. and why you werent supposed to say anything.. its serious.
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Omg babe yes! If you don't tell her tell SOMEONE! Cuz he won't stop you need to tell someone or else it's just gonna keep going babe tell your mom tell ANYONE! let me know how things go im me @ kissxme321 and rate me!
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Uhm Like tell your mom that you and her need to go out somewhere together ( like the mall ) and tell her in the car on the way there so that way yall wont be at home with your dad at the time. Then yall can go to the police and they can take care of it and yall will be protected. Just dont tell your mom at home because she will want to confront him, and that could get ugly. Make shure yall are outta the house and dont go back home until the police have taken care of things.
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